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Then get used to living alone. There's not a woman in the world who won't give it up when the right buttons are pushed. They're hardwired, same as we are. What's the fascination with virigns anyway?

I fall somewhere down the middle of this "debate". I thought the stuff on 101 about the ego was great. I believe however that the above is actually the reason why you *can* - if not actually plant things - then activate the triggers in the human mind that mean exactly the same thing...

2 weeks? The good oneitis? I don't know where to start. Yes I do. After 2 weeks a chick doesn't even have to reserve the right to do a complete 180 and lose interest. That, right there, is a slippery slope. Personally I say all oneitis is bad. If you're not prepared to cut and run...

That's because people forget the variables. Everything on this site is a guideline and none of them work every time. This girl obviously liked our man from the start.

Yeah. Basically the blogger has just plagiarised a piece that's been doing the rounds for ages. And it's just as big a lie today as it was when it was first penned.

Mind you, that is kinda what's being done on this thread. I don't know about anyone else but I wouldn't go out with a bunch of rehearsed scenarios in my back pocket. I'd just go out and adapt to whatever came up. That guy you were answering was right in the respect that you can answer the...

You fear that, but it's the best thing that could happen to you. Don't let yourself get drawn into someone else's games.

Most likely she enjoys the attention. There wasn't enough of a spark, or you didn't take her far enough, for anything else.

And I did it for 6 months once and the girl came back. There's no easy answer. It's not like cooking - 15 minutes in a hot oven... And it IS a childish thing to do. And it DOES often make them more keen. Just goes to prove the stupidity of the human race in my opinion.

There's no magic bullet to getting laid. If there was we'd do away with this whole site and replace it with a single paragraph. The closest I can get to doing that is to tell you to work out your strengths. Your brother's half right when he says 'be yourself'. He says that because when...

He's in England, so he's been drinking for two years and she won't get her license for another year...which kind of illustrates the point that different cultures have different ideas about this stuff. I personally wouldn't take on a 16 year old, but I wouldn't judge someone else for doing...

This is the truth of it all. It's why, even if you do turn her around, the whole thing is likely to be based on a shaky foundation. I speak as one who is also in a similar place at the moment. A girl I was into a couple of years back has started talking to me again, inviting me places when...

Holy Sh*t! Why didn't anyone mention that place before. Absolute genius! Cheers Tmpgstx...

I was in the FriendZone about a year and a half ago - it was intentional at first because I wasn't interested. Then she suddenly started being interesting to me. I fvcked up in an AFC way and we stayed "friends" in the worst possible way. About 6 months ago I cut her out altogether, no...

I'm from the UK and I've used them...but rarely. And to be honest, you wouldn't know if they were working or not. They don't immediately make her drop to her knees and beg you to take her home. They plant the seeds of doubt and require her to look at you in a different light to other...

Try reading, "The Curious Incident of the Dog in the Night-time" (google it) and see if you can relate. It's possible you've got Aspergers but just as likely that you're socially awkward. Diagnoses over the Internet are next to useless.

The trouble with adding any kind of humour to a neg is that it takes some of the power away. If she thinks you're just teasing, then you're not knocking her off her pedestal, you're just trying to be funny (and that in itself can backfire). If she thinks you truly meant something by your...

I'd say that was a neg ...and a stroke of genius at that. It works on the same principle as a neg - give her some recognition for something good and then retract it to an extent...or more importantly, make her wonder if you did. Which is why: ...I don't view these as negs at all. Where's...

Negs have to have an element of compliment about them. They must be ambiguous in that respect. Classic one is, "nice blouse, my mother has one like it". First of all you're complimenting her blouse, but then she's thinking, "but does it make me look old...do I remind him of his mother...is...

Those aren't neg hits, they're insults.