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    friend to girlfriend in 4 days

    I would hold back on labeling her as your "girlfriend". Yeah it is alright to esculate the interaction, but have some boundaries. If you label her your girlfriend at such an infant stage, more than likely big problems will emerge in the future. I have a friend who met a girl on a Thursday...
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    The Cube; Best Friends' Test; etc.

    I have field tested the "Cube" to the point it is almost blue. In my experiences, the "Cube" is not meant to be an opener, or one of the first routines. I have done this in all stages of the interaction. I found the later I wait to use this, the better. Always ask them if they have heard...
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    Anyone in Minneapolis, MN?

    I have been out of PU for a while, but now I am newly single and anyone in the area?
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    Fish Oil & Sex Drive

    Similarly, about 6 raw oysters will get you strong like bull.
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    Neil Strauss made over $1million in a few hours

    So you are telling me that I could almost go to two live Mystery programs for the price of one of these programs where I get no live instruction.
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    Were His actions Innocent?

    The reason you felt flight syndrome is because he has done just about everything wrong to bring it to the next level. Forcefully putting arm around and not being tactful when you tested him about he would never get sex and you wouldn't have sex with anyone demonstrates he is not a suitable...
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    LJBF- will I deal with it right? (offer advice)

    The problem here is you have set the frame that you are the nice guy she can come crying to with all her problems. You have turned into a girly man as women don't find that attractive. I am 100% sure she was testing you when she asked you if we are a couple. You can be AFC and say yes, or you...
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    Dances- Grinding to Make-out

    You are looking at a fools mate at best when you only grind to make out. If you want a real connection, then you better make her prove yourself to dance with you then reward her once she passes (Tell her you probably aren't a good dancer. Then she proves herself by grinding all over you. You...
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    Feels Like Im Doing the Wrong Thing

    It sounds like you have a predispositioned frame that whatever you say to a girl, she is going to think you are dirty minded. I used to be that way and it was tough to crack. The best thing to do is just say what you are going to say. If she brings up that you are too sexual or you have no...
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    Someone, help... please..

    A good friend of mine just got his gf pregnant while she was on the pill. It is not 100%.
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    Need some advice

    It seems like you are in a holding pattern with this one. You might lose her if you don't do something soon (or you might have lost her attraction if you are too wussy to take it to a higher level). As soon as you start making out with her. Push her away slightly and say "Whoa, this is...
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    Date ideas/thoughts on young mother,age 20

    If you really think she is worth the time, get out of the frame that you need to impress her. She has already lost some status by being tied down with a kid. Just do something simple like shopping. You need to get some food at some point, right? Go to the grocery store and make it an...
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    She won't let me touch her!

    Its called batting out of order.
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    Ghost Bar in Vegas

    For those of you who do not know where this bar is, it is located on the 55th floor of the Palms Hotel. There is a balcony that overlooks the strip. I was at this bar on Tuesday (4/4) and let me tell you, I had a blast. I want to share a tip in how to instantly get converstions going and...
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    How do you get interest of a hyperactive woman?

    You don't buy into her frame and subtly call out her behavior. If she gets all mad from your constructive criticism, why hang out with her? Nothing but trouble right? The problem with these strong personality types is most everyone buys into her frame.....DON'T
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    Asking her out right away?

    You definately need to get to the comfort point before landing the #. Yes girls will give out their number after a short interaction, but the flake-o-meter is very high if done in that fashion. Start a conversation about class, opinion, whatever (there are a million examples posted in this...
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    A bad date makeout?

    Actually she just moved up here from New Mexico and she is originally from Mississippi. The accent is totally there. I do get you about Stereotypical Minnesota Women. I went up to get a quick bite to eat and a quick drink and bounced to another place. I had her meet me at my house and we...
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    A bad date makeout?

    Alright, I need an opinion about a situation/date that happened to me this week. I had a girl come over to meet me and we left to a couple places. The first place it was going alright, but the second place we went to, it felt awkward. I was surely out of my game. We left and went back to her...
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    did I f*ck up?

    Text or no text, you already dug your grave. If there was any chance that was a mistake, the text sealed your tomb. It should never come up to give a girl a choice where to go. Maybe after you have built enough comfort over time that can come up. The frame here is the same as every other...
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    Need Damage control here guys...

    "Hey, I emailed/called you last week and I didn't hear back from you, whats up? hmmmm.., anyways I am alive and well and kicking it so call me back, bye." Do this one week after the no contact.
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