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As somone who has pulled this line a few times.... I can tell you that she didn't find someone else or lose interest...she is basically giving you the ultimatum to commit or she IS moving on..it was a test to get you begging. The proper response would have been "ya ok cool" then gone about your...

Blue...that's all great and well..but the question wasn't "what do you like about him?" It was: WHAT DOES HE OFFER YOU???

It's quite simple...you want him because he is the only guy that doesn't want YOU. You said so yourself in your first post, that you can usually get any guy, but not this one. That's the only reason why you are so focused on changing it. Ask yourself this: What does he offer you really...

Did I SAY I was trying to change it??? No. I said I KNOW it, so now I can choose to avoid it. BTW, is the whole coined-phrase here not "Attraction is not a choice?" We do not choose to be atrracted to a$$holes...and in the end it is all about the decisions you make. You can't change...

Well then blue was right...you are all here aspiring to be that a$$hole that we love to fvck. Just like all men love b!tches I suppose...they've even written a book about it. DJ, I am no longer posting here. I originally came here the same reason she did, to find out why guys like you do the...

haha yeah that's it..I am looking for attention from a forum of once-upon-a-time losers trying to turn into a$$holes because they think that's what all women want. Anyway, good luck blue...nothing anyone tells you here will get through to you until you see it for yourself.

DJ, fvck off. I came here to tell her that he is no longer my problem after it took me so long to realize that it was infact my problem for staying with that so long, and that she should not be the girl that I was. Can you read????? Knock it off with your fvckin arrogance.

Sorry blue, but you're not exclusive in any sense of the word. If you told him "Ill only keep doing this if you are not with anyone else" then that is what he is telling you. I was on your exact situation to a T (infact, most posters here hate me for the amount of times I came back here crying...

I'm like this, and I wish I could explain it. I can finally admit, after reading a lot here..that I have a problem and that I am probably bipolar. That or the side effects of birth control turned me into someone I don't even recognize anymore. I'm working on it now. Anyway, to answer your...

Yes...OFCOURSE it is pride/ego and the feeling of being "replaced." Remember all the advice you have given ME as being that girl???? (which I still appreciate by the way, you were one of the few who really got it..now I know why...) I was her, you were him..and everything you told me was right...

Because we dated first, then were on/off (ie. not dating, just sleeping together while he told me he wasnt with anyone else) for another year. I do believe there is a thread here about HONESTY where almost every single one of you answered that if you are sleeping with multiple women, just be...

Well, I guess I should have posted this on the mature forum..because it would seem Interceptor is the only mature one here who answered and kept his judgements to himself. Guess he is the only one who realizes that I am here posting a problem no different in patheticness than the "how can i get...

Thanks but that's not my question. I know its over..I wanted it to be and I ensured that by telling this girl he was cheating on her. I wanted him to hate my guts and never talk to me again..and I want to know why it didnt work. Why on earth would he apologize to me?

So I haven't responded, nor do I ever plan to ever again..he's done from my life after all this emotional drama...but... He msg'd me yesterday for the first time since the incredible blow-up..saying "hey, just wanted to say sorry for what I said to you the other night.." (he called me a...

Anyone???

Thanks for the reply Interceptor. I guess even though I did this for myself to get him hating me and out of my life...I also wanted her to get out of the same situation I was in. Well I just found out she already went back to him. Not sure he told her what I said was a lie, or told her he'd...

Hi, remember me??:down: The one who couldn't get over her stupid ex or the fact he was sleeping with someone else?? Yeah well...ofcourse the last few months have been the same. Him lying and saying he isnt with her anymore, he misses me, blah blah blah...and me stupidly believing it...

How about tested and true tip from a woman?? I am TELLING you..I am addicted to sex with my ex because of this. Doesn't matter the position, but doggy works best. While you're banging her from behind, lick your finger and stick it in the backdoor. Good LORD, I go within seconds everytime..and...

Yes it was the liquor and I apolgize. I should clarify though, that I never threatned him. He didn't KNOW I was giving him until today to call things off with her. He told me himself (I didnt ask) that he was going to last week..so I thought to myself that I'd give him time to do that and go...

i actually want advice. Is that ok with you???????? What difference does it make if this is being asked by a guy or girl???