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    Love Is Always Conditional

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    Xmas gift after 1.5 Months?

    A candle, a book, a picture frame for a tabletop or desk, or perhaps a small bamboo plant (for luck and prosperity in the New Year).
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    "Grow up"

    The Perpetual Adolescent BY Joseph Epstein http://www.weeklystandard.com/Content/Public/Articles/000/000/003/825grtdi.asp
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    I love you, I’m leaving you?

    This statement shows a real disconnect in this area of your relationship - as a couple, the statement is: "our time to do this is limited". As you acknowledged, below, this disconnect exists - and it is KEY in her inability to remain at "rest" in your relationship and remain soft in the...
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    I love you, I’m leaving you?

    ok, so her two concerns she voiced are: 1. “I don’t trust her and 2. will never want another baby" and that is what I wanted to talk about a bit with you. Your behavior with her was not in alignment with the truth of your feelings for her then. This undermines the success of a relationship...
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    I love you, I’m leaving you?

    Question 1: Do you trust her? Question 2: Do you want to have another baby?
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    Definitions of man

    If by Rudyard Kipling If you can keep your head when all about you Are losing theirs and blaming it on you; If you can trust yourself when all men doubt you, But make allowance for their doubting too; If you can wait and not be tired by waiting, Or, being lied about, don't deal in...
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    Tiger to pay $750M in divorce!

    "... In return, former wife Elin Nordegren ,30, gets the biggest payout ever seen in a celebrity divorce. But she can never publicly speak out over his alleged flings with socialite Rachel Uchitel, reality star Jaimee Grubbs, porn queen Joslyn James and up to 17 others. A pal said: "Elin is...
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    Girlfriend asked me for a "break/ open relationship",

    http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=126471&highlight=breaks
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    What do you tell a 20 year old who is contemplating abortion?

    From the American Cancer Society: http://www.cancer.org/docroot/cri/content/cri_2_6x_can_having_an_abortion_cause_or_contribute_to_breast_cancer.asp
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    I think its time i asked for help

    Grief It makes us feel like we have entire layers of skin ripped off our bodies and even the slightest hint of a breeze in the air brings us pain. The bitter wind of grief cuts us wide open and leaves us feeling defenseless, because we are. Be defenseless. Don't run, don't hide, don't...
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    Personal Boundaries

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    The Warrior's Scroll

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    It's only failure if you quit

    Very inspiring post, Biblebelt. Thank you. It reminded me of this poem: Dont Quit! When things go wrong, as they sometimes will, when the road you're trudging seems all uphill, When the funds are low and the debts are high, And you want to smile, but you have to sigh, When care is...
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    My wife rejecting my new ways...

    First of all, I never mentioned mutual respect. I did speak about the female need to respect a man in order to love him and also the element of hero worship in a woman's love for her Man. Your statement above, along with the one below, leaves me confused as to how you could consider me an...
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    My wife rejecting my new ways...

    BeyondCharm, That is not what I said at all... what I said is what I meant. I would appreciate it if you would not put words in mouth. Disagree with my beliefs regarding love, respect, or whether or not it is good judgement for him to choose this particular social activity if you like, but...
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    My wife rejecting my new ways...

    What I hear her talking about is this: Would you really be okay with your wife doing what you are doing? Is that the frame you are wanting your marriage to function under? Are you sure this is the behavioral rule you want to set up? Remember, in marriage ultimately your Woman will either...
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    Help with a sh!t test

    My first thought was for him to say: "You're welcome. You're welcome for me be willing to give some of my free time up to give you driving lessons. You're welcome for me letting you learn how to drive in my VW car and saving you the cost of having to rent a car. You're welcome for...
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