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I've only met one girl from a personals site. She didn't have a pic posted, and she turned out to be very good looking, an 8 or so. Unfortunately that was before I found sites like this, and I was too AFC and got stuck in the LJBF zone with her... but she's ended up being one of my best friends.

True. If they did, I might be more afraid of the bear.

I just read the part of the DJ Bible about how absurd it is that people who do somewhat dangerous things on a regular basis are scared to approach beautiful women. And I realized I'm exactly like that. I spend a lot of time in the wilderness, and although the main dangers I encounter are...

I understand a good smile is an important tool. But I have a problem. I look like an idiot when I try to smile. I have a decent smile when it's involuntary, but when I force it, it always looks... forced. And more like a scary clown smile or a creepy sneer. Anyone have advice on how to...

I got his e-book (before I found this site actually) and it seems pretty good. He's not the greatest writer but he has some interesting stuff. It improved my understanding of what causes attraction in women. That's how you've got to look at it -- not as a recipe for instant guaranteed...

I've always known I was an AFC, but it's only been in the last few weeks that I realized that a) there's an actual term for it, and b) there's something I can do about it.

My problem's always been nice guy syndrome. I was brainwashed into trying to impress girls by being nice to them and showering attention on them, and when they said they just wanted to be friends, I'd been so misled I was actually thinking that if I just paid enough attention and treated them...

It's difficult to sound smooth coming up with a monologue when you're expecting a dialogue. At least, I have trouble with it... obviously it's a DJ skill to be developed like anything else, but I don't have it! "Oh, you're not there... well, uh... um.... (stammering like a moron) (making...

...is a beautiful woman's voicemail. Ugh! Any pointers?

Just refusing to get her books seems a tad jerky and not quite funny enough... it might be an improvement to get her books, and then play keep-away with her. :)

Your post is definitely totally wrong about some nice guys. I grew up in a very functional family with parents who were both very nice and attentive. I'm trying to get over a very serious case of nice guy syndrome, but you don't have the cause right at all. I think mine (and I'm sure this...

Very good stuff! The only thing I've gotta wonder about is making fun of her degree... yeah, you're right, it's a phony degree. But it seems like you're just putting her down rather than making her laugh at herself... that one's a bit too heavy on the ****y and light on the funny I think...

This is really, really stupid. It had me really interested until he started prattling on about thought waves. They don't exist any more than fire-breathing dragons and the tooth fairy. This is crazy-person-with-a-tinfoil-hat stuff through and through. I'm a very open-minded person, but...

Yeah, regardless of the controversy over who came up with which ideas... they've really helped me, too. I used to have really bad luck and it seemed like something was wrong with me, but I didn't know what. I'm already a nice guy, and I was actually trying to be nicer to impress girls. I had...

I'd like to keep a couple bottles of wine handy to serve a girl who's coming over to my apartment sometime soon. I don't drink (not out of prudeness, I just can't stand the taste) so I have no idea what to get, and need some advice. I'm a college student so I'm on a tight budget. The girl...

How is it as a date movie?

From everything I've been reading, and from my limited experience since I've started really examining my methods and everything... ...it seems that it's okay to be a nice guy, but it can't be your most prominent trait. Women seem to ultimately want a fun, masculine guy who's also nice, and...

I have a personality, too, and I'm not changing it, but their advice has still helped me immensely. Everybody's personality shows through differently under different situations. It's like a white piece of paper--shine a red light on it and it looks red, shine a blue light on it and it looks...

Well, I don't know if I agree with you about the moral decay of society. I don't think society has ever been morally perfect or anything close to it. And historically it's certainly been much worse than it is right now at times. Also, I don't think religious standards are good ones for...

The time frame I'm looking at for finals etc is a week or two. And I do pass the time by going out with another girl--that's a whole different story and has plenty of complications itself, etc. Not going into it here but it's definitely not total 1-itis. 2-itis maybe, for now. :P My basic...