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Actually this is an interesting one. In general socialising, it's kind of normal to give some of your personal power away. You know, stuff like being animated, testing the water to find things that you have in common, so you can bond. Because it's not the same as turning on the intensity with a...

I totally agree Str8up. It just seems there is a gap between being talkative, high energy etc. in a general sense, and being truly spontaneous, perhaps a little outrageous. The latter is where you really begin to break down the barriers and get personal with the girl. The first just has...

I work in a very cerebral job, I've always been academic and quite laid back, and certainly while this can attract a really high calibre of woman, it's not so good for partying. I can be fun too, but you can become a bit too complacent and you don't realise to what extent you're living in your...

Thanks for the reply. I'm certainly not boring in the sense of asking a long list of mechanical questions. But certainly being truly spontaneous and fun is something I haven't quite got yet. The reason I ask is because I am hanging around with some new wings who are way better than me at...

Hey guys. I have a question for you. Watching seasoned players, I've realised something. There is definite difference between the more formal small talk (not about the weather, but say, about family, what somebody's been doing today etc.) and the really personal kind of small talk that helps...

At 29, I'm trying to be ruthless with myself about what is holding me back from achieving my potential with women, and I wondered what you guys thought. Perhaps you can identify with my situation. I know I need to break through some fears, or weaknesses, but first I need to identify them, then...

Are you sure you can't tell us which country this is? If you're reserved about that, feel free to PM me. It would be interesting to compare notes on the extent to which this works in different cultures. It definitely is a factor - don't let anybody tell you otherwise. But so is whether you...

It looks like we'd make good wings. I'm in strange position to be honest. I went to a pretty poor comprehensive outside London, but I'm still perceived as being posh (admittedly I do speak well, and I'm intellectual). I work for myself and I'm not doing too badly, but I'm not stacked up with...

Yeah, I was gonna say that in terms of spec - it's already obsolete. Just wasn't sure if US was at the same stage with rollout of 3G as Europe, but you probably can't make the comparison because of the difference between urban/rural areas where nobody is going to use 3G anyway. You have to...

I just stumbled on this preview of the new Apple iPhone. http://snapshotreviews.com/index.php?option=com_content&task=view&id=2&Itemid=9 What I'm amazed about, amid all the hype, is that there is no 3G. Is it true that 3G isn't widely available in the US yet, which is why Jobs didn't...

Good idea. But what I struggle most with, is following things up. Without asking really boring and formal questions about where she lives etc.? But also without telling stupid unfunny jokes due to the pressure that you have to be funny.

I just wanted some advice. At the moment, I suck at being spontaneous, and I'm trying (and will succeed) to change this. I'm thinking of those situations where you pass somebody fleetingly, say a waitress or punter at a nightclub, where you have a split second to chat her up - or you risk...

I just wanted some advice. At the moment, I suck at being spontaneous, and I'm trying (and will succeed) to change this. I'm thinking of those situations where you pass somebody fleetingly, say a waitress or punter at a nightclub, where you have a split second to chat her up - or you risk...

That's why the female boss is on my side. She knows I took our highest paying client from tenth to top spot in terms of total media coverage among companies in that specific industry sector. I also did so well with another client that they have asked us to do global public relations for them...

Sure, fire away and I'll see what I can come up with. You might be surprised. It's easier to judge other people than it is to judge yourself, and that applies to everybody.

You can't do anything about the shape of your face. There's nothing wrong with looking boyish. You simply can't change your biological make-up. Maybe you could check your laughing/smiling etc...If you look young - and I know where you are coming from - it's more important to neutralise...

Hi guys I just thought I'd air my thoughts and see what your opinions are on this situation. I think I'm coming to a turning point in my career. I enjoy what I do, but I've had some problems recently in not feeling appreciated by my boss and the founder of the company. The problem is that I...

Interesting thoughts. Thanks for your ideas! Any more would be greatly welcomed. Would be good to see different perspectives on this.

I'm wondering how you feel about this. To be honest, I feel surrounded by people who care so much about being charismatic, or TRYING to be, and their insincerity annoys and repulses me. Like they are just animals trying to outdo each other. I feel blinded and unbalanced by the sheer...

Again, I'd have to disagree with this 'neg hitting is the answer, one size fits all' attitude. AFC is telling a beautiful woman how good looking she is, how nice her eyes are etc. She's heard it all before and it makes you sound like everyone else. We're all agreed on that point. You...