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    A Girl's Friends...what is worse

    Girl 1: Outgoing, down to do just about anything, fun. She has many guy friends and a handful of girl friends. However she habitually chooses bad male friends. From a physically abusive ex boyfriend, to druggie friends, to "friends" that are just scumbag people. She has the same core group...
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    Texting to build rapport

    Met a girl last weekend who is really cute, problem is she lives more than 8 hours from me. So, pursuing anything with her is pointless at this time. I would however like to keep in touch and build rapport since I may see her again in the future. She said she'd like to come back to visit, and...
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    After sex, how does your game change

    Just as the title states. For the most part, how does a typical women change after having sex with her? Do they become emotionally attached easier? I would imagine you would be able to escalate more quickly after taking her to bed, and get away with more... How does game adapt after...
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    is it ever useful to text?

    I have a girl I want to set up a date with, and for the first time I have no desire to text to set it up. I'm calling her tomorrow afternoon and not getting off the phone until she agrees to a day. LOL she's a spunky girl and we have a good banter that is much better received via phone than...
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    Cougar says shes old enough to be my mom

    I've had that happen to me. I just respond with: "Yeah you are old enough to be my mom, cradle-robber ;)"
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    Response to "I love you"?

    I think you handled it perfectly, 1 month is too soon to use the L word, and when I have used it in the past I use it sparingly because it really is a big deal. If she asks i'd tell her I don't throw that word around and when I say it i'm gonna damn well mean it. She still needs to prove...
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    is it ever useful to text?

    And getting back on topic, I am really starting to hate texting. Used to like it, until it yielded ZERO results. Talking about boring sh!t all day I just don't care about. Sure it's a game, leave them in suspense, do ****y/funny, whatever... Pick up the phone and talk, ALL guys text these...
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    is it ever useful to text?

    This can be applied to just about anything a girl does. -She doesn't text back immediately, where is she? Blowing some random dude. -She flaked, where is she? Fvcking the bad boy with the tattoos. -She's sick, I hope she's ok. She's fine, just banging her ex. This can be applied...
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    WANTING to call her out on her $hit, but...

    With this particular situation, she has done nothing wrong. I just didn't want to get into a situation where i'm investing myself in her just to have her run back to an EX. But this train of thought is completely wrong, which many guys have pointed out... ME "investing" in HER before she has...
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    WANTING to call her out on her $hit, but...

    This is why I love this forum. Brutally honest advice :up: Ok, Ok, we've been on 3 dates i'm not going to call her out that she's still seeing her ex. I'm not going to guilt her into anything, and i'm certainly not going to chase her around and be that "weird guy". My problem is that this...
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    WANTING to call her out on her $hit, but...

    Interesting point of view, and I agree; but it would make me feel better catching her and proving to her that i'm no chump. In my mind i've outlined two possible hypothetical conversations. "THE LIE", and "THE TRUTH". See below: Scenario #1, THE LIE ME: Hey how was the event the other day...
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    WANTING to call her out on her $hit, but...

    before I do, please read up and let me know how you'd respond, I feel like i'm getting played. :mad: Background: Met a "great" girl last month and been out with her about 3 times. She always has a good time when she's with me, laughing, joking, and genuinely having a good time. We've made...
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    Setting Boundaries in a Relationship

    There's a post somewhere i've been looking for I read a while ago regarding setting boundaries. The post is about respect, and if laid down early in a relationship, all you need to do is touch on it from time to time. It goes like this: 1. Don't disrespect me 2. Don't aid in other people...
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    When a girl plays hard to get between dates

    For example, you have good chemistry, good communication, then all of a sudden she starts "testing" you by playing harder to get. Once this happens I usually say fvck it. Some girls come back around and their attraction spikes and they begin to pursue me, and others just fizzle out when I...
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    I have met my match: Confident Alpha Female

    At the end of the day, we are just men. Their tactics do work, no argument there. But the game instantly gets more fun when it's two sided and the players are both on a similar level.
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    I have met my match: Confident Alpha Female

    Well maybe not 100% alpha female, but totally different caliber girl than I am used to. She has drive, ambition, goals, sexy, the complete package. Been on a few dates already and they have gotten physical, no sex, but the attraction and "spark" is there. This one is throwing me through a...
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    Spinnin' Plates is WORK

    Thanks bro, I agree with you; I've noticed tons of posts about guys running back to ex's, no contact, "what does this text mean", she sneezed - does that mean she likes me, etc. But those are all topics for another thread... Wanted to ask you something about your comment: "when i saw a...
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    Spinnin' Plates is WORK

    It really is a full time job! Casual Texting Occasional use of facebook Setting up dates/hang outs Actually hanging out/going on dates Making sure you don't run into any other "plates" while out Remembering unique stories from each different girl Surveying the venue when you're out to make...
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    Girl withdraws once interest is shown

    I've noticed this and it's really screwing up my game because I see this pattern repeating itself in basically all girls I go out with. I need to figure out if its something i'm doing, or just the way girls are naturally. (Age of girls i'm going out with are between 20-23) The scenario goes...
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    My ex is all of a sudden calling me again??

    That's why one of my ex's contacts me occasionally. Kick her while she's down. :kick:
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