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  1. J

    Lack of Desire to Pursue Girls

    Well, I've noticed that I've been more insecure about myself lately. I've been pretty judgemental of my own self. I've been working out for like 3 years and have gotten much bigger, but lately from all the drinking and such, I've put on a little fat, but nothing really noticeable, but I do...
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    Lack of Desire to Pursue Girls

    These past few months, I just have no desire to pursue girls. This is completely the opposite of how I used to be. I used to be very outgoing, mingle with girls a lot, very flirtatious, and lately I've just had no drive to do any of that. If anything, I see it as a hassle to do it. I don't keep...
  3. J

    Being Too Picky...

    Thanks for the advice. Its not like I have one-itis for her, its just sometimes when I'm on facebook, I'll glance at her profile to see what she's up to. Then it just makes me think about her a little bit. Besides that though I don't have any pictures, letters, etc. of her. I've been over...
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    Being Too Picky...

    Yeah, whenever she asks me I ask her back and she says no. I've stopped talking to her every day a long time ago. She's the one that calls me every now and then when she's drunk and spills all of her feelings for me. She tells me how she misses me and asks me if I would marry her, blah blah...
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    Being Too Picky...

    I've always had somewhat high standards because I consider myself a good looking guy and have a lot going for myself, but lately I have dropped significantly in my confidence. How do I get it back up again? As for my ex...if she still went to my school we would probably still be going out...
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    Being Too Picky...

    Hey guys, Background: I went out with my ex-gf for about 7 months last year and she was the hottest girl I've ever been with. She pretty much set the standard for the type of girl that I want to be with, physically and personality wise. When we brokeup, it wasn't a bad breakup, but...
  7. J

    Sudden Drop in Confidence

    Hey guys, I haven't been on here in a while, but I have decided to return for some help. Lately, I have lost the drive to meet girls or get with them. I have pretty much become real lazy about approaching and flirting, which is the complete opposite of how I used to be. I can't put a...
  8. J

    Odd Situation with Friend's "Girl"

    Yah I know that. My friend is a big wuss though. I think he might even be a virgin and has barely any experience dealing with girls in general. The reason she flirts with me and such is because she knows I'm experienced and can handle a woman. Also, if I would've found her first at the...
  9. J

    Odd Situation with Friend's "Girl"

    So one of my friends has recently been seeing this girl that he met at a party that a bunch of our friends threw. I guess they smoked that night and slept together...didn't hookup. They've been hanging out a lot and pretty much just smoking together for the most part. He was telling me how they...
  10. J

    Found Key to My Happiness

    For a while now, I've never been really happy. Even at times, I would find myself depressed. I couldn't figure out why. So a few days ago, I reread the DJ Bible and watched some of RSD Flawless Natural. Then it hit me...the reason why I wasn't happy is because I was so focused on myself and...
  11. J

    College Pick Up Advice?

    A little background: I'm a junior in college and during both my freshman and sophomore year I had a different girlfriend for the majority of the year. So during that time, I had no desire to try to pick up girls. As a result, I pretty much completely lost all my game. Freshman year...after...
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    Getting back into the game...

    Hey guys...do any of you have the same problem as me? My girlfriend last year in college was an absolute HB10. She had everything in a girl that I wanted and at the time...I let my guard up and didn't get too attached to her. Eventually, I became more and more attached to her. So for a year...
  13. J

    What do you think?

    Uhm..why the fk would you write her a love letter if you barely knew her. Regardless if you even knew her very well, why the fk would you write a love letter? Have you read anything on this website? That is the most AFC thing to do. Learn from it. Don't pull that **** again.
  14. J

    I've become shallow

    About 2 years ago my sister started giving me tips on how to change my looks and dress better. Ever since then I've been metrosexual and it has gotten to a point where I'm self-conscious. I won't leave the house unless I'm wearing a good pair of clothes that fit me nicely. I make sure I'm...
  15. J

    Importance Of Music Selection

    When I'm driving w/ someone in the car, I pass them my ipod and tell them to DJ. It's my ipod and I like all the music on it so whatever they put on I'll like. Satisfy both sides :).
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    And she says, "We're not having sex!"

    I didn't read the thread, but I would say its a test. The only reason a girl would say that is because sex is on her mind! Now here's where you had to play it cool. You should've IGNORED IT...totally disregarding her statement and jumping onto another topic. This would've made her wonder...
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    Some tips from Tucker Max

    CLOSING THE DEAL: 1. You must not care if she comes home with you: Whether you realize it or not, you care if she comes home with you. You WANT to **** her, you're showing that you want to **** her, she knows you want to **** her, and because she knows you want to **** her, she has all the...
  18. J

    Why am I getting jealous?

    Actually she didn't have to go to prom fi she didn't want to..it was MY prom, not hers (different schools) and we hit it off before prom anyway. She wanted to go to prom w/ me when she was going out w/ her best friend/boyfriend, but he wouldn't let her. So when they brokeup, she was free to go...
  19. J

    Girl Playing Games

    I know, I kind of regret it, but it wasn't like I was purposely denying her, I told her to wait for the loft. The bathroom barely fit 1 person. Now I'm trying not to call her for a while, because its been a 4:1 ratio of calling since prom and she's been flakey.
  20. J

    Why am I getting jealous?

    Okay, I hooked up w/ my prom date on prom night, and things have been weird since then. She caleld me morning after prom and asked to hangout, we never did because she flaked. Ever since that flake she's been flaking, so yesterday I've decided to not call her for a while. There is another...
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