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    Help: Dating multiple women

    I've always been a one woman at a time kind of guy but recently I decided that I want to date many women at a time. I was in and out of relationships for a while and the way I see it, I was wasting a lot of my time and not really seeing what was out there. At the present moment, I'm dating 2...
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    Some simple words of wisdom

    Never approach a woman being more worried about what she will think of you than what you will think of her.
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    I need some advice here - Rekindle a woman

    Ok, so I saw a picture of this girl I used to hang out with regularly about 4 to5 years ago and she looked good. Somewhere along the line we went separate ways and I haven't talked to her much at all in 3-4 years. My problem is, when I was spending a lot of time with her I was definitely an...
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    I finally see the light!

    It's amazing to think that I joined this forum years ago and that it's all finally starting to sink in now. It's like everything in my brain just clicked all at once and I have no fear. I finally am starting to "get it." Things I read here years ago that sounded absolutely crazy, make more...
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    How to sniff out a flake

    Can someone give me some insight here? I'm not having very good luck with this. I've gone at the best 50/50 on first date flakes and I'm batting 100 on 3rd date flakes this year. Either I'm doing something wrong or women are actually that crazy. Either way, I can't put my finger on it. What...
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    What the fuulake?

    I'm trying the online dating thing. Messaged a chick with some funny stuff (basically teasing her) and she hits me back. I set up a date with the second message. She messages me the day of the date and says "I can't make it tonight, I just got slammed with a 3 page paper due tomorrow...
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    Ponder this...

    Ok guys. Here's the story... I've know this woman for a long time (10+ years) we started hanging out more frequently this past year because we realized we share many common interests. She's quiet, shy, reserved and doesn't drink but she's beautiful and can hold a great conversation with me...
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    An older woman and possibly a mistake.

    Ok. Need some advice here gents. Short story. Went to party with cousin and friends. Taxi to cousins, slept in bed with my cousins really close friend after a night of drinking (no kissing, or anything sexual at all). Woke up in the morning intertwined and started giving her a message...
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    Should I call her?

    Ok. The quick story is I know these women from the gym. One is married whom I know through a friend and the other is single and is the married girl's friend. Anyway, they both stalked me out on the track at the gym the other day and I walked with them and talked for a while. I was mentioning...
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    Am I back to being an AFC? or did I never leave!

    Ok. A couple of hours before date 3 I get this voicemail? "Hey its such and such... I'm really sorry to call... I'm sorry... I don't think I can go out tonight... I think I need to take some time for myself. I had a really good time with you and I definitely like you. I just think I need...
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    Escalate or play it cool?

    Second date synopsis, I took her to dinner and a movie and barely watched the movie. While driving her home I just drove my car down a side road, parked looked at her and started kissing her. She was all for it. We spent a lot of time talking in between hooking up and she asked me some...
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    Request for date change

    I had my first date with this girl last weekend and it could not have gone better. I picked her up and we were on our way. There was a lot of flirting, plenty of kino, hand holding and making out. The date ended with a good night kiss and I was off. I called her 3 days later to set up te second...
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    Request for date change

    I had my first date with this girl last weekend and it could not have gone better. I picked her up and we were on our way. There was a lot of flirting, plenty of kino, hand holding and making out. The date ended with a good night kiss and I was off. I called her 3 days later to set up te...
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    First Date Set-up Call

    Hey guys. I got out of a long term relationship and am back in the dating world, however I am a little rusty... I will accept the fact that I was a dummy for getting into a long term relationship and leave it at that. Anyway, I number closed a cutie I was dancing with at the bar over the...
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    Too much milk?

    Hey guys. I was recently approached by my workout buddy to try a new diet which relies heavily on drinking a lot of milk. I've always been relatively skinny and from what I have noticed in my workouts for the past 7 months, I am quite a 'hard gainer.' I would suppose that consuming this...
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    How much is too much?

    Hey all. I was kind of a scrawny guy about 3 months ago (5'6" 136 LBS). I started working out and eating a lot and have put on about 10 lbs of muscle in about 2.5 to 3 months. Rescently I started to plateau so I am trying to figure out what it could be. Someone suggested to me that I may be...
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    Living with parents at 25... Smart or stupid?

    Let me just start off by saying that I am 25 years old and I still live with my parents. I moved out to live with a woman (spent a lot of money too, stupidly) for a while but the relationship didn't work out and I have been back home for 2 years. I have a strong desire to live on my own...
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    Why do women go through the trouble?

    In the past couple of weeks in between the girls I have gone out on dates with I had these two women "flake" on setting up the date. First example (texted): talking for a while, blah blah blah setting up a date destination... Me: I'm thinking we can take the train Sunday morning that...
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    Climax control condoms

    Ok so this girl called me last night and told me that I left my jacket in her house and that she also went through my pocket to try to figure out whose jacket it was. Anyway, she was like "You left your Jacket at my house with your climax control condoms" like she was making fun of me for...
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    Body Language Question

    I've been doing a lot of reading and this is my first post. As a guy, that can naturally talk to women, I have been coming to find that meeting women on the internet is harder than I thought. I think my main problem is the fact that I don't smile in my profile pictures. I tend not to smile...
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