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    Help me not be such a Beta, get my stuff back, and maintain NC

    Update: Got home from the airport to find my stuff at the door. I guess that's that. Time to maintain NC.
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    Help me not be such a Beta, get my stuff back, and maintain NC

    I wish this was an attempt at trolling and I wasn't actually this inept, but I think I got the advice I need.
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    Help me not be such a Beta, get my stuff back, and maintain NC

    Conventional wisdom says do this, but I like the ballsiness of trying to bang her. If I go in strong I address the failure to escalate and lack of confidence issue, but having it play out the right way seems like a large gamble. Be nice, nonchalant, and go NC is definitely the safer option.
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    Help me not be such a Beta, get my stuff back, and maintain NC

    Thanks for all the advice. I'll check out the stuff on escalation. You really think if I press her for sex I'm better off than sticking with no contact? (What do I stand to lose I guess?) I do have to get my stuff back so the opportunity exist to do it, but what's the best way to go about...
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    Help me not be such a Beta, get my stuff back, and maintain NC

    Didn't try and kiss her on date one, but I should have considering how it went. After reading the forums here and the year one stuff over at therationalmale I sort of came to the same conclusion. I need to working not being so nice. Thanks.
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    Help me not be such a Beta, get my stuff back, and maintain NC

    I found these forums after a girl recently cut me loose. It has opened my eyes and now I want to change. Here is my back story. Tell me where to go from here. I was introduced by a mutual acquaintance to a girl at work and we hit it off, and I got her number. Waited a couple days and sent...
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