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Hmm, low interest and flakey...what to do, what to do...oh yeah, NEXT.

I agree with what you're saying about building confidence to approach, but as you say you also need experience to "take on the champion". How do you get that experience? By approaching. How do you start approaching? For some guys they need some crutches like the 3 second rule. I see the point...

The way you can set yourself is apart is how you approach, and the fact that you approach at all. Peacocking might help you get some IOI, but rarely are girls going to come to you regardless of what you do.

LOL, I would say yes. However I recommend you think twice about the whole peacocking thing. Sure, you can get people to notice you by looking like a clown, but that isn't the sort of attention I want myself. I'm getting more attention from women than I ever have, and here are the main...

Your first mistake is thinking she is a ***** for what happened. The problem is you - she was giving you lots of hints and signs that you weren't able to read. Forget about her and move on to meeting some new people. Money isn't the only reason to work. Find some purpose for your life...

Big ups to you. Better to go to bed alone with your balls intact. I know what you mean about your younger self. Ever heard the song "Ooh la la" by the Faces? Says it all.

I hear you. Getting past all your fear and anxiety is way harder than actually having a conversation with a girl. You just have to make that first step. Here's the thing though. You can wake up tomorrow, and decide "Today, no matter what, I'm going to have a conversation with a girl. I don't...

Hmm, you're not giving much details about the conversation, but it sounds like they clearly started with high IL, and you screwed something up. The one bit of advice I can offer from what you wrote is get the phone number instead of (or in addition to) the e-mail. Your clothes weren't the...

I think you're missing/ignoring the point. When guys are starting out with this the 3 second rule helps them get into a conversation. Once they have a couple and realize they can do this it *builds* their confidence. I agree that it takes more than memorizing a bunch of rules, but if you take...

Boxing, dance lessons, lifting weights, kayaking, guitar, going to events (beer festival, BBQ, etc). If you're bored just start trying new things until you find something you like.

No kidding. You're high school age I'm guessing?

Dude, you were clearly advocating lying: On the topic of respect, my point wasn't that she had earned his respect, my point was he shouldn't go out of his way to do ill to her just for an ego boost or revenge. Act with class out of respect to *yourself*.

Um, yeah, it says she wants a socially well-adjusted extrovert. That's a pretty reasonable way to qualify. Your attitude is that you want a sex toy and you're not interested in relationships on any deeper level. You can find woman that will go for that but realize woman are pretty intuitive...

First off, thanks for starting this thread, this is an interesting point of view. So what? Attractive women will always have men pursuing them. That is a false choice. Friend enrich your life. Having great friends is part of having a great life. Examine your motive for having friends...

I think you have oneitus and you need to find other woman to date. You wouldn't be wasting your time be drawing up battle plans if you had a couple high interest woman on the hook.

My translation: you've been friend zoned and she is blowing you off. Most women don't like direct conflict so you're unlikely to get a honest answer if you ask that, and it makes you seem needy and desperate. She'll probably keep giving you mixed messages and wait for you to get a clue...

Ever heard the saying treat others how you want to be treated? Being a DJ doesn't mean having no respect for others.

So you're recommending he lie to make himself seem more attractive to someone he doesn't want to see anymore? Yeah, that would display a lot of integrity and character.

Letters are BS. Keep it simple. Meet her somewhere, say you don't think she is a good match for you, and you've decided to move on. THE END. Don't play 20 questions, you don't have to explain yourself. Depending on how much you care about her you can console her for a bit, but just...

Well, your journal is a bit underwhelming as well. "I could've approached. I didn't". Rinse repeat. Now don't get me wrong brother, I'm behind ya. But get at it. Maybe try somewhere that woman are stationary for a bit. Go to a park with benches.