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    First date: force the kiss or wait till next time?

    So, I went on a first date last night and I thought it went pretty well. We saw a movie and then afterwards went for drinks and were talking and joking around for over 2 hours till 1 am. I was initiating kino and had my arm around her back and on her thigh several times. However, it was just an...
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    Asks ME out and then flakes?

    So, I have a coworker who I have been working with for the last month and we have great rapport and she's always smiling at me when she looks at me and laughs at everything I say. So, we have now switched assignments and are no longer working together. On the last day I mention a movie I wanted...
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    Suggesting a coffee date\meetup a bad move?

    I've been trying to meet women using an online dating site and there have been several women who I have had good feedback, IOIs, etc with at least with the initial email messaging and then I suggest we finally meet for coffee (3-4 messages in) and they either don't respond or give me an odd...
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    Poll: "Play on" or "NEXT!"

    I met yet another girl on an online dating website who messaged me first. I tried to setup a simple coffee date with her after throwing a couple of emails back and forth. She says she is free on Monday or Tuesday. I chose a place about 20 minutes away from me and 10 minutes away from her and...
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    How to respond to generic messages...

    I've been getting a lot of flirts on a dating site recently. Unfortunately unless you pay for an account they only let you send 15-20 variations of a generic message so these messages I get from women don't say much. I.E. I got a pretty cute girl sending me this the other day: Hi, My name...
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    Why do women do this?!

    So, I've gone on a couple of dates with a girl and I've known the whole time that she had moderate to low IL in me. So, I try one last time to ask her out for tonight. She agrees at first but then gives me a very predictable excuse last night that she's feeling "under the weather" and she...
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    Is there ever a good reason for a girl not to accept a date initially?

    I went on a date with a girl I met off a dating website last night. She actually initiated contact with me and we chatted online and set up a dinner date. The date was okay, no striking chemistry but the conversation flowed well, she laughed quite a bit and we have a lot in common (education...
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    Advice for timing of online date

    I joined an online dating site and browsed multiple profiles that I liked. One of them actually noticed that I saw her account (the site tells you who views you), looked at me and sent me a flirt. Well, I noticed the flirt when she was online and decided to start an IM conversation with her. The...
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    What's a good short-term investment for me?

    I am hoping to buy a 2008 mercedes c300 in about a year or so. Right now I have $5000 in the bank. I am hoping that if I save about $6000-7000 more in the next year and trade in my current car in a year for about $5000 that I'll have about $16000-$17000 as a down payment and I can finance the...
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    Loves me one day & ignores me the next...

    So, I put myself on a dating site and this girl randomly messages me and says hello. I take a look at her profile and she seems cool, sends me 2 modeling photos and says she used to do some modeling. So, I decide to bite, chat her up a little, ask for her number and suggest we meet up for coffee...
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    She gave herself freely so I lost interest...

    So, I am just getting over a girl who I had severe oneitis for. In fact, it really only struck me in the last week that this girl had absolutely no interest in me left. I was very depressed and extremely mad and praying that my luck would change on Saturday, so I put myself on a dating site. I'm...
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    What the hell happened on this date?

    So, I went out with this cute asian girl who I've been talking to a bit. We out on a first date about 3 weeks ago and I joined her and a few of her friends at a club two weeks ago. So, I drive an hour out to pick her up at her place and we go and have dinner by the beach. We go into a local club...
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    Using an SSRI anti-depressant to treat jealousy?

    I am trying to recover from yet another case of one-itis by distancing myself and pursuing two other women (spinning plates). Unfortunately one of the plates (almost an HB9) just flaked this weekend after I asked her on a date. The other plate is definitely interested and somewhat attractive...
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    I need your help!!

    I have been dating a girl for several months now. Her interest level was high to begin with and has recently waned. However, on the last date we had a long makeout session and I felt up her tits and she let me rub her between the legs (over her jeans but stopped me before I got under them) which...
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    Need some advice...

    So, I've posted several times recently on this forum on this girl who I have serious one-itis for. Her IL was really high for me a month or so ago and now has plummeted. She went from texting me multiple times a day to barely texting me at all. Sadly, I've only gotten her to make out with me for...
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    Any more tips on getting over a bad oneitis?

    So, I was dating a chick who was my dream girl for years for almost 2 months but her IL dropped significantly and I think she may be dating other guys. She called me last Saturday and I tried to set something up with her for this week. Her phone cut out because of bad reception so she messaged...
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    Introducing a woman to your friends?

    I have been dating this girl for a couple of months and have only gotten to make out briefly with her. Her interest level seems to be waning (fewer calls, fewer text messages and broke off the kiss last time). I've gone out with her 7+ times now. My b-day is coming up and I'm having 11-12...
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    Am I overreacting?

    I have been dating a girl for awhile (we're on our 7th or 8th date). I made out with her briefly a couple of dates ago. However, on the last date I really had to push her to get a peck on the lips and she sorta turned her head away from me after I tried it. She did kiss me on the lips quickly at...
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    How do I work this situation?

    So, I've come down with a case of one-itis for this girl. She contacted me a couple of months ago to see if I wanted to see a movie with her. Since then she's been calling me, texting me, baking freaking cheesecakes for me and we've gone out three times since then (once to a movie and twice for...
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    What do I do with this jealousy?

    I've started going with this chick who I'm crazy about. I had a huge crush on her 5+ years ago and we were good friends. Unfortunately I couldn't get out of the friendzone. Fast forward 5 years, I find her on myspace and we start talking and have gone out several times since. She texts me and...
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