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    My Confidence Is Back!!!!

    You're so confident that you have to advertise it to the world to get approval from them! Wait, something's wrong with this picture
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    sarging a catch 22 ?

    That's why you don't _TRY_ to _CHARM_ them. You are going up to a girl because you're The King and The King likes to know everyone. You are GRACING her with YOUR PRESENCE. You don't need to TRY anything. You can have her if you want, but that's not really on your mind at the moment. You've...
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    Day 2 planned with HB who lives with boyfriend

    HB 6.5 with boyfriend? Not worth the trouble unless she literally lands on your doorstep in a giftwrapped package with her legs spread.
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    I'm losing it.

    bingo
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    I just got the ODDEST phone call..

    That is very odd. Don't do anything desperate or go too far out of your way. Your attitude is that you're willing to check this out if it's not too much effort, but that's it. If she asks to meet you in a coffee shop 2 minutes away, fine. If you have to drive across the city, good bye...
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    Alphathree's late-night ramblings on social theory

    REALMS OF CONFIDENCE You walk into a pub and see a perfect 10, all jazzed up and sitting by herself. You are paralyzed with fear. You can't approach. But it is not the perfect 10 alone that scares you. It is your current social context. If she walked into your bedroom unexpectedly, you...
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    How to tell her you like her w/out looking like a smuck?

    Dude, just make a move, don't talk. Talk is for girls.
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    How to tell her you like her w/out looking like a smuck?

    TELL HER YOU LIKE HER? What are you, insane?
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    Question/Story from a short guy.

    1. Get David DeAngelo's advanced series. That's the only frickin thing that worked for me. That man knows what he's talking about and he has specific references to bald/short/ugly/whatever. 2. Competing...for...attention? Stop that. It's needy. What are you, a puppy? Would Brad Pitt...
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    FR: I just had a date with a girl i met on Myspace

    __________ STOP RIGHT NOW _________ JUST STOP. STOP STOP STOP STOP STOP STOP STOP STOP STOP STOPSTOP STOP STOP STOP STOPSTOP STOP STOP STOP STOPSTOP STOP STOP STOP STOPSTOP STOP STOP STOP STOPSTOP STOP STOP STOP STOPSTOP STOP STOP STOP STOPSTOP STOP STOP STOP STOPSTOP STOP STOP STOP STOPSTOP...
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    Question/Story from a short guy.

    -- You sound like you're trying too hard. Stop that. -- Lines and techniques are useless unless they are delivered from the right frame of mind. If you have the frame of mind, you can say anything. (I get girls punching me and hitting me all the time now and I really don't even remember...
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    Women go for looks more then guys

    In my experience, looks can get some initial interest or attention, but beyond that, they don't help much. The strongest attraction I've ever seen comes from social proof. Don't listen to blueangel, she can't give you an objective point of view. Do you really expect her to delve into her...
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    NEED HELP GF on very emotional rollercoaster wtf do i do?

    Get rid of her, now. That's your only option. Whenever a girl starts to act up, throw her away. (You don't have to actually do it, either, just show your willingness to do it.) This is the easiest way to communicate non-neediness there is. Just the other day some girl was acting flaky...
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    Word-for-word how alphathree asks girls out

    Notice the articulate speech and careful choice of words... the neg hits... the C&F... the opinion opener... Alphathree: it's on tuesday. Alphathree: you're coming. HB9: k Quick, get out your pens and pencils, write it down word for word!
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    Quick question

    No matter what the situation, I would _always_ sit across from her. ALWAYS. But that's just me. In my head when I think of you sitting next to her with no one across, my mental image of you literally gets smaller. You actually seem smaller in my mind's eye. That can't be good.
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    Why are we using so much math???

    I've always wanted to lay out the art of pickup mathematically... I think it could be done. It's not unlike economics. (Game theory can be used to explain both mating preferences and market economies) Mystery explains his thoughts in pseudo-mathematics, although he stops short of equations...
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    Non-female habits in my so-called "DJ" lifestyle

    - I check myself out in the mirror with my shirt off a _lot_ ... making faces from 'serious' to 'playful' to 'scolding' to 'curious' - I do crunches, push ups, leg raises, and squats before bed (depending on which muscles aren't sore) - I take dance lessons and go social dancing. I dance...
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    Demonstrations of Higher Value

    DHV isn't a "routine." I can't begin to tell you how far down the wrong path you're going to walk... DHV comes from: - having other girls pay attention to you - being good at something (singing, dancing, music, ...) - displaying leadership qualities Social proof is the game of all games...
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    Why Married Men Cheat

    Now all of you know what you have to deal with with your average HB9+. She apparently falls victim to basic social proof every time -- i.e. the fact that another woman has married a given man makes him extremely desirable. You know what I find extremely desirable? Paragraphs. Sentences...
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    Do you have to be in shape for girls to have sex with you?

    If this is an excuse to continue being fat, forget it. Visually how you look is one thing, but being out of shape will make you _feel_ bad about yourself, it'll change your behaviour, and so on and so forth. Unlike for us men when we could really care less if that hot girl is confident and...
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