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Hi, I really appreciate your thoughts/suggestions. This post may come across as vain although it is very open. I am 33, wealthy, well educated, great job, fancy car, very fit and heck, I was even a model when I was younger. So I did great in my 20s. Very shy yet had relationships with...

Having a discussion, and the guys (married) were saying lower my standards because I am 33 single. I am doing well in many respects and don't see why I would compromise on what is important to me. I accept the risk that I may not meet 'the one'. Thoughts?

I am 32 and have worked my way to being a senior manager 3 levels below the MD of a major corporation by working my butt off. The major chink in my armour professionally (that I question) is that I am single. It has probably been the reason I am where I am professionally (allowing me to work...

http://www.news.com.au/national/the-age-of-dads-at-conception-can-prove-a-risk-to-offspring/story-fndo4cq1-1226573893413 Legitimate or a scare tactic? I understand the concept, although as a man, never felt the biological clock ticking. Yet, this article seems to suggest higher risk which...

So how do you guys handle it. 1. A lot of people always assume that I will date someone my own age (32). Eg. girl is 23, they will say she is way too young for you I could correct them and say that age is nothing (although it is a stupid debate/discussion). Do you just take it or...

Has the book helped you? Any stories? Eg. can you assume the girls reading it have high libidos (before or after). I had a girl at work email me saying hey, I saw you reading at lunchtime. What book are you reading. I answered 'accounting textbook' as I am studying. She responded I am...

Gentlemen, What are your thoughts/experiences/tips on how work affects you? I have been working long stressful hours lately and although my libido/interest seems high, I have very little tolerance/energy to go out. I am happy how work is proceeding though. Have you guys managed a balance...

Twice this week. Girl will be flirting/show interest. We exchange some genuine smiles and then start talking. I say something general like so what are you up to this weekend and the girl says going to dinner with bf tonight. Or the girl will put the bf into the conversation. Fair enough if...

So broad topic generally around making girls laugh - Do girls go for funny guys? Heard yes although I think it might be a myth. I really dont think humour is enough in itself (yeah I know comedians do well although there is more to it than just their humour). Plus aiming the discussion...

I hope this posts reads to be about me overall. The catalyst has been that the last girl I saw said 'I had a chip on my shoulder'. That has bounced in my head a LONG time. I have reflected and yeah, I think she is right. My dad left when I was a 7, my brother and I were poor although spoilt for...

I listen to a lot of self development material. They say get a stable wife then you can focus on business (eg. Brian Tracy). Very old school. I am doing well although back single again. I have had some great relationships although nothing everlasting. I must admit, I have always felt that...

I know every situation is different etc. (variables such as kids/time together/reason for breakup). Say though you have those silly breakups when it is clear there is not enough attraction/faded whatever then you break up. Is it ALWAYS a write off. What are your experiences? Eg. I...

If so why? Is a man's car important to a woman? Any stories with cars and women?

Ok, admittedly I am losing hope/becoming cynical with women. Not a place I want to be. I have not had a relationship for over a year. I have had some fun flings since although the vicious circle is that the more I am successful with silly flings, the more respect I lose for those women and I...

1. I know many people who are (and I feel I am) a 'successful' man yet still are AFC with some women. Eg. successful in business/fitness/other aspects of life outside of dating/relationships. Do you agree? Notice this? 2. Assuming you agree with 1, how is this possible? Is it not a paradox...

Had 2 dates with a 22 yr old. Nice interesting girl. Nothing happened although good conversation and fun. On the 2nd date, she told me that she wants to be friends as she has just (3 weeks) broke up/moved out of living with bf of 2 years. I nicely said I was attracted to her so the...

Interested at a mature approach to the question: What is a woman's (romantic partner) role in a man's success? Now I expect two absolute viewpoints: 1) None: You succeed yourself etc 2) All: Getting the quality woman is your success. Now I doubt anyone on Sosuave would go for no 2...

I do believe that we can change any time, any age etc. Although I am hardly considered a 'realist'. A well respected colleague disagrees with me and says things like 'if you have not become a manager by 35, you never will' I have behaviours and attitudes that I want to improve and change...

I can imagine some of the responses may be who cares or who knows, although I would love some thoughts shared on your experiences with this. I find it interesting that many girls almost live on attention (eg. hot girls with orbiters/friends etc). Even just the care and attention girls take...

Ok, so 31 and am wondering how others manage their lives. Between my work and keeping fit, I do not have much time left. Sure, I keep Fri/Sat nights free yet I am so exhausted from the week, I usually just chill with a movie or go to bed early (yeah, living on the edge ha). So how do...