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Kind of a sad and pathetic question... How would you feel if your new girlfriend's ex contacted her via text, on average once per month for 3 months, not begging for her back but asking how she was doing. And she ignored them completely... In this case, I am ex who sent her the text messages...

Have you ruled out a "leap of faith"? This is the traditional way of dealing with rock bottom

Having something in common can really help to build a friendship Find some new interests, think about what you might have in common with people, then finding friendships might become easier

Lately I like to put a great track on my headphones (music is critical for me), run one mile as fast I can on treadmill (6:45 is my fastest in recent years), then move to weight room and see how long I can last. With the heavy cardio at the beginning, I am sweating profusely for the weight...

Maybe in 13-16 or 17-22 range, they begin to experience the power that their looks as a young female have. They see men of all ages giving them extra attention, through smiles, compliments, and approaches. Many realize they are able to receive special treatment in their day-to-day settings...

Care to elaborate? I speak from my experience

Plateau might be a way your body is saying it does not want any more muscle Too much muscle and your body will be running very inefficiently Also your 6' ft body is not necessarily the same as a friend's 6' body, each person's frame is different. So it is not good to compare to all other...

The posters on here have given you great advice to work with, but you guys continue to wallow in your own self-pity. They are not saying you have to go after younger girls exclusively. If you are not comfortable with that right now, stick to a smaller age gap. Pretty soon you will find that...

One of the basics in online dating, if there is no picture of her body, you have to assume the worst :-(

Thank you for this wisdom I think with the right girl who shares the same lifestyle interests as you, it would be a lot less of a problem. Yea this girl was genuinely happy, that is, until I didn't live up to her expectations. She was not looking for me to fulfill some void within her, rather...

Is it ever acceptable to follow this protocol? I knew a guy who was engaged to my ex-girlfriend's sister. He literally did not give a f*ck about anything and was totally OK with anything his girl wanted. Where they lived, the vacations they went on, where they ate dinner, what religion they...

Get rid of the computer in your house. Find access to a clean and quiet computer lab or coffee shop nearby. Visit the lab like you would visit the gym, for an hour or two per day. This will help to eliminate any temptations since you are in a public place. It also has some social advantages...

It's called leadership. We have none! We are like a spider with 8 legs and each leg wants to walk in a different direction. Sometimes I wonder what would happen if we had a good strong DICTATOR who wasn't afraid to make controversial decisions. Sometimes any decision is better than no...

If you are looking to stay in a populated area, I would guess you would be most successful staying nearby like-minded people. So whatever that definition is for you. I guess it does not necessarily need to be USA, as long as the people share your values and you can become part of the community...

one last thing, I feel you can visually tell the difference in a mature man in his 40s, 50s, and onward, who has gone through intense physical tribulations in his life. It adds to his character and garners respect throughout his lifespan. And I'm not talking about showing up at the gym for a...

Not really finding anyone on here who shares my viewpoint I think there might be a sliding definition of "fit" depending on who you ask I'm basically talking elite athlete status, which is about the healthiest you can be physically. Maintaining my fitness, which currently is pretty damn...

What I meant was... You need to be able to make a comfortable living somehow (Unless you are comfortable with being poor, which is fine) Most good paying jobs are sedentary. Which goes directly against your physical well being. there really is no easy answer

I'd like to know how some people balance these two. In my view, a great man is well developed physically, mentally, spiritually, and financially. It seems that nowadays men are eager to work that desk job so that they can get ahead financially. But this can lead to being developed in only...