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    The mind of a woman..

    Over at eHarmony there is a thread about age differences in relationships. It inevitably headed into the area in which women posters harshly criticized men who dated young women. No surprise that this criticizm came from older single women. One poster "cp30" (softcore angry feminist)...
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    A call to my brothers here-

    Chaps - I have a confession, and then a favor to ask. For the past few months I have been moonlighting over at the eHarmony advice forums - in particular the Dating and the Relationship boards. The inmates are essentially softcore feminists and their sycophantic male supporters. However...
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    Snowed in ? GO here >>

    www.starnow.com.au/Hannahlindgren/photos/1922422 A fine example of our local talent . BTW, it is warm and fine down here today- the surf beach is calling .:cool:
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    Women's "strengths" in relationships -

    This thread is a follow-on from Heroshima's thread. I am inspired to also include my recent observations of the experiences of a close acquaintance who is recently divorced from a "strong woman". In both cases (in particular, my acquintance's) the woman was acknowledged as a "strong...
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    I feel bad about this -

    Gentlemen, a few weeks ago I was surfing on the net and, on a whim, I joined one of those agony forum sites for the lost and lonely. You know the type - kind of like Loveshack.org . Full of milktoast chumps and lots of "strong independent women" who for some strange reason cannot get a "good...
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    Double standards --courage vs retreat.

    ONE of the most glaring gender double standards which you younger men will encounter is how society treats men and women differently when each is faced with adversity . Men are rewarded with admiration when they push through their fear and ACT in the face of threat or danger. WE are expected to...
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    Skillful retorts to women's tests.

    I was thinking about how women test, prod, poke and provoke for the most nonsensical and trivial reasons sometimes. Of course, their 'tests' are usually well planned in advance and executed with careful timing when a man is mostly unprepared. THis offers her the advantage of surprise. In short...
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    Old girlfriend- new game

    Recently started talking again to an old girlfriend from back in 1998. I broke up with her for reasons that now seem petty. Lets call her MA. Anyways, she has done some minor cosmetic surgery, bought herself new boobies, and trimmed down - she looks better now than she did back then. So she...
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    More mind games, and a few great moments.

    This is a follow up to the events of my recent post entitled " The counseling profession and their mindgames". Frankly, I was astounded at the large number of responses . It seems that I hit some nerves around here. Anyways, do you recall the story about my planned date with SW, and my...
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    The counseling profession and their mindgames.

    Here is the short version of a recent 'event' - Been dating HB7 for a while now - almost a year. Good woman, conventional morals, mainly respectful but a tad avoidant and passive. She thinks that I am a "loveable assh0le" - perfect ! Anyways she tells me a month ago that she "needs to see...
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    Round#2 with the 'talking stick' boys.

    I went down to the 'lost mens' group again tonight.The same group that I attended two weeks ago. The usual suspects were there - still hurt, still whining and still confused. The same facilitators were present and sprouting all the latest trendy psychobuzz words. Tonight we talked about how...
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    This guy needs us ..

    This is a true story. It is happening to a guy whom I have known for many years and he has no reason to invent any of this tale. The abridged version.. Dude gets married for the second time twenty years ago. This guy was a soldier who saw action in SE Asia. He married a woman who had just...
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    Carried the message to deaf ears.

    Last night I dropped into a local men's group weekly meeting. This is one of those groups for guys who are divorced, getting a divorce, or who really should gert one, but are avoiding the hoops and hurdles of the process.. Anyways, the 'facilitators' ( X three) all mentioned that "men need to...
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    Another piece of the puzzle ?

    There has been much written here, and in the pulp literature about women's attraction and submission to 'bad boys' vs their ultimate exploitation of 'nice guys'. Now I am not a fan of most conventional social science theories because they are essentially speculation posing as fact , however I...
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    Valentines gift for a woman who LJBF you

    Ok rookies, so you got FZed a while back by the "one and only" and you were hanging on for months because you were convinced that she did not really know what a great catch you were, and you figured that if you follow her around like a sweet pet male that she will do a 180 and she will warm to...
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    We are now responsible for Diabetes type 2

    Ok so I received a call from a buddy of mine who asked me if I would take a look at a treadmill that belongs to a girl "friend" of his. The equipment was not working and she (allegedly) was eager to have it fixed so that her workout program was not disrupted (this was her story)i Let's call...
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    You leave her and three weeks later she calls you -

    OK men, much has been promoted here about just "walking away" instead of hours of talking and negotiating and trying get her to see reason (like that is gonna happen) STR8UP says "Just walk away " - it is a mighty appealing and a mighty compelling concept. So here is the scenario - You...
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    Over at the Shack

    I been slashing and burning a little over at the Leposy Shack. The women there are your typical stupid ,third rate, entitled, femis and the guys are mostly all wussified and PC whipped . There are a couple of exceptions . "Peace Pipe" and "Woggle" still have their gonads but the other "males"...
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    Dating site fun 'down under'

    A good buddy of mine (-ex military , ex AFC and currently a gaming 'brown belt' ) and I concocted this profile two weeks ago and posted it on a popular local dating site. It is all fake and we deliberately wrote it in an "over the top" style to test the ladies reaction.. We suspected that...
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    What does this mean ?

    OK I have a good buddy who is a lot younger than me and we get out and about a lot. He is average looking I guess ,and kind of reserved by nature. I have been coaching him a little in the art of C&F and he is "getting it" slowly and his success with the ladies is slowly improving. He is also...
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