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    Being in shape and game with women...

    I started working out to look better for chicks. I think a lot of us fall into that category but once you start taking it seriously, that stops. you don't think to yourself, "man, one more rep will mean 5 lays! so I have to push one more time" there's a line you cross where you start to do...
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    Jayer's 100 Approach Journal (Will Finish 100 approaches no matter what)

    cold approach is anywhere anywhere anywhere. best advice I heard was from some dating show on tv... a shy guy asks this dj-looking fellow"so what's your approach like" and the guy looks at him like WTF? and then says...homie...there are no rules. it's all a fvcking game. gold
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    I feel ****in down.Girls criticize my looks.Please help

    watched a dateline NBC special where some kid got ****ed up at a party. I reached this conclusion. think you're ugly...do you have a facial deformity? do you have horrible scarring on your face that makes kids stop, stare and go, daddy whats wrong with that mans face? have you needed...
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    Picking up girls is easy

    I'm slowly starting to shed those self-limiting beliefs, I can't shake them all at once for some reason. for me, the most important thing is to be aware of said beliefs, especially when they kick in. that really is a key moment when you realize old habits dictating behavior, and deliberately...
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    Why hot girls choose to sit next to others on the bus

    back to the orig post.. in my exp girls just do not care on the bus. they'll sit wherever, it appears to be random as far as i can tell. the only way i get IOIs on the bus is when i sit near them, they'll glance a few times, keep talking to their friends/look out the window, then look...
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    Non-drinker

    don't trust guys who don't drink? that one's new to me...care to explain
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    You just CAN'T approach?? Guess what...

    great post. but am i the only one seeing this? i hate to be negative as this really is a great post. i notice this sometimes in my own situations...the game begins before you know it but i have the feeling there'll be a lot of nonconspicuous, very average guys who will read this and...
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    Attitude: what to avoid, what to cultivate

    it's because having women in your life is a by-product of having a great life to begin with. everything falls into place once you have the proper mindset...confidence, happiness with yourself, and women. the underlying theme of this whole site is improve yourself first, and everything will...
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    Krappy approach

    talk to her ugly friends, theyre the ones dragging her away. couldve invited her group to play against you and your friends also
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    Meeting women (Bar scene)

    i was pointing out the fact that the thread poster implied that people who wear baggy clothes makes you look "cool". and what i was saying was that in my experience, the amount of people who wear baggy clothes that have tight game doesn't amount to a lot of people. therefore, just because you...
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    How can i be alpha in an elavator

    next: Q. what's the alpha way to take a dump? A. take up as much space as possible, eyes fixed at lump of crap. in a loud projecting voice grunt to show that dookie who's the boss
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    A hot customer was neg hitting on me. Did I screw up?

    you know what dart, if those pics of yourself you posted last time are still an accurate representation of you.. i dont think she was hitting on you. i know you wont take offense to that, since none was meant. she may see you as an easy target and is playing with your head. i think this is...
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    Pug's 100 approach journal

    "are you single" is not a despo line. from what i've noticed in -my- approaches, its all about body language. if you come off confident + right tonality + good BL you can turn anything into an awesome pickup line. btw (cant believe i just read this whole thing) someone had a great response...
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    second year college - no more mistakes - round 2

    i dont recommend asking questions like "what are you studying" or "what year are you in" until she asks you those questions. we get asked those same questions by everyone else, we have programmed responses to them. when we're asked these routine questions, we use the same script, same...
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    Meeting women (Bar scene)

    do you expect people to have debates in a bar or something? people go out to escape reality, which in many students' cases, is having to think and learn. i know after a rough week of midterms and readings i love kicking back a few and striking up random convos with people. btw baggy clothes...
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    Awful evening clubbing

    can you post a pic? the club scene is something i have not yet conquered but i do know one thing: you have to look good. michael moore walking around alpha and sarging wouldnt get any play in a club
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    How to effectively avoid “AFC BY ASSOCIATION”

    i also have such an AFC friend and i also have friend who is a bona-fide natural. whenever we're out in a group and we meet girls, the natural will just stand out. he's more aggressive (more kino, huge c&f). the thing is, if youre a true DJ you don't have to worry about this, because your...
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    Subway pickups?

    whenever i'm on the subway/bus/whatever transit, you can tell everyone is SO bored and waiting for some kind of stimuli to entertain them so what i'll usually do is try to at least get close to an HB or a group of girls. if it's one of those bus rides where it's just quiet and you can hear a...
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    GodsGiftToFatBirds Bootcamp Diary

    ive been reading a lot of asf material recently and the main philosophy presented (from what ive seen so far) is to use openers to transition into your normal game. i think this would help you a lot when approaching groups of girls. check out this for some opinion openers...
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    Club scene..... how can I make up for what i did.....

    hahah letter of apology. gold i gotta use that one whenever i'm talkin to my friends who feel guilty about their lack of rhythm.
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