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Most pathetic attempts at kino I was at a bar by myself and I was talking to these three girls. I asked if they were going to dance and they didn't want to at the moment. I went to the dance floor for a while. When I came back I asked again. It was almost like I was begging, so I backed off...

I know that asking for some sugar is an afc move. Actually I was going to admit that it was just an excuse to come up and talk to her which I don't think is an afc move. That is why I said that I can make it work. Anyway, I saw her last night and she was standing in front of our building...

I have a hot blonde neighbor that lives above me. She moved in about a month ago. I went up to her door probably the second day after she moved in and her boyfriend answered. I kind of just talked to him while she was still unpacking even though she said hi. He made it known that he doesn't live...

When friends work against you I don't have any friends that are DJs. I would rather be by myself in a club. The last time I went to a club, I was talking to a very hot blonde and my friend came up to us and said "Is your name so and so and do you know so and so?" She didn't know what he...

Actually I do have a very severe case. I've taken screening tests that say, for instance, if you score around 25 points you are likely to have it and I scored around 100! It has effected every arena of my life and has lead to bouts with depression and severe self esteem problems. It has also...

I just found out that I have ADD. It seems to be the biggest reason for my failure with women. It effects aspects of attention, conversation, and almost everything else involved in trying to make new relationships. Does anyone else have ADD? I found this site and it was a revelation...

Hey man, I am there. I am 32 and I only had one relationship and that was with a married woman. I don't have a career and it stems from the fact that when I was younger I thought I would never be able to effectively communicate with women. It doesn't matter how you look. I know that I am...

bootcamp I AM IN! SOMETIMES I FEEL LIKE A DJ AND SOMETIMES I DON'T. IT IS TIME FOR ME TO GET MY SH*T TOGETHER!

I don't go clubbing a lot, but I've noticed that when I do go and I haven't been in a while it takes a while to get warmed up to be able to effectively approach and engage women. If I go out the next night I am much more effective because I'm used to the situation. I guess I should start going...

I'm so low... Hey man, I have been there. I know that a lot of what people say may not help, but this is what helps me sometimes. Try to realize that if you were meant to be with this girl, you wouldn't have broken up. It always helps me to know that a higher power knows what is best for you...

Dance magic and the power of the eyes This is exactly the advice I was looking for. I have very good rhythm and women like the way i dance, but I never start grinding with them even when I get a sense that they want me to take control. They sort of give me a very sensual look but they never...

Negative self image I have had a negative self image for many years. I used to think that I would never be able to connect with women. This in turn effected every area of my life. I had no ambition whatsoever. After finding this site around two years ago, it has changed my life. I know now...

I am a relative newbie to the DJ world, but I would like to repeat what has probably been said here before. This just happened so I'll use this as the example. I am at the library and I see a statuesque model type walk by. I am thinking that if I don't approach her I may miss out. So I take...

I am sick of calling a girl the first time and having to leave a message. They usually don't call back. I am much better talking to a person than a machine. From now on, I am going to ask when is a good time to call and call at that time. If they don't answer the first time, I'll call back at a...

leaving messages Personally I am starting to think that I won't leave messages the first time I call. I am going to ask them when I should call and call then. If they know when you are going to call, and they don't answer call back at a similar time. If she still doesn't answer, next her. Any...

leaving messages Personally I am starting to think that I won't leave messages the first time I call. I am going to ask them when I should call and call then. If they know when you are going to call, and they don't answer call back at a similar time. If she still doesn't answer, next her. Anty...

This feels like therapy. Thanks a lot. I guess the two main feelings I have are regret and shame. Women are gravitating towards me. I walk confidently and approach confidently and get them smiling most of the time. I know I have to focus on myself(still need to hear it though) but I get...

I have been lurking and learning here for over a year. It has helped me greatly in dealing with women. I had almost zero confidence with women before. This has caused me to have no ambitionin life. Now I have the skills to make a woman smile. I love a woman's smile. However, I always have...

Should I call back Okay, I know I am going to next her. She was the one who approached me and said "let me give you my number" I didn't ask her nor did I talk to her that night. Does this make any difference?

This chick gave me her number at a club. I asked her to dance. We were going to dance, but the DJ totally sucked. I told her we can have some coffee. She said she can't do without coffee. I told her I 'd call. Called 4 Days later, tried to set up where we can meet. She told me she had off...