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    Need a reality check and some help breaking up.

    Well, I'm planning on going ahead with the move and working things out against what some of you believe to be better judgment. I have to admit that when I wrote that first post, I definitely was at a pretty low point mentally. I've since snapped out of that rut almost completely. I confronted...
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    Need a reality check and some help breaking up.

    I was fortunate enough to have a decent revenue stream coming in at the time and I was able to work remotely. She also contributed a lot herself. We weren't too luxurious with our travels, we camped out and slept in the back of my truck most of the time while making stops at hotels when we got...
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    Need a reality check and some help breaking up.

    You're right that healing from a break-up takes time. I have gone through many in the past. I'm just really worried about how much this one is going to hurt when I hit the ground. The more potent the relationship, the harder you fall.
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    Need a reality check and some help breaking up.

    I've been with my current girlfriend for about six months now. It seems like a lot longer than that, but I was spinning about three plates before we both decided to make it official, and after weighing my options very carefully I decided that this one was a quality girl worth my time. I don't...
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    On the second date -- Finding the root of my stagnation

    Imo the best way to kiss close is in the middle of laughter. Catch her off guard and just go in for it. You want the kiss to immediately follow a positive reaction.
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    Girl I am seeing...HELP

    Good call. It's obvious she's just enjoying her new found freedom. Her intrest level in you may have dwindled for multiple reasons. She may be seeing somebody else, the intense connection that you both once had may be starting to die out a little bit, or she took "this seeing period is getting...
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    How do these guys get away with this?

    Haha. For those of you who didn't catch it, TheRealSupreme edited his last post with yet even more information to defend himself, likely because he felt threatened by my especially harsh critique. The new edit includes posts of mine that were made over two years ago to paint me as a complete AFC...
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    How do these guys get away with this?

    No problem. So a random ass photobucket album with a couple fat middleaged chicks on your lap is supposed to convince me that you've reached the top of the game in having power and total control? LOL. Drop your big daddy ego. You're a fat, bald, 30something who prays on desparate divorcees at...
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    How do these guys get away with this?

    Yeah? Really? How about we go out one night and I can show you how inept I am. I'm in Chicago. I'll give you my number and we can meet up one night. You all need to step back and realize something. Just because these people on facebook are in a relationship and post lovey-dovey status...
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    How do these guys get away with this?

    This is going to be a long, informative post. This is fundamentally bad advice. As an inherently social species, we are surrounded by people nearly every day of our life. The synergy and connections that we create between other human beings forge us into who we are. The fact we all belong to a...
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    First post, need quick advice for tomorrow

    You don't need any advice based on what you just told us. Every itteration of your chain of thought is spot on. The only thing you have left to do is physical escalation. I understand that this is your first post and and an introduction to the rest of the community, so welcome. The only thing...
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    Had our first fight

    Look man. You've already reached end game. I would be surprised if this lasts any longer than a month. She's not interested in you anymore.
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    confused

    I don't know if I'm misinterpreting this, but it sounds to me like she's saying that when she does find the time to see you, she plans to take the entire day off. Which would obviously mean she wants to see you and that her interest level is high. I don't think she's flaking.
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    One of My FBs called out my "withdraw" from her

    Ignore her madness. The more she starts talking about topics like this the more you should just ambiguously pull away or reroute the conversation to some sort of humorous topic. Avoid any sort of negative frame like the conversation that you both had and focus on eliciting emotion from her...
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    Question about girl, and her friends experiences.

    She's lying to you. I'm sure she's done all sorts of crazy sh*t in her life, and there are likely some things that she just doesn't plan on telling you about any time soon. That's a fact of life when it comes to almost all attractive women. Aknowledge that she probably has a healthy amount of...
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    Ugly chicks jealous of my GF and Me, act like b!tches to us.

    I would have immediately at the first offense swam over and started talking to the girls, firmly making it clear that I have no tolerance for that sort of idiocy. They saw that you did absolutely nothing with each successive attempt at pissing you off--hence why they kept going. While...
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    Anyone else here just simply ASSUME that all girls like them?

    That's a good frame to enter an interaction with. I never go into a conversation looking for IOIs or any sort of other cues, at least consciously. The idea is to make the interaction initially feel comfortable, light hearted, and then ultimately to gain enough rapport to close. How you approach...
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    LJBF and cooling off period

    Sounds painful man. She must have a pretty big, gaping ass. Waiting around for a woman is not something DJ's do. Don't wait. But I will say that since you have had sexual contact with her in the past, she may not view you as innocuously as a plush toy, it's more likely that she is just quite...
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    LJBF and cooling off period

    Just assume she'll think of you as a cuddly plush-toy forever and find another woman.
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