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    No longer a virgin

    OP: thanks for sharing. Good work on your life you did.
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    dont you want somebody to love?

    Very interesting discussion. I completely agree that you should take care not to fall into the trap of somebody else, aka a woman, to fill a void or fear inside yourself. What I'd like your honest opinion about is the following: Couldn't it be that you did not act for what you need? you...
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    Does she really need space?

    that would be the right time to go silent. No more contact from you. Enjoy your life with others. If she comes back to you after some time, ok. I also don't believe the "couple of month" crap. Maybe you acted too much of what you think relationship-like and that might have freaked her a bit...
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    Girl asks to be slapped during sex

    My take: As long as it's sexy, everything is fine ith me. Slapping the face I find a bit unusual, too, but to each his own. I like the dom stuff very much. ONLY this can be a bit boring, I also want some tantric stuff. Can be a different girl, though. I recommend "Screw the roses...
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    Kontroller Was Right , ..., Again

    In short: you invested half a year into a girl you didn't even fvck in the first place. And now, you are angry and frustrated? Blame yourself, not her.
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    For the guys that like fat chicks...

    What an idiot...
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    Dating women isn't for me, asexuality is.

    That he didn't "show off" doesn't mean a thing. This is not everyones way of living and doing business. I myself get easily repulsed by a mouth too loud, maybe because I often assume that a cool guy would not have the necessity to do so, or at least do it with style. I myself have learned...
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    Dating women isn't for me, asexuality is.

    So true, Alle Gory. the one who cries loudest is not always the one who deserves your ear
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    I need examples of teasing women

    What you NEED more than anything is to CALM DOWN. NOW! THEN you need to choose some of the advice you got here, ACT on it, and if you want, REPORT here. Instead of asking all these questions and not seeming to deeply absorb any answers take your time and read the DJ bible, in which...
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    Dating women isn't for me, asexuality is.

    concerning the last post: most of your posts seem pretty angry to me. Why is that?
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    conversation problem

    Depends on the setting, of course. Stop the interview. Just don't do it. Instead ALLOW for the (so-dreaded) silence. For me this works well because I sometimes enter a bit surprisingly, I think. It gives them time to FEEL my presence and to realize something along: Hey... he's...
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    Dating women isn't for me, asexuality is.

    Uuuaaahhh. Welcome to the rollercoaster. It's a fantastic ride, but there is a price. You have to DO and practice, and most of all, overcome your fears. You will have to deal with rejections, that much that, they one fine day, don't even hurt you anymore. But the rewards will be...
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    Dating women isn't for me, asexuality is.

    LOL ... Absolutely! I didn't get that context. I knew this frame only from girls trying to hold a mascerade. I was quite surprised reading that from you ;-) We are all fishing in the dark since we do not know the OP. He has to decide. However, I believe knowledge can be quite a trap and...
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    Dating women isn't for me, asexuality is.

    Most of the times I agree with warrior, but this time... "women choose, men are chosen" I say: The men which are chosen are the ones who are able to choose. Or: the man who is truely able to choose (this is inner game) is such because the woman has no choice than "choosing" him...
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    Dating women isn't for me, asexuality is.

    Ah, yes, and stop wonking. For a WEEK.
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    Dating women isn't for me, asexuality is.

    OP: You say never a girl wanted to talk to you / have sex with you. The question is: Is there any girl YOU want to talk to / have sex with? Do you look at them, feel their presence, admire their feminine nature, their way to move, their scent and voice? Do you allow yourself to do that...
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    Be a "cool guy" or a "Man?" There is a BIG difference!

    Seems to me you are wasting too much of your energy in trying to be something you think you should be. Relax more and hove more fun.
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    Powerfull Man VS /Creative,Artistic Man

    Who said an artistic/creative guy has no powerful masculinity? No presence? Of course, "artistic/creative" can be a easy excuse and self-idealization for a nice guy, just as "powerful man" can be an easy excuse and self-idealization for a jerk. Within those two, I believe the jerk...
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    48 Laws of Power vs. Traditional Masculinity

    I think your motivation is key to the equation. Power is addictive. The question is: Are you addicted to power? Of course you can use strategies to gain power and pet your ego. There are "successfull" examples in history, hell you can see it basically anywhere. In that case, it will never...
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    Of the top 20 members by reputation-

    yet another lie from KX I first had contact with you after I came back here after several years, in Blue08's thread about booty-call-damages. We had "differences" about the DJ/jerk dilemma and (only my view from now on, but firmly so) you freaked out completely, then soon you came up with that...
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