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Are your statements religious based? Are you yourself a virgin?

which girls do u mean? This makes me think that it's possible that most girls lie and this was one of the few honest ones. I mean she respects me and seems trustworthy, I never would have guessed this number had she not told me. Thats the real kicker.

Ok I really can't get this off my mind. Is it the number itself? Is it because she was my first? Because it's changing my perspective on girls in general? I really can't stop thinking about it and it doesn't help that I am unable to see her for another week.

well what if it comes up again down the road? It's bound to come up again.

The other part to the question is when the number of guys a girl has had sex with gets up there in the teens, isn't it inevitable for her view on sex or even just whoever she is with at the moment to be much less valuable or important?

Yea that's the thing though, what if it were to come up again? Do you think I could be screwed if I tell her now?

Did you guys feel the need to tell your first? I can't pinpoint why I feel the urge to say something, maybe I just feel deceitful if I don't.

I'm 21, shes 20. I slept with 0 before her, she's slept with 16. Also, I've given her multiple orgasms and shes told me I'm good in bed.

So what should I do here, just wait until I can figure out the reason I'm thinking like this? What if I never really figure it out and constantly have this looming over my head?

That's a good point. Maybe I have this image in my head that the first time is supposed to be special. Thinking back on your first time, I've always thought it would be something that is shared, no? I guess since I'm the only one losing it, I'm the only one that needs to know. I'm not sure...

none of what girls are special?

I appreciate the response, but I'm not sure what this line means. Could you elaborate a little?

So I had sex for the first time with this girl about a month ago. After a few times I made the mistake of asking her how many guys she has had sex with and got an answer I didn't want to hear. However when she asked me the same question I lied and said I had sex with 3 girls. Back then we...

I thought you were proving a point more than asking a question, no?

Ok thanks for the responses, one last thing though; do girls do this a lot when they are trying to decide on a person to stick with? Does it make her a slvt?

Yea I think you nailed it there. Do you think I should confront her about it, or would that show insecurity?

I was never really into her, but she was fun and it was relatively easy and when it's right there in front of you it's hard to say no. Anyway, she seems to be hooking up with another guy too, and this fact kind of pisses me off, even though we aren't dating. Why is it that even though I...

I disagree that you are strangers after two months. You both should remember the reasons you hung out in the first place. And also, girls like it when you remember things about them. I remember little things about a lot of girls, it doesn't mean I am really into them, it just means I listened.

Too much filler

Yea really, i honestly doubt it will be that educational