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    Why it’s OK to settle for Mr. Good Enough

    Yippeee, that leaves me all fired up to go out and find a women who is willing to settle for me!
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    Destiny

    I am beggining to believe in this myself, that is, you believe something and tell yourself it is true, and convince yourself of the outcomes so much that you subconciously start acting to such an extent that you make it come true.
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    Interesting link about physical attraction

    While I subscribe to many ideas on this site, and have found much valuable information, I must say in real-life terms I agree with Wutang / potato / etc. Its a matter of ecnomics as someone mentioned once. Why should a HB go for an unattractive guy when there are plenty of full-package...
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    You WONT succeed unless you FAIL

    I actually find this to be a problem, no feedback at all on why they reject you. I can't say any women has given me an indication why they don't want a second date/etc. If they did say "well that was fun but you are too boring/skinny/fat/bald/rich/etc for me" that would be great, cos over...
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    Online dating: Feast or famine depending on looks.

    When I first tried online, I could not post a pic as this would be pointless, if I was trying to see if this was my problem with getting girls interested IRL [plus I look really bad in photos!! I mean really bad!!] I got a handful of dates off of it despite this. Interestingly they all resulted...
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    Why do ugly girls have better personalities?

    The theory is the larger the girl the nicer the personality, but in my experience its much more random, this also goes for shallowness. One would expect the niceness the increase and shallowness to decrease with body size, but this doesn't seem the be the case. They seem almost randomly nice...
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    bars and clubs, are you over it?

    I must say I agree, lately I just have not felt like going clubbing, I feel more that I should go to try to get some social exposure, but just don't feel like crowds of students, coming home at 5am and wasting half my weekend sleeping when I could be out doing something useful like sailing! I...
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    Approach Mission for Social Anxiety.

    He included the ) in the URL, take the ) off the end or .... http://www.csbruce.com/~csbruce/shyness/change.html
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    Critique my routine for "What do you do for a living?"

    Hmmm, what exactly is crappy about it?!?! S**t, "well, I make a ton of cash and only work 3 hours a day" I dont think that'd put any women off!!
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    wide open discussion

    I'm with you on that, nothing p*sses me off more than these idiots who block up lanes sitting waiting for one car in the front to move. just park at the back and walk the extra 20m for f*ck sakes, they probably need the exercise anyways!!
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    Fun little games

    LOL, that sounds like the quickest way to spill a glass of water all over her and get you a$$ thrown out by 3 hefty bouncers! :)
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    Internet Dating 101

    >>will be financially secure, drive a very nice car, and treat me like a princess >> but I'm not a big spender LOL, sure!!!! I have come to think what women say in their narratives is the opposite of what they actually are after!!
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    fear of approaching girls who give IOIs

    KneghtRyder / ~attrACTION~ , I know what you are saying! I think its a matter that you assign a vast amount more weight onto the outcome knowing that here you have a chance. Also, it may well be the other way round, that is, you freeze because you also find this girl attractive, its easy to...
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    how do you get a girl to tell you whats wrong?

    haha, she's female so she probably doesn't know herself!! besides, she assumes you know .... you: is something wrong her: no you: ok .... later ... her: you don't even care that i'm upset, you dont love me, nah nah nah nah you: yes dear... !!!
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    ON Average how many IOIs do you get a day

    haha, I agree with Abbott, what about zero? 2 per day would be great!!
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    Approach competition - who can do the most approaches?

    The problem with this in terms of your competition is that what stops me from visiting 50 coffee shops and ordering a coffee from a semi-attractive waitress to count as approachs. Maybe a better competition, especially in light of that it is meant to drive guys to approach more, is to rather...
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    A weird theory on plates

    I haven't tried that yet, heard good things about it though. The only place I've seen with more females than men is Manhatten Club in Rivonia, but they tend to be gold diggers there! Tho all the strippers from Teasers tend to go after a shift as well! :) Women here are definitly corrupt no...
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    A weird theory on plates

    Interesting that about more women than men, I think on average over the planet or a large enough area this is true, but from what I've heard certain areas have an imbalance. For example here in Gauteng there are reputadly more men than women, as the men are more likely to emmigrate here from...
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    BlueChillies Approach Journal : gain enough skills to see if I can win

    Well, I am not overweight, just the opposite, I have a ectomorphic build I think, that is, I don't put on weight, even when I trained hard at gym during studying/school I cut nicely but dont bulk. I do go to gym now, and dont look bad [body], for me its bad facial bone structure, long/thin/high...
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    is the picture the most important thing online?

    Well, I am not photogenic, seriously I look terrible in pics. I tried the online thing with no pics, most girls require pics [looks] as non-negotialble, but not all. However I did find that whilst I got to first date, it never went further. I recently got a couple of pics taken at random...
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