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    Great prospect, right? 23 y/o 9/10 looks

    Look, I'm hardly the most experienced guy on this forum. I'm still REALLY BAD at picking up girls. I was a virgin until a year ago. But one thing I got from all those years of nerdliness, was this: I never learned how to do things the WRONG way. And you are going about this the WRONG way...
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    Great prospect, right? 23 y/o 9/10 looks

    never be in a position where you have to wait for the girl to call you back. her bothering to txt you back was actually immensely positive. put yourself in her shoes, she just started a new job in a new city. to add to the inherent female natural flakiness, she's probably pretty ****ing...
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    What's my responsibility in this non-committed relationship?

    Thanks Francisco, Bonhomme, etc. Seems common sense, but it's good to hear it from others...
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    What's my responsibility in this non-committed relationship?

    Dunno...if anything, I think she likes me more than I like her. But I don't have anything concrete to hang that on. We have a sleepover occasionally. Had one last night, and she bought me a card that said basically "I like you". Not looking for Dr. Phil here, just wondering what the right...
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    What's my responsibility in this non-committed relationship?

    I've been seeing this girl for 3 months. I'm 27, she's 30. Positives: - she's got great tits - she's a good conversationalist - she does lots of interesting things, and has lots of interesting friends - she's very low maintenance Negatives: - the sex is not that good, though we do...
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    Dating sites

    I've actually had decent luck with match.com. The girls there are generally older, but since I am 27 myself, it's not a big deal. As long as you have a cool profile and good pics, it's ridiculously easily to set up a date. Then you take it from there. Now, I'm still a rank beginner, so I...
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    Indian immigrant girls?

    Just wondering if anyone has any advice specific to Indian girls (or Asian immigrant girls in general). She's not fresh off the boat, but she's probably only been here in the country for 4 yrs (she's 25 or so). From what I've seen, these girls aren't as used to being hit on and respond really...
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    How to initiate hook up with an ex?

    Do I need to get her drunk? I'm 99% sure she wants to hook up, but she's a shy girl and I know she would only give me the most SUBTLE of signs. Hell the first time I ****ed her, I didn't even know I was going to get laid, until I kissed her and she basically raped me. Jay Jay, I will...
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    How to initiate hook up with an ex?

    This weekend, my ex and I are doing stuff with a bunch of friends. She'll probably be meeting me at my place and we'll be driving together to meet them, because of where we all live. On the way back, I want her to come up to my place to watch a movie, and then I want to **** the living ****...
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    What do you DO with your girlfriend?

    I'm dating the "you're too nice" girl and I managed to get into her pants, woo. We've been out about 6 times now and I have ****ed her, so the pressure of trying to be super-interesting and fun has worn off. Let's say a girl you're dating lives 5 minutes from you, so it's feasible for you...
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    You just went out on the day2...what next?

    So this was a learning experience. I went out on a day2 with this girl more than 2 weeks ago, and it ended well - walked hand in hand, arms around each other, ended with a hug and a "we should do this again". I felt it really went well. I am sure I could have kissed her if I had had the...
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    The continuing saga of the "you're too nice" girl...help?

    Well, the BJ chicks weren't hot, and they were SUPER drunk. Yeah, it was incredible and I can't imagine it will ever happen again. I fully admit that it was not my game that got me the BJs, just being reasonably attractive and in the right place at the right time. I didn't put in a genuine...
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    The continuing saga of the "you're too nice" girl...help?

    I am trying to figure out what's going on with this girl. The first date: I asked her what she thought of me, she said I was nice...maybe too nice. The second date: dinner at my place and make out. The third date: dinner out, then back to her place, got her down to her panties before...
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    She said I'm too nice -- why?

    Well...you are also good with women ;) I've only ****ed ONE chick. I have low self confidence with women. I still struggle to convince myself that the chick I ****ed was because I had some small amount of game, that she wasn't a fluke. Being able to **** other chicks, even if they are...
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    She said I'm too nice -- why?

    UPDATE: So I've been on 3 dates with her by now. The 3rd date, I had her lying on her bed with only panties on, but I basically had to caveman her to that point - she was kissing me but definitely not grinding on me, showing signs of being turned on, etc. She put up some serious LMR and I...
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    She said I'm too nice -- why?

    Charm - I like your advice. You got examples of how to build sexual rapport, or learn what her values are?
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    She said I'm too nice -- why?

    You're right, you found me out, I'm not on this site to get help with my dating life, I'm here to waste my time typing up huge reports of what didn't happen and chuckle in glee while people reply to them. Anyone got any useful advice for the 3rd date given I made out with her on the 2nd?
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    She said I'm too nice -- why?

    Ok guys. We're going out again this week. It's a weeknight, so we can't stay out too late. I'm thinking of going out for dinner, then to some bar to play pool, then back to my place where I will try to escalate to sex. Any tips on how to do this would be MUCH APPRECIATED.
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    She said I'm too nice -- why?

    So she comes over, I greet her with a hug, and put her to work helping me with dinner. I changed my style this time from being high energy and joking, to concentrating on alphaness, and rewarding good things with smiles instead of smiling all the time. We had a good conversation, and got into...
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