This has been postulated for years on the whole Hunter/Gatherer dynamic and what ADHD traits evolved for. One of those initial classic ADHD books (title escapes me presently) discussed this in detail.
Scattered Minds by Dr. Gabor Mate does a really nice job of talking about ADHD traits, how...
Age being used as a cutoff is a self-limiting belief. Does she pass the boner test? Does she have obvious red flags that you should disqualify her over?
^This. Context is everything. If you've made no effort at kino during the actual date then you are much more likely to be rejected with the kiss close. Concluding that the women is not worth more of your time is sound logic at that point but it might say far more about you screwing the first...
You might look at this from a metacognitive standpoint. Why are you thinking these thoughts? What is the underlying issue for you? There is something under the sex issue. Until you sack up and have the honest journey with yourself, this will be one of a string of issues to add to your...
+1 to everything BE just said. I'm trying to remove morality from my opinion but damn. Open marriages destroy themselves every.single.time for numerous reasons.
Right now it's a fantasy. You are getting more and more wrapped up in the dream as you sell yourself on it. Asking the same questions...
You'll guide her through therapy because you're taking a psychology class?
This has train wreck written all over it and seems like bad karma if you go down this route. Be careful what you wish for.
You have wrapped this girl up in a fantasy of cognitive dissonance. Nothing in her behavior suggests interest (and yours comes off as creepy and weird). Stop buying into a fantasy that doesn't exist and don't sh!t where you eat.
Find a chick outside your apartment complex.
You are on a road to being ****ed over completely and YOU are the one giving her all the ammunition she needs to do it. It's a trap (duh). If you intended to **** other women while married then you should have said NOTHING. This ends badly for you.
There are ALWAYS strings attached.
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