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Since a lot of the replies seem to be from older posters, I'm going to post my opinion as a 21 year old: you were talking to a bot or a scammer (likely a male at that) who was trying to extort you for your nudes. There's not a lot you need to think about this. For confirmation, check their...

You're in a tough spot. I'd like to think it's common sense for anyone not to flirt with someone else while being in a relationship, specially in their partner's presence, but maybe it's not. If you don't cut her too, I'm sure you'll eventually be plagued by the question of what she does behind...

I had a similar situation early on in my relationship. I was trying to hook up a friend of mine with my girlfriend's friend so we went on a double date. The entire conversation, the guy kept making snide remarks about me instead of talking with the girl. This guy was someone I went to school...

I think you're trying too much with the same girl. You don't need to interact with her everytime you see her. If you happen to cross paths, smile and move on. There's no need to attract her attention intentionally. Maybe even ignore her but don't make it too obvious. Move on to other girls...

Day 7. Better than day 6 because I tried staying more busy. No trouble during the day. Saw her in my dreams again at night though and it had me incredibly distressed. More in control now that I'm awake. Nothing significant to note really. I've been making plans on what new hobbies I should pick...

All her other friend groups are very conservative and the "right type" of friends. Only this one, the one who she ran to after the breakup, is fvcking shyt. Absolute low-class, gutter tier woman. As a matter of fact, their friend group was larger up until the same bytch broke them up. They'd...

Day 6. It was a mistake thinking I'd moved on already so fast. The day was particularly hard compared to the past few days. Thankfully no trouble sleeping but I saw her in my dreams. I broke NC in my dreams lol. I called her and her friend picked up instead and told me its over and to move on...

Joined: Jun 21, 2017 Messages: 9,894 I'm not sure your self-assessment is accurate since your argument seems to be jumping all over the place. Thanks for your "advice", but I'm sure I'll be ok with just the opinion of everyone else on this thread instead. I guess I'll be missing out on some...

Day 5 of NC. The nights always seem to be the relatively hardest parts of the day because that's the only time I'm not preoccupied with something else. Unfortunately I learned of a post she put up through a friend. Happy, smiling, eating out. She's also been posting more frequently than when we...

I'm sorry you have a reading disability, or you may have run out of your meds. If you could read, you'd have realized that not in a single post of mine did I lay the entire blame on her. She was almost unicorn-like and I lost her mostly because of my own carelessness in the relationship. Did I...

I'm having an intense surge of emotions right now all of a sudden so I won't be able to respond to your messages just yet but Bigpapa I would appreciate it if you could share your own story as well or let me know where I can read it if you've posted it before. I'm gonna have to take a breather...

Does your opinion stand after post #69? Also you never told me what you think I should do.

I'm not sure what auto rejected means? I've sure forgotten a lot of terms after not posting for years but that term doesn't ring a bell at all. I think it's the latter, that I wasn't "getting closer to her." I think so too. Besides, it wouldn't be like me and if I were to show off too much...

Why did she continue to text me, trying to talk as if nothing had happened, just a few days later? Shouldn't the relationship have been over right after her disrespect if that was the cause of the breakup? When she broke up with me, she told me she'd been crying herself to sleep everyday I...

Today is day 4 of my NC with her. I've been spending the days exploring new hobbies and trying out new stuff, and the evening's spent reading stuff on this forum, catching up with friends/family, and watching movies and some TV. I could barely eat and sleep properly the first few days of the NC...

I read through it and another post on that website. What really stuck with me is "When you get your girlfriend back, it's never the same as the first time around, because there is always a sense that she has left you to find something better, and not found it. She's back with you again because...

How would you respond in this scenario? So far I've done what I wanted to do and it's starting to become clear that it's maybe not always the best thing that could've been done. I don't want to make avoidable mistakes.

Through some self reflection after she dumped me, I came to the same conclusion that in the future, boundaries must be communicated clearly, directly and firmly right from the start. Hadn't though about whether my actions could be construed as setting a boundary but I understand now that it...

Thank you everyone for your response so far. What was/is going through her mind, only she knows, and maybe I will if we ever get back together but no matter, if it happens, it'll happen, that's not my focus at this point. I'd like to know how I should proceed now? We both still have each other...

@Baibars : Post #32 for a better explanation of what led to the argument. I'm also not sure I understand what you mean with your third sentence? @Bigpapa : Thank you. I'll check it out for sure.