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1. Sometimes yes, sometimes no. It largely depends on my mood. When I'm feeling good, I have no problems approaching them now, when before, even at my best times I could usually manage only a smile or hi. 2. Same answer as number 1. The approaching and stuff is more of a mental game than...

Read Duke's bootcamp journal. He's in Aussie land.

That sort of thing happened to me once or twice during my first 2 weeks of bootcamp. I would be out and about, feeling good, and then randomly I would see someone from highschool. BAM- straight back into afc mode. It was weird to see them like that but I slowly got used to seeing the most...

Well isn't that sort of the same thing? You want to be able to choose your girl, and don't want to be stuck with one that you know is not as "good" as you could get? I guess good is a better word, since for some people personality and other things are major factors, while for others it's all...

That's a shame to hear man. I still think the first 4 weeks are the most pivotal parts of bootcamp. The stuff after that isn't as jarring to your old ways as the frst 4 weeks are. Maybe I say that because I haven't really tried past week 5, but eh. Apod's running out of steam, you're out of...

Duke man, you can't get too down about this. You shouldn't look at what you don't have right now, you should look at how far you've come. Think back to how you acted/felt/looked like a year ago. Would you really prefer to go back to that? Or do you like the way you are now? I know it's rough not...

Maybe the club isn't the best place to pick up chicks for you? I don't know if you're simply looking for a quick fvck or a few dates from girls that you hit on in the club. I feel kind of at a loss on what to tell you though, since I don't know how Aussie women are at all and it might be...

I don't know why, but I have weeks where I want to approach and weeks where it just isn't that serious. Anyone understand what I'm going through? Even chatting hasn't gotten me that pumped. I've been doing the gym stuff, working on my art /school work, I dunno...girls just kinda got put on the...

To expand on what the other two posters have said, rapport also generally lightens the mood, it relaxes you and her quite a bit. Kino is easier with more rapport, and we all know where that can lead :D

If you want her, go get her. Even if she says no, you could still chat with her and do the whole social proof thing if you want.

1) We can't help it that we're so sexy 2) Friends are friends, it doesn't matter to DJ's whether they are male or female 3) Yea, so? Who wants to be boring and serious all the time? 4) Sorry, DJ's don't thrive off the attention of girls. We are focused with our own lives, therefore we have...

Uh....I would watch out on that one. Never go to such an intimate place like the hips if you don't know the girl, especially if she is with her boyfriend. You're just asking for trouble then. Arms and shoulders are a good place to start with girls you don't know, maybe the upper back. Anything...

Good work so far. I'll try to give you my input on your questions. Don't stare at a girl for 100 feet, that's kinda eeire :p Just "notice" her when she's about 20 feet or less away, make eye contact and smile. Hold eye contact until she looks away first, unless something else demands your...

Thanks for the comments MF, I appreciate the insight. I don't really try for black girls because they are too easy. Suonds weird as sh!t I know, but I get no sense of challenge when I'm with them, thus they bore me. I found this out with my last gf. --- Today was a great day. I woke up in...

Thanks for the kind comments, man. I suggest that you throw caution to the wind and talk to her. Don't think about what to say, or how to act, just treat her like she's one of your friends. You don't worry and wonder what to talk about with them, do you? Treat her the same, don't put her on a...

I didn't say I was tired of it, you just sounded like (in your previous posts) you wanted to avoid posting it over again. Tht's the spirit, never give up.

Sucks to be her. She shouldn't expect you to wait for her to change her mind, you have other prospects and aspects of your life to deal with . Just do whatever you think you need to do to get your confidence up. If you do start BC over, at least don't write about the eye contact, and if you do...

Although I don't think you need to start over from the begining, you must do what you feel is right. Maybe a week or two of convo's and nothing else will get you back into the mood? If you think it's too repetitive for this thread, just post them in mine to save space. Whatever needs to be...

EDIT: Ok, I've caught up now. I didn't know there was a page 10 until after I had posted, but now I got a better grip on the situation. EO- It sucks that you got dumped, but at least you realized that your problem- you got too attached too quickly. As long as you recognize the problem, you...

EDIT: Didn't see page 10, lol. I'll edit this post again after I read it.