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Who's the bigger alpha? Biology/Society debate While I can't provide a definitive answer, here's some food for thought on the never-ending debate on whether the childless cad or the beta dad is the bigger alpha, and the possible answer in the middle. .

The necessity of attitude calibration in relationships Something they don't teach you in Pickup 101: attitude calibration in budding relationships will either build the proper foundation or never get you past casual status. .

Finding the root cause of arguments The next time you get into it with a girl you're seeing, it'll do some good to dig and find out the real cause. .

About 2 weeks ago I was with my gf at my boss's wedding. We had fun, everything was going good, and we ended up bar hopping after the reception. At the end of the night me, her, my boss's wife's brother, his gf, and my boss's wife's uncle (a little creepy) were all in a hotel room. Me and the...

Genetic lottery winners, Idiocracy style What is the endgame of game? For some, it's numbers. But biology doesn't care. Biology cares about offspring, and we're getting closer to the prophecy of Idiocracy with each passing year.

Thanks, glad you like it. If you pay for my ticket, I'll gladly swing by!

The Frailty Of Women Been a while since I've posted. New job, some interesting life developments (irrelevant for the time being), and spending time with my girlfriend have cut in to my posting. I think I'm back down to Earth now though. One thing I've noticed in my deeper interactions with...

Respect > Lust > Love In any relationship, regardless of duration or commitment, everything stems from respect. If a woman doesn't respect you, she will never get wet for you. Develop this mindset, stand by your core beliefs, and profit. .

Positive Reinforcement To Keep Your Girl Sexy A very common pitfall in relationships is physical complacency, aka getting fat and happy together. A lot of times, it leads to a slow, painful death. As long as you practice what you preach, here are some ways to keep your girl slim and sexy...

How to be alpha in a relationship PART 3: being a physical/emotional protector Next part is up. Today I talk about being an emotional and - if needed - physical protector and why it's so important. .

How to be alpha in a relationship PART 2: don't be controlling Continuing on with the series of staying alpha in a relationship, today I talk about a really bad habit men often acquire: trying to control their girlfriend. You'll get way better mileage by doing the exact opposite. .

Breakups are always final One thing I see a lot of, which I could never relate to, is people breaking up and getting back together. It's a total waste of time, EVERY time, so don't do it. .

The 3 degrees of Masculinity: positive, negative, and none A very common misconception is that women LIKE to be abused and treated poorly. False. Feminine women want a masculine man, but unfortunately the MAJORITY of masculinity is manifest in negative action. Here's the difference between...

Nope, different things. You haven't had sex yet, there's literally no bond there, so the most you should say is 'that sucks, hope you're all ok'. If/when you're developing a relationship, then it's different.

How to be alpha in a relationship PART 1: the right beginning I'm starting a series on how to be alpha in a relationship. Love, commitment, exclusivity - it's a different animal, and although it requires a different behavior set, it's still built on an alpha foundation. First, the...

BB, I read through this thread and it's painful, but I understand how you feel, I really do. I've been in enough relationships to 'get it', the connection that's hard to break despite the rationale behind it. I could post a very lengthy reply, and I may, but for now I'd like to give you a little...

Sleep on it As men, we're not as well prepared to deal with emotional valleys. A simple solution is to sleep on it while your nerves calm, regardless of how serious the situation is. .

The relationship core: construction or destruction? I'm going to be switching gears and talking about relationship management as I'm going through a bit of it myself. The most basic concept and the answer to 'should I stay or leave' is whether the relationship is constructive or destructive...

What's your drive? The most important component of becoming a better person is having an internal drive. A lot of times it's negative, but you use it for positive results. Discover and harness your drive - take everything and everyone who made you feel sh*tty and prove them wrong. Included...

'Being there' part 2 - the difference between empathy and emotional tampon My last post on 'just being there' caused a bit of confusion, as there appears to be a fine line between presence for the important stuff and soaking up the banal. In reality, the difference is lot more clear cut. 99%...