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Rollo is right. Example: Friend of mine who is really into baseball and was a good high school coach was dating this woman, then got engaged. We went out to dinner, first time I met her. She tells my friend, right in front of me: "When we get married, you're done coaching." Holy sh-t...

WaterTiger ... check your messages box.

Good stuff STR8UP ... A few stories here: In college, my extreme-AFC days, first real gf (high school barely counted), dumped me for another guy. I tried to prove to her that I could win her back. I got her a flower ... she thought I was a fool. And I was. She couldn't understand my actions...

Women are always trying to "change" men. Frankly, I don't want to be changed and I don't want to change the women I date. I like them for who they are and for the person I met. Why would I want to change someone I was attracted to? So I can not be attracted to them? Baloney. You can't...

It didn't pay off for me in relationships, career, moving forward. Every time I've focused or built my life around a woman, it's failed, period. By the way, I don't sleep with married women, and when I have a serious girlfriend, I don't play around on her either. Lefty's post talked about...

My previous post wasn't to bash morality -- I'm a pretty moral person -- it's the concept that religion, righteousness, and frankly oneitis and AFCism being shoved down our throats. That's what I read between the lines. Props to many posters here, especially Victory's latest one. I've seen...

I haven't posted in awhile, but this post intrigued me -- mostly for STR8UP's line of a "***** strike", I gotta use that, ha! I haven't been reading the posts, saw one on how to cheat on a girlfriend. I don't think one posts means we're straying off some morality path. While I don't...

Great line! Yeah, if you're going to get game-played by some 'ho, shop local, you can find them anymore. Bozeman has around 50K I believe, maybe less. I'm sure he could find some psychos there. * On the question of sensative souls/AFC, yep, I used to be one. This website helped, and a dumping...

Haven't posted in awhile but had to post this: The worst AFC moment ever. Friend of mine from college (divorced within the past year) e-mails me and tells me he's madly "in love" with this gal he "met" on E-Harmony. Actually, they haven't met ... more on that later. He travels from...

I think online dating is a good option. I've done it off and on for awhile. I usually do it when I'm in a bit of a slump. It's not my first or my last method of dating, but it is a good method. Not all towns have great club scenes or even great singles scenes or downtowns in which to meet...

Not everyone has to sow their wild oats, but I'm not sure why it's considered a sin for men in their 20's to be playing the field. This really is a time for personal and professional development. You don't know what type of woman you want unless you play the field. I just don't think it's...

For It's On Now ... The 60-year old is wrong, she's bought into a stereotype fed to her by American culture: There are a lot of good guys out there. I know them, I am one of them. I know lots who are married, lots who are unmarried. Enormous stereotype perpetuated by women. As for the...

That's some deep stuff Rollo ... nevertheless, the guys at JMU are playing their cards correctly.

On the writer's blog www.whyboysfail.com (a good one) is this: ************************ Moving past 60% at some point triggers what biologists refer to as the operational sex ratio, which in the animal kingdom refers to the changes in mating habits that occur when one sex outnumbers the other...

... interesting article, wonder what the quotes from women would be if the tables were turned? ***************************************************** A Tough Time to Be a Girl: Gender Imbalance on Campuses By RICHARD WHITMIRE Casual sex. The mere words give parents the jitters, which is...

Lots of good answers here, I've been impressed with the responses here. I'm getting more of a grip on why guys do this. I don't agree with it, but I'm coming to a better understanding of it. Great stuff, guys. Great quote from STR8UP ******************************* People are weak...

I'm actually for marriage Don't get me wrong, I'm a strong proponent of marriage. And I totally agree with you in that's the best way to raise children, with a two-parent household. I'm even supportive of men and women who want to get re-married, again, totally behind that. However, the...

I've outgrown many friends, I just drift away, no apologies. Some of my closest friends and roommates from college, guys I thought I'd be connected with forever are now just a few e-mails and Christmas cards a year in my contacts. That's OK, they've moved on, too. It's all about maturing and...

Great answers ... ... by Andy and Insidious. I dislike the term "rebound" because what's more important is left out and that is personal reflection. Now granted, some of these quick bounce backs work out well. I don't have any stats on what is more successful. I do know the majority of my...

Good answers Very good answers from everyone. I guess being single for so long, I've adapted to doing things and living on my own, and it doesn't bother me. Sure, there are times of loneliness, if I said not, I'd be lying to you. But I certainly don't hate myself for not being married. I do...