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It depends on where you are, really. In Romania, this is still used to greet a female at times. I think it's an elaborate gesture and far too tasteful for our Brittany Spears' loving society of today. But if you're dealing with a classy girl who has obviously dressed up for the occasion, I...

I never imagined I'd be in this position, but I rather innoculously met a girl from Romania on the net. We talked for a number of months, and gradually I began to see what an incredible girl she was, how much we had in common, and how much fun it was chatting with her. I dated several girls...

Not even close. By a long shot. Ever stepped foot in Tokyo? How about countless places in Europe? Let's just put it this way, you go to the Balkans, and in countries like Bosnia, Croatia, and Serbia, there's a term used by women. They're looking for a "sponsor." And what is a...

You know, when it comes to intros to strangers, I'm becoming more and more of a fan of a fully honest approach. I think it's more novel and sincere than the trite line, anyway. Eye contact. Smile. Approach. "I'm sorry, but you're really cute [shift head-half-smile], and I had to say hi...

I disagree with you guys. I think the "is that alrght" is pretty crucial. Without it, it leaves a very awkward silence. You want to project a sense of humor. A big grin when you say that let's her know that you know that's not normal behavior, but that you don't care and she's going to have...

As if it doesn't merit repeating. What a jacka##!

Depends on what kind of girl you have, too. If she's a classy girl who keeps her commitments, then you have a whole lot less to fear. You did say that you all were having sex within a month into the relationship, which would indicate that she may not be the girl who is going to place her...

I'd hardly consider someone waiting for marriage repressed. Honestly, there are people in this world that will tell you that until you've taken a horse schlonnnnngg up the tailpipe, you're repressed. We all have different priorities in life, different limits. I don't know if the...

To what Offcentreview said, I think you could possibly run the risk of projecting that you're not interested if you don't kiss her. The same thing, but to a much lesser degree, with kissing her on the cheek. You can minimize this further with body language. Get close to her, catch her eyes a...

Sart, I can live with your criticism, but if you're curious about a view from the other end, if you ask me, you, my friend, I'd say the life you recommend is a very myopic one. You ask who would want a good Christian girl. Well, for starters, me. There is a whole other level of intimacy...

I look back at the reactions on this thread and smile. How incredibly meaningless peer pressure is at this point in my life. Listen, guys. Our society is waaaay over-sexed at the moment. If you look at the statistics, those who wait until marriage to have sex are both more satisfied with...

I also have to recommend Maxwell here. Avant is another good suggestion. The best is just good ole jazz. Nobody in the history of music has been able to play a *****cat ballad quite like Ben Webster. The man's tone was just deep and smooth. Seriously, get a copy of Ben Webster's See...

Buddha-style? Eh, he kind of gave up completely on women.

I definitely catch more attention from more attractive girls now since I've hit the gym. Over the past year, I brought myself from 6', 175 pounds to 6' 195 pounds. I actually just hit 200 the other day. I have a six pack, and you can definitely tell I'm pretty athletic, even when I'm...

Since when is a tux not decent clothing? Have we gone that far downhill that anything that remotely approaches gentility is unattractive? Please. Clark Gable=putz? Okay...

What amazes me is that so many guys act like looks shouldn't matter. "Why don't I see any hot chicks with fat or ugly guys?" Hello? :rolleyes:

You're making married couples out to be WAAY more promiscuous than they are. Actually, if you think cheating is acceptable, you're in the minority. A University of Washington, Seattle, study in October's American Journal of Public Health found 94 percent of married couples had one partner...

Using a service like match.com is nice IF you live in an urban area. There are a lot of quality younger people out looking for a date, especially where I was in southern California. I had just moved to the area and didn't have guys to hang out with at the time, so online dating was perfect...

You mean have a shred of decency and self-respect? Whatever, bro. I personally think girls around Charleston are as classy as I've seen. Better than NYC, Cali, London, Chicago...basically any place I've lived. Quality girls with beautiful accents who wouldn't mind having a family one...

Yeah, you're just not secure around yourself all the time. It's okay. I basically quit drinking after doing it in college. I still go out with college kids who drink, and I'll inevitably get the question. If you know the person or feel like being an a$$, just drop the "because it makes you...