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    A Mindstate Shift

    Do you have a career/goal you love? Because, it may seem unrelated, but it is important. My paradigm has recently shifted. Last winter, I became depressed. Now, I have a history of depression, and I am prone to seasonal affective disorder, so it wasn't a big deal to me. It usually passes...
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    dealing with pre-date jitters and coffee date tips?

    Listen to this right here. It's good advice. I've got anxiety disorders, and I used to get very nervous before and during dates. When I learned to just chill and enjoy myself, things got easier. Be sincerely interested with what this girl has to say. Be happy about the fact that you've done...
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    Flat abs in morning, bulging stomach at night...

    Alright, so I've been noticing that when I wake up in the morning, my stomach is fairly flat and my abs have decent definition. I need to work them more, but the potential is clearly there. However, by the end of the day at night, my stomach seems to naturally want to bulge out. Anyone have...
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    Why is Having a Six Pack Such a Big Deal?

    I heard somewhere that defined abdominal muscles make women think of sex. Apparently, strong abs=good in bed. Basically, something about it drives women crazy. After sex once, I had a girl just start grinning like crazy, shaking her head saying "I love to look at your abs when you fvck me"...
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    Not able to cvm

    I seem to have the same problem. I've gotten great BJ's, and many, but I have NEVER ejaculated from one. Ever. But, I have almost gotten there, and I think that relaxation helps. In sex, we are involved; when getting a BJ, we don't need to do anything, and for some guys that intereferes with...
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    College started. Freshmen, remain High Schooler problem.

    Just ignore it. If you let it get to you, you're displaying to everyone that she is worth getting upset about. If you just shrug it off, no one will care. Just don't avoid the topic if someone brings it out. I know from experience.
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    best way to rekindle an old relationship?

    Despite what many people here will say, it is worth rekindling an old relationship. Just don't become so involved in it that it stresses you out. Seeing this girl should not be your number one priority. It should just be something that you admit you'd like to do, and seeing as it is a pretty...
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    Realizing that different strokes for different folks helps relieve alot of pressure

    It's true. Some guys I know go for girls with words like "luscious" or "baby" or "insecure" written across the ass of their pants. Personally, I like the sexy, almost-dresses-like-a-librarian-and-is-reading-a-great-book type. I go to Barnes and Noble to check out girls a lot.
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    You have to think you are good enough!!

    The problem is, some of us may have difficulty convincing ourselves of to feel this way. I know that it works, and I can even achieve it sometimes, but most of the time I still know in the back of my head that I wanna get with this chick and I'd consider me to be the lucky one if that happened...
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    I've got little "confidence"

    Stop watching so much porn and learn about fingering, eating girls out, etc. I'm average bordering on small but I've got tons of confidence in the bedroom because I know that no matter what, I can get a girl to have multiple orgasms easily.
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    How to change way of thinking?

    I've read the DJ bible and a lot of the more interesting posts here. I agree that the best way of attracting women is to change your way of thinking, but that advice seems pretty rhetorical. How exactly does one go about doing this? I can tell myself that I am the prize all I want, but that...
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    The official Workout Music thread [Merged threads]

    Motorhead-Ace of Spades Guns 'n Roses-You Could Be Mine Stone Temple Pilots-Sex Type Thing Kyuss-Green Machine Pantera-Hole in the Sky (cover of a Black Sabbath song)
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    Is having a deep voice considered unattractive in high school?

    Deep voices drive women nuts. At least, in my case. I remember being selected to read aloud to the class in high school. Whenever I finished off, girls would just exclaim "damn, I love his voice", loud enough for the entire class to hear. Just work on it. There is a difference...
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    LR: The Power of Innuendo

    Yeah, innuendo really works. Unfortunately I'm not comfortable saying thise types of things in front of all girls. Some girls, I can just go completely obvious with it. Others, not so much. Just something to work on though, because it does work and it's fun to see how powerful it can be.
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    Swimmer's body?

    I really hate when people claim that hard-gainers are not trying. Go to a crowded public place and take a look around. You will see a lot of skinny guys, and it is unreasonable to assume that they all under-eat. I am much smaller than many of my friends, and I eat just as much as them...
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    Swimmer's body?

    I never said I was fat... However, I would like to have more muscle, but I don't want to have that bulky look. When one considers that I am a hard-gainer, then I think I need to carefully consider how much cardio I do in relation to how much lifting I do. That is why I am looking for...
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    Swimmer's body?

    I can swim. If I had to save my life by swimming, I would not panic because I can do it. I just have horrible form and don't think I can do myself much good if I swim for hours with bad form.
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    Swimmer's body?

    Well considering I only weigh 130, don't you think it's fair for an educated person to assume that I don't go to Burger King? I was simply asking if their was a special program to achieve those desired effects. Lifting can also be employed if a person wants to bulk up, but that's not my intention.
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    Swimmer's body?

    So, any suggestions here for a 5'7'', 130 pound guy who wants to get that lean, defined swimmer's look? Aside, of course, from the obvious. I'm a horrible swimer so swimming won't work too well for me. Thanks.
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    Library chicks

    You could ask her for help finding a book. I once worked at a library, so usually they'll just redirect you to someone else, but it could work.
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