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    IOIs.... help an rAFC out

    Invest in a copy of The Mystery Method: http://www.amazon.com/Mystery-Method-Beautiful-Women-Into/dp/0312360118/ref=pd_bbs_sr_1?ie=UTF8&s=books&qid=1215579831&sr=8-1 See pages 88-91 in particular.
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    Stop the cold approaching, please

    I get cold approached and opened fairly frequently by women. From what I've found, these women are of all ages and races. NONE of them has struck me as noticeably dysfunctional or "weird" in the psychological sense. A number of them DO seem nervous, or shy. Furthermore, once the sun is down...
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    San Jose and Santa Cruz: Let's Get To Work!

    NorpacWolf here. I've recently relocated to Cali. I'm looking to hit up San Jose and Santa Cruz. A bit further south on the central coast too. I've posted a ton, but looking to get back in the game with a quality wing. PM me or send me an email: norpacwolf at yahoo dot com Let me know the...
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    Small Town Sarging

    Here's more on the superficial friendliness masking icy reserve phenomenon in the pac northwest. Odd that it took me three years to get written documentation/verification of this very obvious cultural trait: http://www.city-data.com/forum/oregon/21667-how-do-oregonians-feel-about-outsiders.html
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    Small Town Sarging

    Here's the link to the story WC referred to: http://seattletimes.nwsource.com/pacificnw/2005/0213/cover.html PS: After a long obsession with pickup, I'm trying to get back on track with the other areas of my life which are even more important...
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    Small Town Sarging

    Man, it's been many months since I've been out and about in the nightscene. Finally decided to get back and strut my stuff. Didn't do much cold approaching, but had the opportunity to run a variation on social circle game... 2/15/08: Every time I've gone out in the past year with a friend who...
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    ok losing confidence take a look at my pics..tell me what can I improve

    I recommend more fitted clothing. You seem to be swimming in the sweater/shirt combo you are wearing.
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    Went out to a bar for the first time alone last night.

    Become a regular and that way you won't be going "solo" but will have friends waiting for you, patrons and staff alike.
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    Small Town Sarging

    Meat Market Karaoke I visited a karaoke bar this weekend on a friend's suggestion. I had some serious reservations as I had peeked in a while ago, and it seemed like big groups of friends, not really a game place. Turned out to be much better than I thought. I start gaming this girl in her...
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    Small Town Sarging

    Immediate Buying Temperature Game Saturday: Immediate Buying Temperature Game I went back to the same country/western club I've gone to previously, primarily at the beckoning of my wing. I like it too, but perhaps not quite as much as he does he he. --- Chick Approach #1: Two Brunettes...
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    Small Town Sarging

    Some Time In July Field Report OK, here's a slightly longer write up on the breast laying/ass grabbing incident. I was at a country/western club a week or two ago (mid July). As soon as I enter, I decide to open a set asap, as my two wings are having some approach anxiety. There's a group of...
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    Small Town Sarging

    FR: Sometime in Mid June OK, here's a proper field report... I've been trying to nurture a relationship with a local wing, one of my few options for gaming around here. It turns out this guy is dealing with a serious substance abuse problem that is making his behavior very flaky. He's flaked...
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    Small Town Sarging

    "She Has A Big Pvssy!" 5/06/07: My wing suggested we all go to the local bar with all the hotties. (Not the most eloquent sentence I've ever written, but you get the point). I found the girls to be very, very receptive. I'll just write up a couple of interactions. I'm going to have to throw...
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    Portland Oregon

    Playaz, I would consider winging with someone who has some background in pickup skills, either in terms of workshop training or significant experience in the field. I'm at norpacwolf@yahoo.com
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    Small Town Sarging

    Car Close Invitation Wednesday night: I ran into one or two situations in particular which I found interesting: Situation #1: I bounce to a club around midnight. There's a hot brunette (a little bit curvy but still hot) at the door. "She needs to go to her car to get her credit card,"...
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    Small Town Sarging

    90 Second Makeout Close With Hot Blonde Saturday: So I finally got past the makeout sticking point. I was at a country/western hangout. My wing's friend opens two girls, a blonde and brunette by the door. My wing sees an opening, and tells me to wing his friend. Later, my wing's friend says...
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    Mystery, Strauss, etc.

    I would recommend limiting the amount of time spent on this site in search of information. Some of the DJ Bible documents are a good read for an absolute beginner but Mystery Method has a better grasp of social dynamics in bars. MM is not as useful for daygame, or even for clubs...
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    Wing's Girlfriend Wants Me: What To Do?

    The girl in question is leaving home for brazil in a couple weeks. Oh well. As it turns out, the wing has been hypnotizing her for hours on end, telling her to speak in jibberish, telling her chocolate is dog****, embarrasssing her in front of his other pua friends, it's just really weird. He...
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    Small Town Sarging

    I don't know why I'm writing up a FR at 3 AM. Especially since the same recurring patterns are evident. I'll try to keep it concise. Venue #1: Fraternity/Sorority Bar: Bleh. It's been an appallingly long time since I was last out. I looked at my last field report and it's been nearly two...
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    When Girls Choose Me...

    This is a follow up to my previous post on the wing's girl who chose me. This is a persistent issue. Read on... I'm often in the situation where women are willing to drop their male companions in favor of me when I go out. These may simply be loser orbiters, boyfriends or some guy the girl is...
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