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Just finished reading 'The Game'. Great book actually, with a lot of good thoughts on openers. Im just looking for a few more.

well yes. im reading that.. But Im looking for actual printed books. Something I can take with me on the train, and read during the day..

I'm looking for some book recommendations /articles /websites.. Not really pick-up books, but more books dealing with NLP, or cold reading techniques.. Story telling, ESP tests, rune reading. Crowd pleasers like that.. Any suggestions?

Hah, kind of like Neil Strauss says in The Game: "It's not lying, its flirting".

the thing that gets me is my height, im a short guy so its real easy for people to take shots at me. either kidding around or to try and increase there own value. im slowly learning and changing my personality to just be able to brush these things off and be truly indifferent to them. reading...

A big part of what Ive been trying to say things like you said: "I'll say outrageous things, like accusing girls they have the hots for me or claim that it's a privelige for them to look at me or spend time with me. If they deny it, I tell them they're denying their true feelings and accuse...

Great post Swoop. Really good thing for someone like me who's new hear to read. Makes me nod my head and say 'ya, I can do this too'.

so thats really the point of the 3 second rule right? doesnt give you time to over-think anything.. I think my problem is I spend to much time over-thinking things like the 3 second rule. Hah, wow Im clearly new at this.

Is the opener. Once I get past that and start talking with the girl things move nicely. But I still struggle with that intial approach/opener thing. could be at a bar, or it could be at the supermarket. i struggle all the same. most of the girls i meet and get along with, are introduced to me...

hah, yeah thats definitly a lesson i learned the hard way once or twice. but what other way is there to learn a lesson?

I think ive always found.. and read.. that laying a little sweet talk on girls that are somewhere between a 5-7 on the HB scale. will get you a better outcome then being ****y and funny or neging. the all out C&F and negging should be left to the 8-10's. Not that you should abandon it...

Personally I'd put my foot down pretty soon. Obvousily shes looking out for her own well being by trying to make it clear what she doesn't want. so just be firm, explain you're not like that (as long as you really arent like that) and that you want to focus on the 2 of you moving forward. or...

Hah. I have a lot to learn, and you're not the first person to recommend DD to me. I've been getting his news letters for awhile, maybe Ill finally buy that series. I have started to notice more and more how I compete for the attention.. That really is bad isn't it? No one wants someone...

Hah, I wasn't aware there were any others. But I didn't look that hard. I don't think of my height as a disadvantage, really.. Just as something that I need to view in a different way. I definitly don't see it as an advantage, so I don't know what to do with it. It's the un-sureness (its a...

Thanks for responding, I think I definitely try to hard. Any suggestions on getting myself into that right frame of mind? Any particular piece of advice or piece of writing thats worked for you? I do realize that height is definitely a factor, and I do take that into consideration in...

I've been reading this material for a few months now. I've also watched a few seminars, listened to a few audio casts, read a few books.. Not just on dating, but on self motivation itself. I've just started reading the DJ boot camp PDF and I plan on following through on it. But the biggest...