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Someone gets it! I'm starting to believe that the only way someone can really change is to immerse him or herself in an environment where he or she is unable to revert to old behaviors. Even then, they'll carve out our little niche and hibernate if given half a chance. Self improvement should...

Excellent points. High achievers in some areas tend to be obsessive and critical. These facets of my own personality have helped me accomplish extraordinary goals in my education and career. There was a point when I applied this level of intensity and self-scrutiny to my game, however...

scripts and techniques In a way, blindly following advice actually helps members of the community succeed in the short run. Boot camps are a terrific example. You are encouraged and rewarded to behave much differently than you normally behave and you will likely end up making out with someone...

Not many people find this, but cool. Happy hunting. Uh-oh. My left eye is twitching. That's one way of putting it. A lot of women say the opposite. Let's see where you're going with this. You define success as getting into a woman's pants. How old are you? 200 is a lot of work...

This is a response to some posts I've been reading about "self-help" and the quick, one size fits all replies that a lot of questions seem to receive on internet forums... specifically in the context of relationships, dating, attraction, and seduction. One poster suggested that if you improve...

You ask a very personal question and what works for me might not work for you. I love my ex to death and although we seldom run into one another, we are still friendly. If things did not work out with my current girlfriend, it would be very tempting to look for comfort and acceptance from my...

Young women pull all kinds of stunts for attention. They get extra points for involving the police. Extra extra points if their behavior impacts the health and or freedom of a fine, upstanding young gentleman. Happens all of the time. Remember Charlie's Equations: Young women + men +...

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I was afraid of that. Get tested for sexually transmitted diseases. Encourage her to do the same. I'm not sure why she believes that she is pregnant, but she may as well take a pregnancy test since she has had unprotected intercourse. The two things I refuse to do are preach and give medical...

Foomee once... shame on you. Foomee twice... Seriously, all that matter are how you feel and what you want out of the relationship. Are you ready to put a ring on this girl's finger? If so, then you probably don't want her rubbing up against every jock in the bar for free liquor. I...

Jerry! Jerry! Seriously dude. Don't look for medical advice here. Encourage your friend to see her doctor if she is worried that she is pregnant, has a sexually transmitted disease, or all of the above. Your situation sounds like it can only culminate in tragedy. It seriously has...

You sound like a woman talking about men. Meet more women. Seriously. What you're saying can be applied to people in general. Maybe you've never mistreated a woman or lied to her. If so, then you probably represent a small minority of men. I'm being neutral here and I'm not going to use...

Agree.

Good advice. You reminded me of a favorite line. If during your first get-together she recommends stopping at a restaurant, say "I hope you're in the mood for Dutch." Nothing I like better than a woman with a sense of humor.

Wow, they're gonna need 12 step programs for this pretty soon. Seriously, I got into this stuff way over my head. I sometimes wonder if I would have had more success without this material but I realize that success is subjective and I'm not even sure if I would measure it in quality of...

- find a woman who is not looking for a free meal. Seriously, it's possible in today's society. Ten points to the person who suggested "action dates." By the way. Good call. You'll see that backfired in my anecdote but it earned me a kiss without opening my wallet. My current girlfriend...

If you refuse to pay for your dates out of principle, then you may end up cranking off more often than you would prefer. Of course, you may eventually find a woman who does not care about who pays how much of the tab, and she will put an end to your cranking off. But there are unfortunately a...

I visited a more gender neutral discussion forum where women swore how they cheated on men when they felt they needed something that they weren't receiving from their relationships. Often times, they were referring to something other than sex. They sort of offered sex to another man in...

I'm 99% convinced that PERSONALITY is the best indicator of how "successful" any one of you will become with women. Height is a huge obstacle but women sleep with short men all of the fricking time. Women cheat on their behemoth boyfriends and husbands with men much smaller than them (that...

"Once a cheater, always a cheater." How do you feel about that? There seem to be a lot of men who will have sex with any willing participant no matter if they are single or have a girlfriend. These guys are constantly looking for sex. It's not a function of their sex drive; rather it is a...