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Well, first of all, let me just say that you handled the whole thing fantastically. Great job. Sounds like you have her attracted to you. My main advice would be to watch getting into a text convo with her. Yeah, you could have a small back and forth with her, but end it quickly. As well as...

Two things are happening here: 1. She is communicating her own securities to you. 2. You are communicating your own securities to us/yourself. Here's a simple, yet profound, rule when it comes to things like this: Anybody who spends a great deal of time telling you how awesome they...

You only think she's playing mind games with you because YOU are playing mind games with HER. Not only did you play into the whole game of "I'm not going to talk to you until you want to meet" (which I garauntee you she sees as EXTREMELY manipulative...which it is), but you used "niceness" as...

For me it's not so much what the OP did (it's not congruent with my morals, but I understand that other people have a different moral code than I do) that's so lame, it's the fact that he felt the need to brag about it on a message board that I think is pathetic. This is nothing to brag...

Oh, I just meant that if her friend is so psycho that she's going to call you up and ***** you out because of that email message (was that ALL you sent to her?), then it's a good bet that she's a psycho as well. Trust me, you don't want in on this now even if she DOES come around. Her friend has...

It's not enough for you to just promise you won't crack.Hell, i've been there. If you do not find ways to distract yourself, to keep yourself busy, etc. you WILL give in in a weak moment. Why am I so sure? Because I've been there and I've done it. In fact, your best course of action...

:crackup: ***** To the OP.... The answer to your question is simply: it's much easier to just give a guy their number than it is to say "sorry, I'm not interested." It's the quickest, easiest way out of the situation. Think about it. You're a hot girl, who gets hounded by guys all...

Sorry you're going through this man. We've all been there, and I tell you, it sucks. Because on the logic side of things we believe that because she's continously calling us and making the moves to communicate with us that it means she likes us. WRONG! It doesn't matter how many times a...

Well, first of all, I probably wouldn't take a date to a bar or a nightclub. But even if I did, I probably wouldn't sweat it. I would regcognize who she's going home with that night (me) and realize that all these other guys are wasting their time. If a guy WERE to garner her interest in...

See, I think that everybody is attractive at their core. It's their beliefs that are holding them back from asserting that attractiveness. So even the "unattractive" men out there CAN be attractive by becoming more authentic. For example, the guy who sits at home playing WoW all day long and...

The biggest thing I've found about the PUA world is that so much of the focus is on how to get women attracted to you. The entire theory, and most of the suggestions/advice, revolve around that one concept. And on the surface, it seems like a legitimate question to ask. But I think that the...

Fixed that statement for you.

But what you don't understand is that it's not THEIR FAULT. it's the fact that men aren't being men anymore (the rise in single parent homes where the father isn't around to help raise the child has something to do with this). You are blaming women for the fact that men aren't being men. Go...

It really depends on the favor. If she asks "Can you throw this in the trash for me?" your answer probably *should* be "no." Why? Because she is perfectly capable of doing it herself, she just doesn't want to. Don't set yourself up to be her *****. So, unless she has a cast on her leg or...

1. How much detail is being talked about when she's talking to you? Women love and THRIVE on details. But someone who is lying typically doesn't give out too many details because they aren't confident in what they are telling you. So pay attention to the details. 2. Watch her body language...

Ok, here is the deal.... There is not such thing as "kinda" cheating. You either cheated or you didn't. Now I'm not going to speculate on it, because I have no idea based on what you've said whether you were exclusive or not. It SOUNDS to me like you were exclusive, but she just didn't like...

No, you don't. For some reason people here think that if YOU aren't going to have sex with her, then she'll just find someone else (which is probably true), without realizing how ridiculous (and potentially damaging) that belief is. 1. I say "damaging" because it sets up a dynamic where...

Yeah, and honestly, I don't begrudge people from getting into PUA techniques. I was there at one time. I think PUA is like training wheels. It gives you the fuel and the balance to go when you don't have the confidence, until you get to a place where you don't need it anymore. It's just one...

Sounds like he's just not into you anymore. There could be a million reasons why, none of which have to do with the way you look. The sad thing about getting married is that a lot of times people start getting lazy and not doing the regular maintenance things that a relationship requires...

That's because you are a bastard for doing that to another man. ;)