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    Can a woman from a rich family adjust to a lower std of living and still be happy?

    Thanks for the responses guys. Alright, I figure I can take one of 3 approaches here - 1. End it cordially. Tell her that I don't believe she will ever be happy with me and save time for both of us. We are both older. 2. Wait and see. Be nice to her, continue to do what I was...
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    Can a woman from a rich family adjust to a lower std of living and still be happy?

    My gf comes from a rich family and we had a huge fight today. After arguing about something small, it snowballed and next thing I know, we started talking about how much money I spend on her. A few weeks ago I went into my savings to buy her a birthday vacation (over $2,000), but after that I...
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    was too aggressive on first date, how to recover?

    well, anyway - she wrote me back and said that she felt like i thought she was cheap, but my apology made her think that it might have been in her head. she just wants to put it past us and go out again. i guess the apology worked. now i just gotta figure out how i'm ever going to get in her...
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    was too aggressive on first date, how to recover?

    so, is this a dead situation or what? - went on a date, everything went real well until the end. - started making out with her. she liked it, even telling me i'm a good kisser. - on cab ride home, i got a little frisky, but didn't force anything. she is very conservative, but i didn't...
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    in trouble - what do i do

    here's the short version - - went out to a club last weekend and got wasted - ended up making out pretty seriously with this girl that i never knew before and thought was just a stranger there - turns out she knows a bunch of my friends - when i came to my senses, i realized that i wasn't...
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    buying tickets before asking if she is free....?

    this one always gets me. if you want to do something with a girl that requires having tickets, do you buy the tickets, then ask, or do you ask if she's free, then buy the tickets if she is? i always have problems when i ask if she is free first. for some reason, whether it's because they...
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    i messed up, what now?

    i am so f***ing whipped it's not funny. ARGH! ok, thanks guys for the advice. f*** it, it's her loss.
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    i messed up, what now?

    ok, 2 votes for "do nothing". i think that's the correct course of action. question though - does anybody know anything smooth that i could DO to get back on track, rather than waiting? not saying that because i disagree w/the first 2 replies, but sometimes people here have some truly...
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    i messed up, what now?

    ok, first of all, i know 99% of you guys are going to say "forget it, move on". that's fine. but i want to know if there's something i can do to recover from my stupidity. some of you true pros out there probably know how to make up for your mistakes and get back on track. that's what i want...
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    i love a girl that doesn't love me.

    no problem wjh. keep your chin up.
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    i love a girl that doesn't love me.

    this is what i would tell you - 1. i think you're sad because you think "giving up" is your only option and it hurts. you want to keep hoping. well....hope all you want. knock yourself out. unless one or both of you are planning on going somewhere far far away permanently, there is...
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    girl keeps playing the "i'm so busy" card

    tilltheendoftime - i'm going to have to disagree with you. not every girl who is highly interested will say yes right away or never flake or whatever. you've heard of "the rules", right? sometimes women have very high interest, but play hard to get or act aloof or whatever because they...
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    girl keeps playing the "i'm so busy" card

    that makes sense spukee and the others who voiced similar advice. thanks.
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    girl keeps playing the "i'm so busy" card

    let me give you a taste of what this annoying girl is like. this is what was said today - ----------------- me - so, how's your week looking? are you free? her - well, i'm busy today and tomorrow with dinner plans, wed i have to see my gf's, maybe thursday, weekend i may be going away...
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    girl keeps playing the "i'm so busy" card

    ok, first of all, i've read the bible and all that and done searches on this, so please don't give me that response. i am seeing other girls, etc. i just want to know how to straighten this one girl out. here is the situation - - girl has interest in me (dated me a few times, we've made...
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    giving a girl a 2nd chance but are still bitter.....

    yeah, i know i screwed up. posted it again in discussion. mods, please delete this one.
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    giving a girl a 2nd chance but are still bitter.....

    guys, question for you. quick background first - - dating this girl for a bit - she started playing hard to get by saying she was busy all the time. i could tell it was bs though. - i, in turn, basically said "you don't have enough time for me, so i guess this isn't working out" - she...
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    hookup etiquette

    alright, i have a bit of a problem, but i'm not even sure it's a problem. - on new years eve, i brought home a girl that i met through a friend - got her number, said i would call, but i haven't. i'm not interested. it was a one night thing for me. - she's been calling me tonight really...
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    should i bother calling her?

    in my mind i have nexted this girl, but i don't know if i should give her a call to talk and let her know i am moving on. normally i just don't bother calling, but i slept with her a few times already. in a nutshell - - asked her out, went out, had sex on date 2 - two weeks ago, i had...
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