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    How do I tell my girlfriend she's a cheapskate?

    If a girl isn't willing to invest in a relationship it is usually a bad sign IMO... When my ex stopped buying anything for me or spending any money I knew things were going downhill, and by the same token I refused to buy her stuff because I simply wasn't willing to invest my money when things...
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    I've Worked Out Why I'm Such A Fail

    You can still have a sex drive without having had sex. It is merely how horny you are, so I guess related to how often you masturbate. Also note that a lot of anti-depressants reduce sex drive as well. Definitely see a doctor and explain all your symptoms, if he is any good he will refer you...
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    Find your style!

    People seem to spend so much time here focusing on what to say, how to be C&F, meeting women.. I think style is very much underestimated. If you are wearing clothes that you are comfortable and happy with, and most importantly that make you feel more sexy, you will notice a huge boost to your...
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    Damnit ex is talking to me again

    Yep, I did. We got along great, she was going on about how much she missed me, the sex last night was really good. Minor problems.. My parents hate her, so she can't come here much. Her parents hate me so I can't go there much. Heh. Oh well, I'll take no strings sex for a while, might as well...
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    need some advice

    Really... I can see why someone would get a bit upset if you started dating one of their friends, but yeah like the others said an ex has no say in who you hit on now. A couple years ago I dumped a girl (1.5 years) for her best friend, yeah it wrecked their friendship and the ex sent me big long...
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    No Contact FOREVER? Seriously guys?

    Depends on the situation. If you end on friendly terms, but move on, and both are comfortable being friends and potentially seeing the other person with someone else, then go for it! If not... Well, its best to just say no contact. And remember, when things first end it is hard to think no...
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    Damnit ex is talking to me again

    Too late, she says she is horny and wants to be friends with benefits plus she sounds a little drunk. Tap and run anyone? ;)
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    Damnit ex is talking to me again

    Yup, I obviously still sometimes feel pain about it, and am still somewhat getting over it, but for the most part I am feeling ok and only really down when I think about it. I'm not going to go into details about why we broke up... But it looks like she wants me back, of course after a month or...
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    Going on a movie date, no experience here

    Yep. And definitely during the ads and stuff at the start, lay em on thick. During the movie it can be a little distracting if you are making stupid comments the whole time, but the occasional well placed one is good. Make sure when you make the funny comments you get a little kino going. I...
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    Meeting an online girl

    Bump. Public meeting first or comfortable for straight over?
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    Meeting an online girl

    Ok I know it is bad to talk on msn for ages, but a lot of them ask for my msn before I have asked for anything. I just tease them them and make sure they are serious. But anyway, after getting on msn is it ok to ask for the.... Wait no, my question is is it ok to invite her to your place for the...
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    Her sex drive

    I was wondering if this would ever come up on these boards... I have also heard a lot that the pill can kill sex drive, and a lot of the time when sex drive threads come up it is simply blamed on the guy reverting to AFC ways and losing the magnetic attraction he created at the start of the...
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    The misterious point system girls keep

    'Browny points'. A common thing AFC's strive for in a relationship, basically doing 'good things' like buying her stuff and doing work/cooking etc. Flip it around and make her earn points instead. This is actually a decent tactic from the start; if she does something good, reward her with a...
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    Never realized how I am like Mystery

    Mystery is good at his own method.. It doesn't suit everyone, and he may not teach it at its 'core' (rather just says lines to use) but hes good. Just keep in mind with magic not to be the entertainer that is there to do nothing else but amuse the chick. Show her a trick then hold off until she...
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    its over after 3 years - my life feels empty. help

    Sucks to hear it man.. I certainly know the pain you are going through. Make sure you cut any reminders of her out of your life, get rid of her number, email, pictures, delete of facebook etc. Essentially, the best way to move on is to start seeing other girls, but of course that is very...
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    question for the aussies on SS

    It is an interesting question in general; how much do different cultures effect how you interact with women and how much of it is simply universal. Certainly there are some very reserved cultures where the women would be much less likely to go home with you in the first couple of outings. I...
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    GF of 2 years goes to Halloween party w/o mentioning/inviting me; sign of trouble?

    Just been through almost the same thing. Check my thread for what I did. Not saying it was the right thing, not saying it will work for you, but its another idea. Remember, even after all the advice you get it is essentially you who must decide what to do. I suggest make her miss you; get...
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    Wow no contact is tough

    Thanks man, I was pretty pleased with it. She looked quite shocked. Anyway update.. I guess it took a couple days for it to sink in, I was perfectly fine when it first happened then got messed up. I guess I sort of relapsed as bit. Day 5, I broke no contact. I stood by the idea that regret...
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    She's So High Above Me

    Bah, go listen to Under My Thumb by The Rolling Stones.
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    Anyone read "The Game"???

    I actually think The Game is very good. And I may be wrong since I don't remember many people here, but I believe The Game is what gets a LOT of guys into this stuff in the first place. It is certainly one of the first things I read. Quick summary, it is NOT an instruction manual. It is a...
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