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    The sickness of the women in today's world

    To me - It would depend on the reason for the lack of happiness. If it's a lack of attraction - there's no resolve for that. There's no reason either side should want to resolve that. And I think most relationships end because of lack of attraction. Externally, other issues may arise (and...
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    The sickness of the women in today's world

    Not sure what the point of this post is. Men and Women should both leave relationships they're unhappy with; regardless of the investment they've made in time. Also, how people appear on social media sites is in no way reflective of how they are in reality.
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    Diagnose this plate for me

    This is what you're in for:
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    How many of guys on this site are married or have a good gf ?

    For 5-6 years of my life it was very normal for me to sleep with at least 1 new woman a week; there was some summer weekends where I'd rent a hotel room for the weekend and have a rotation of women coming to meet me (i was using online dating when it was being frowned on by most pua people; and...
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    Subliminal Messages - Help Decoding?

    Where do you want to go with this girl? Back when I was in my "fvck a different woman a week" phase - something like this would have had me running (hell, her struggling to orgasm through penetration would have turned me off). Because it was all about the sex; and any woman sending me stuff like...
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    Why can't we stop saying this nonsense about career/finances??

    For 7 years of my life (when i was single) - i lived slightly above the poverty line. Drove a POS car. Lived in a small house that was a slight upgrade over a shack. Had more invested in the liquor in my kitchen than I had savings in a bank account. And my life (outside of ****ing women) was...
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    First date after bpd ex looking for tips

    Just to clarify. I lived in the "country" during my time doing OLD. However, I was about a hour from 2 different cities (Baltimore and Philadelphia) and was about 5 minutes from a major college campus. So while I did live down a long dirt road, and in what basically looked like a shack - the #...
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    This is why I "hate" women, don't date, and have commitment issues

    This is the process of things. But does not mean you can treat her with respect after she's disrespected you. If you want a short break - you don't have to verbalize it. Just do it. Would have probably helped things. Friends with benefits cannot be consistent. Are rarely honest. And never...
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    This is why I "hate" women, don't date, and have commitment issues

    If this girl is a party girl (and she sounds like it) then it's not uncommon for them to feel resistance and anxiety when it seems like someone is developing feelings or a desire for a relationship with them. There's no doubt you came off this way to her; as well as needy. This is not...
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    Are most guys terrible in bed

    Yes to the title topic... But, sexless relationships don't normally have much to do with the quality of sex; as much as it does the quality of the relationship. Back in my "I only date girls who are taken" days - it wasn't uncommon to hear a woman say they were cheating because their boyfriend...
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    My Dyck Wouldn't Get Up - Questions

    Over the last 5 years - I've had similar things happen from time to time. Maybe 10 times total. It's not all that rare. In my case - it tends to happen with FWBs. The few times it happened with women the first time we were together - well; that spelled the end of that. Nothing we can really...
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    The sosuave community is too racially diverse to mod race topics

    Back in the day - sosuave was infected with Indian/Asian race trolls. AKA: Endless "I can't get women because I'm [one of those two races]" threads. I welcomed it when they said threads like that would not be allowed anymore. As far as racial discussions in general - they are in the same...
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    What's going on in her head??!!

    She's controlling the frame at every point. She's making the decisions. She's push-pulling. She's just working off the jumbled madness in her head.. so you get madness. Don't be confused by it. It's kind of what happens when you let her lead every step of the way. Only respect a woman's...
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    Girls with short hair---most freaky/best sex?

    There was a pretty common mantra around alt.seduction back in the day. It was basically "For the best sex - find a woman with LSE (low self esteem) and HSD (high sex drive). They will be crazy and undateable; but they will be the best candidates for ONS or FWB". The thing is Low-Self Esteem...
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    Quick Tips on using the online dating app "Tinder."

    I like 0 of OPs advice on how to interact with women on Tinder. But... http://www.bluestacks.com/ Should be able to get you on tinder from your laptop. I use it for a couple of games I play on my cell phone when I am on my computer. Pretty sure it works for apps.
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    I Dont recommend online dating sites for average/normal looking guys

    Well there's nothing earth shattering here... The best way to get responses from women online is to be attractive to them (not all women base this on looks; but a lot of them do). the better looking you are the easier it all is. It's the reality of the medium used. Most of everyone's initial...
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    I've settled down. Co-workers experience confirms all.

    So it's been over a year since I posted here. One of my last posts on here was about sleeping with a co-worker. I was a little freaked out by her seeming to be more into getting me into a relationship than she originally acted. I wasn't used to that because of the large quantity of hoes I'd...
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    Cows and Tattoos

    Tattoos are covering everyone's bodies these days. That fat girls/guys are just following the trend like the rest of this sheeple world - is not a story at all. Or anything I give any thought to. The article accompanying the pictures was mindless drivel though....
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    I miss you -the hamster has spun out of control

    At some point you're going to have to decide what you want to do. If you want to keep punishing her; or if you want to try again. There's going to be a certain point - she'll dissapear if you push this too much longer. If that's what you want or not? Only you know... The main warning is - even...
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    My (possibly ex) GF just sent me a text after 1 day NC?!

    And how many of those stories end well? Guys who use NC to get their ex back are using a tactic that ... But are not changing the issue (which is either themselves or the woman.) NC works best when you learn and move on to start over fresh with a new one.... So you use a tactic - maybe she...
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