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Of course you did. Of course you had difficulty sleeping some days. Of course you always had/have her on your mind. ALL THIS is understandable. WE ALL have suffered and you know what? WHO GIVES A **** if you were AFC etc etc. You are not a robot. You re a MAN. You win some, you lose some. Listen...

She doesn't want plate status. She thinks that if she gives in easily you will do the same thing. She seems like a decent one. Court her, drop the ****iness and the sexy lines, talk to her, seduce her. Thats what she wants.

Man, I ve done worse in the past. I ve CRIED in front of a woman cause she broke up with me. Guess what, she came back after 5 months. But in these 5 months I managed to be a MAN again and I ignored EVERY ONE of her "Hey", "Whats up", "How are you" bull**** texts. YOU WERE GIVEN TERRIBLE ADVICE...

Completely dissapear and not respond to anything she initiates. Let her get curious, then frustrated, then play the "pitty me" card, then she'll get angry, then anxious, then she ll want to see him. Then he should reject her and wait some more. THIS could work.

I mean NOT RESPONDING at all, till she blows up your phone or something. You are too easy, she knows you re there. I disagree with the woman above, IT IS salvageable but you need to disappear. You got some terrible advice in this thread, the inly thing you should have done was to dissapear asap...

Told you to go NC but you chose to still engange her. You should have gone NC THE MOMENT you broke up. Read my thread. I brought her back. I ****ed her, now she chases me. Today i got 10 texts from her, i initiated none. SHE chases me now. BUT I WENT NC AFTER THE BREAKUP IMMEDIATELY.

DO NOT RESPOND AND DONT GIVE ANY EXPLANATION IF SHE ASKS YOU WHY.

She gave up after 6 months? What did you expect... to chase you for 5 years? Man, it's a 3 months mini-relationship with this girl. I shouldn't be soooo serious and negative like you suggest. We ll have fun and we'll see.

Go NC without any explanation NOW. She is stringing you along. Maybe there is another man, maybe not. Let her chase you hard and for many days. This is your last chance. You ve already gave her all the power THIS is why she blows you. She doesnt feel she has to make any effort.

See me previous thread. Anyway, after some days of hard NC and ignoring her attempts to communicate after the break up, we finally went out couple days ago and yesterday she visited my place, horny as hell. Sex was great. She wants an LTR, didn't give it to her. Said i was really disappointed...

Talked again. Date set for today, my place for drinks and -of course- sex. Managed to turn around this one, for now. FWB status seems pretty feasible, don't know about LTR or stability yet. She'll have to make me trust her again.

So you disagree with the way i handled the whole situation?

Read my last post. We went out yesterday.

UPDATE Last night we had our first post breakup date. She was a bit nervous, but in a couple of minutes she became the woman i used to remember, when all things were good between us. We had a few beers, we laughed, we kissed. Heavy kino, we both became rather sexual. I chose not to be...

Let's see how it goes today. I'm sure that she will do some explaining, even if i don't steer the conversation to what exactly happened. My intent is to keep it lighthearted and fun, nothing too serious or "pushy". Of course i will kiss close and try to bed her- friend zone is not accepted.

Well, yes. Multiple times :)

If she wants a relationship again she will not put up at this first post breakup date. I wont make a big deal out of it if she doesn't. Of course i will make my advances nevertheless. After this date communication is key. If she is joyfull and flirty i'm back and we may have a proper chance. I...

JUST IGNORE TILL SHE BLOWS UP YOUR PHONE

UPDATE She called. Three times in a row. Did not answer. She insisted after one hour. I picked up. I was nonchalant, she was flirty. She proposed to go for drinks tomorrow night. I accepted. I could be more reluctant, but i chose not to play hard ball again. Seems that there is still some...

He should have stated what he wanted ONCE and then he should have gone fully NC. He should have created the impression that he was moving on, NOT throuth words, but through actions. Then he should have let her chase him. A guy that he continues to talk and talk and talk about the state of the...