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Great ideas and advice throughout the post by GreyFox

Great post from the DJ Bible

Well said. This forum has turned into borderline misogyny and so this post is worth a read to newcomers

Conversation 1 - I was walking from the gym at work and made eye contact with a girl walking into a Freshii. She stopped and turned around and complimented my look. I forced my way through the interaction and at one point just randomly blurted out words that had nothing to do with the...

Conversation 1 - I was walking from the gym at work and made eye contact with a girl walking into a Freshii. She stopped and turned around and complimented my look. I forced my way through the interaction and at one point just randomly blurted out words that had nothing to do with the...

Finished up Week 1 today with the rest of my Hello's/Hi's. Felt good to knock it out in two days. I want to keep conscious of people around me consistently through and I will start week 2 ASAP

Today I read all of the reading material for Chapter 1 of the Bootcamp and then went into the field. I walked around the streets, the park and a few grocery stores. I said hello to a sizeable amount of people and received responses from 31 people. If they didn't acknowledge me, then they could...

Today I read all of the reading material for Chapter 1 of the Bootcamp and then went into the field. I walked around the streets, the park and a few grocery stores. I said hello to a sizeable amount of people and received responses from 31 people. If they didn't acknowledge me, then they could...

Life is good. It could always be better though. The aim of this journal is to create more structure in my dating life so that I am actively getting better and 'working out' my social muscles. This isn't my first journal and so here are some from my past: Windy City 3 Windy City 2 Windy City...

I see you were online today. Where is the update? Have you at least listed some small goals that you can tackle to reach your larger goals? For example: Body Fundamentals Meal prep to avoid cheating on your diet Downloading an app to log your workouts and track your progress Look for a workout...

Good journal. Reading this reminds me of how little I have cold approached in the last few years. Spending way too much money in the club and consequently battling hangovers smh. Keep up the journal! Dating questions can be a good way to steer the convo to test the waters. One that I often use...

I think super-resistant Gonorrhea will lead to chastity and monogamy the same way AIDS led to an era of chastity and monogamy....

Bumpy couple of weekends recently. I have been a little trigger shy here and there. Gotta work on pushing my comfort level and being conscious of what I am doing/not doing in the field. I did have one new woman come to the crib after I met her at the club. I fell asleep when she arrived the...

^^^That day went pretty poorly. I planned on limiting alcohol intake but my friends met at a bar with $3 Jameson shots and started going in lol. Bumped into the girl I tried to date earlier in the summer and spent most of my time trying to make her jealous instead of trying to connect with other...

Congrats on getting laid. Anyone that offers you goodies in their car is either DTF or about to drug and kidnap you. Glad it was the latter lol. Wasting time with your old One-itis just erodes at your self-confidence and puts the focus on her whenever she shows up instead of the other girls you...

The last two days I was out and about but had a woman with me each time so I didn't really make any moves. I am heading to some parties in a bit so just doing a quick check-in so that I remember what to work on when I'm out in the field today. Additionally, I want to cut back on my drinking...

Online Dating Quick note here. Was bored after work one day and downloaded some apps for the first time in a good year or so. After a good week of trying this dating app life, I am ready to take another year off in terms of apps. I've gotten like one successful match out of the hundreds of...

Thanks for responding guys! It definitely helps to hear other people's perspective and to know that others are reading my journal keeps me honest. Reflecting on my last post some more... I think what hit me the hardest about club vs street approaching is what happened last weekend. I went...

Long time since I posted here. Got into a relationship for a month and some change before things fizzled out. Looking to get back into the swing of things and documenting my progress here to shorten my learning curve. I had a fruitful weekend in terms of approaching but I leaned heavily on...

Quick follow up. The Affirmations App took a while to get used to but is worth the $2.49 I paid. The app doesn't have pre-installed audio like I assumed but it allows you to manually record audio and loop it. It was a little weird hearing my own voice at first but now I am used to it. I am...