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Okay maybe I'm not as hopeless as some, but I have it pretty bad right now. I really need some advice, and some encouragement here. I'm 26 and I just finished college. I moved back home to my parents house and its been really rough and depressing. I have no friends in the area. I have no...

Human beings are programmed with an invisible achievement board inside each of thier minds. This is a very primal thing and I'm sure it dates back to cavemen and exists in other animals. The goal of ones life is to fill these boards with personal achievements one can be proud of and draw...

Human beings are programmed with an invisible achievement board inside each of thier minds. This is a very primal thing and I'm sure it dates back to cavemen and exists in other animals. The goal of ones life is to fill these boards with personal achievements one can be proud of and draw...

I'll try to make this as brief as possible. About 5 or 6 years ago i discovered the PUA community. I had never gone on a date, only kissed 2 girls ever, had no friends or social life. Long story short i made massive improvements to my social life and everything in general. My freshman year of...

so like yeah, in your opinions do the rules completely change when one enters a LTR? For the first time I'm in a relationship i actually want to be in and actually really care about the girl. Just want some input on simple things. Is it alright to compliment your girlfriend frequently if you...

After a good 1 1/2 - 2 years in the DJ game I'm sitting here wondering why I ever put all of the effort into it in the first place. I can't help but take the rejections extremely personal, its just in my nature to really want people to like me. I've been in the field, ive gotten numbers, ive...

Ever been attracted to girl who was so ridiculously skinny and slender you began to suspect they had an eating disorder? The thought hadn't really crossed my mind until she told me how much she loved eating, how eating was her favorite thing in the world, etc. I began to think to myself that...

(I've read the bible, i've cold approached at least 40 women in the past year, and i know the standard advice for one-itis just to move on, but she's not exactly my one-itis because i do hit on other girls. Now that, that is cleared up ....) -Met this gorgeous redhead a year ago, we were...

Don't you just hate it when you want to go sarging so bad and it has to Fvcking rain for days on end ? Sure you could go inside to stores and s-hit, but i have most, if not all my successes from outdoor sarging. Chicks sitting on picnic benches studying, etc. Gonna go out to my college...

So yeah, im really horrible at the more advanced kino (basicly beyond a handshake and some touching of a girls hands etc). My verbal game is farly solid, I've been developing more of a ****y & funny personality just naturally since i became more confident, and im hardly afraid to tease girls...

Can't find any relevant posts on this subject, but then again maybe i just suck at using the search feature. Basicly i want to know if there are websites out there similar to what we have here at sosuave, but for other areas in life. Went from zero to hero with women, now im looking to...

Okay my first time writing a tip, but I've gone from AFC to DJ in a matter of 2 months and just some of the s-hit i read here just shows me how many of you are actually getting the whole concept wrong. First of all, you can read all of the information here, suck it up like a sponge and still...

Hey there guys. Just wondering if anybody has any tips for flirting and just generally creating attraction with these older women. Do y'all game them exactly like a chick your age, or is a change of strategy in order? I'm pretty good at picking up girls around my age (Im 21), but recently...

Yeah quick and simple, All throughout highschool blahblah I had no balls, complete AFC, and let my social anxiety disorder ruin my f-ucking life. Now that I've decided to change this and have been out hitting on girls getting dates, I just really see how small the world really is and how...

So i actually read the whole gunswitch post and I must say that I'm not entirely convinced with a lot of what is said there. (Never getting phone numbers, laying girls you just met in the mall or department store, etc). I know the whole idea of being in a sexual state while approaching and...

Lately I've become way more confident and successful with women blahblah, but I was just sitting here thinking about a particular girl who was extremely interested in me and did pretty much ALL of the DJ things to do ... to me because it was very apparent to her that i was an AFC. Seriously...

yesterday i was out sarging and just enjoying my new found social confidence when i noticed this okay looking girl (i wouldn't date her, she was like a 6), and i noticed her looking at me i figured what the hell ill go talk to her and maybe get a number for ****s and giggles .... she was...

I've been an AFC all my life and never thought i had the balls to even say hi to strangers let alone get a bunch girls numbers whenever the hell i want. Mostly thanks to this website I feel totally great about myself now. I went to a college campus today for 3 hours or so and wound up...

Just wondering if anybody has any personal stories of cold approaches leading to a LTR or even just a hookup. It's starting to seem to me that the only purpose a cold approach serves is to boost confidence and become more familar with talking to women ...

Really good looking chick i nexted keeps profusely apologizing for not returning my phone call last week. I mean literally begging me to forgive her. "please don't hate me" "please forgive me" "im a horrible person" "its not that i didnt want to hang out with you this week, its just...