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Yeah the cost of living in California is ridiculous, it’s the 2nd most expensive state in the US for cost of living, Hawaii is the most expensive. That’s actually the average rate for a studio apartment here in California unfortunately, I eventually plan on moving out of this state but for now I...

tl;dr: I’m 27 and still live at home with my parents, I’ve also never had a girlfriend, I’m sexually inexperienced and I have no friends. I made a lot of bad choices with my career path and that’s why I now make only 20 cents above minimum wage by working at grocery store. Should I move into a...

That’s true, the main purpose of a job is to make money, making friends is just an added bonus that might or might not happen. I think I’ve made a mistake by relying too heavily on my workplace to give me a new social circle, hobby groups that put me around people with similar interests are...

My social skills really aren’t bad, its just that I have a habit of getting too absorbed in my work and don’t leave much time for socializing. Another thing is that what I do for work there is put together the orders that customers have placed online, so I walk around the store with a cart and...

Very interesting take and you made a lot of good points. If society has overcome so many adversities like the ones you mentioned, then I can probably overcome my personal ones in due time. Yeah I think with this pandemic, dating has just taken a back seat for most people and probably won’t be...

True, I haven’t spent my time chasing tail, I spent my time chasing a high instead. I turned to drugs and alcohol back in high school, mostly due to my lack of success with women. Which was my fault, nothing they did and I pretty much just wanted to numb myself at that point.

I don’t even know who Aaron Clarey is, I’ve never heard of him before. So I’m lazy even though I work 6-7 days a week every week? Whoever he is, I bet he doesn’t do that. I’m working jobs like that because 1. I dropped out of community college after high school once I realized that I had to...

I agree with a lot of what you said, I often wish that my whole lifespan took place back in the 20th century before technology became such a dominant force in everyone’s lives. I would’ve loved to have lived back then, when there was no smartphones and social media so that there was more of a...

But were you in your mid to late 20’s when you were jobless and got those girlfriends, or were you younger than that? I guess you could say that I’m not too proud of what I have, and I don’t think I can solve this myself and that’s why I made this thread. I’ve been considering working with this...

Yeah I agree on it probably being a better idea for me to make friends first, I think it’s probably a lot harder to get a girl when you have no friends and don’t have a social circle. You might be able to find a girl who would still date you regardless, but I bet a lot of them would at least be...

This sh*t’s been weighing on me more these past few days and I could really use some advice so I thought I’d share here and hope you guys could help and give me some tips. I’ve never dated before, only been on one date my whole life and that was back in 2015 when I was 21, also hooked up with...

They were playing it on TV tonight and I was wondering what everyone on here thought of that movie. I think that it appeals to guys more than most romantic comedies since a lot of them are chick flicks, Hitch is probably one of the only romantic comedies that actually makes an effort to be...

So I’m making this post because things are officially at the lowest they can be for me. To give you guys some perspective, I’m almost 27 and I’ve never had a girlfriend, I haven’t had sex since losing my virginity 5 years ago right before I turned 22 and that’s also the only time I’ve ever been...

I agree with some of what you said, but other parts of it could easily pass for something an incel wrote. I would only want to do this a couple times at the most just to get some experience so I’m not as worried about my inexperience being a turn off to real girls. I wouldn’t get EAS for a...

I made this post and poll because I’m 26, 3 months away from turning 27 and I have hardly any experience with dating or sex. I’ve only been on 1 date and that was also the only time I’ve ever had sex or even kissed anyone, and that happened 5 years ago. Lately I’ve been thinking more about going...

Thanks everyone for weighing in on this, I've been busy with work and getting ready for the holidays lately so I've been gone for awhile. But I did read the responses as they were coming in and they gave me some relief because I had been in a pretty hopeless mood because I was convinced that my...

I know how that is man, you guys also have a lot of New Yorkers moving there too and I’ve heard that’s been hurting FL a lot. That’s why elections in FL are decided by less than 1 percent now when it used to be a solid red state years ago, a lot of it has to do with these blue state people...

I’m gonna be traveling to South Carolina after the holidays to see if its a place I would want to live, I went to Wyoming 4 months ago for the same reason. I think what’s holding me back the most is being so far away from family and friends and going it alone in a new state. Most of my family...

I like your profile pic, but just because I’m from California doesn’t mean that I’m a whiny snowflake. Actually this state being extremely liberal is one of the things I hate the most about it. I think about moving out of the state all the time, pretty much every day. Its probably something that...

I’m 26 and this has been one of the main things that has prevented me from making any attempt at trying to date, because I just feel like most girls are gonna look down on a guy who’s in his mid 20’s and still lives with his parents, especially if she’s moved out and lives on her own. Let me...