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    FR: Good night, terrible ending

    I decide to take it a bit further. I put the guitar back in the stand and just put my arm around her and pull her close. Everything is going great at this point. She's in my bed cuddling, were alone, Im stroking her hair... I decide to go for the kiss. I think that was the killer in her eyes...
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    Sex & Christianity

    See I don't get it. The bible says that sex before marriage is bad, and yet it doesn't explain why - the reasons are left for the believers to figure out. See that is like a HB who backward rationalise why she went out with a guy, or someone who figures out reasons why he has to buy a...
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    Has it ever taken you guys over 6 months to get over a girl?

    I remember a friend once told me this, and I think this may help your situation: A woman can come into your life and become your muse and source of inspiration; a beauty that colors everything you do. Then someday, that same woman will surely slip away from you (with no exceptions). You will...
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    What happens if I can't find a wife?

    What happens if I can't find a wife after trying all DJ techniques prescribe in this forum??? I might freak out. I am nearly 40. I got to find a wife It is not about "trying" the DJ "techniques". In order for these "techniques" to work, they have to become part of you. If you "try", then...
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    New Profile - Opinions Please........

    Couple of points: 1. Paragraphs. No one likes to read too much on a screen, make it easy on everyone's eyes. 2. From my sense, this is not an ad, but an essay or an entry in a diary. Shows honesty, but your profile is too honest. Too honest may be interpreted as desperate. 3. A lot of...
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    Any Words of Wisdom?

    If I had my time again in college, I would definitely: 1. make lots of friends so that I would have had a bigger network to draw resources on today; 2. started some small business ventures so I had a recurring income stream today; 3. sleep with a lot more chicks. So if I were at your...
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    Would it bother you to date a girl who's been played?

    I think you are insecure. You feel threatened by this guy because he got more in a shorter time than you did. You feel that because of this, he is somehow a better man than you. Like solving a maths problem, because he got the answer faster, he is smarter. But that's not true. He was at...
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    How to keep interest level high without relationship commitment

    Have you laid her yet? The best way to keep hot chicks without the commitment is to laid them WELL. Meaning lots and lots of orgasms, like you get that look from them that they think you are a gift from God and then kiss you passionately afterwards. This is because most hot chicks get guys...
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    why do some girls mysteriously lose interest

    They lose interest because they PERCEIVED you have lost interest. If you look back, they have probably given you some subtle signs for you to escalate, but you didn't. Once you have lost your opportunity to escalate with a girl, you might not get a second chance.
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    DJ Olympics

    Ricky, It is good that you are getting back in the field. But why have a points system without any rewards? I think you should give yourself some kind of reward - ie: when you have reached 50 points, then buy yourself something to indulge on. 100 points will get yourself a new car or...
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    3rd Date

    Agreed with Jake on this one. Don't make her wait otherwise she will not go out with you again. She will think you don't like her and will never talk to you again. Look, rebound or not, she wants to have sex with YOU. Just don't go all needy on her and you will be fine. If you want to keep...
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    dateless at 24

    Agreed with what Pvssy Eater has to say. The key is not to be validated by whether you have a girlfriend or not. You have to start doing cold approaches, because when you are at a stage where your social circle is reducing, it is harder and harder to do social circle hook ups. The best...
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    Smart women? do you game them differently

    Smart chicks are not easier or harder, they are just different. The principles of getting them are the same as what you would do for normal or dumb chicks. You still be the man, c0cky and playful, tease and have fun. However, be careful with the c0cky and playful. Because they are...
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    Picking up your mates friends (girls)

    IME, never compete with AFCs friends over chicks - especially if they think they made all the effort in introducing her to you. This is because they dream about being with that chick constantly, dreaming about her day and night, do anything for her, talk with her about all sorts of crap...
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    How do you generate sex appeal?

    I disagree. Bulking up has nothing to do with sex appeal. What I think you are not doing is making moves on these girls. You come across as too nice. You hang around with them, avoiding sex topics, kino etc. When you are with a chick that you want to sleep with, you have to make those...
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    I need a couple of opinions on this one

    Sitting behind a computer screen on a Friday morning, Tizzle is a dog, backstabber and an a$$hole. That's because I am not sitting in the BF's house with his GF. I am not there smelling her perfume, admiring her hair and checking out her ass. I am sure we have all been in situations where...
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    seeing other girls when you have a gf

    I am perfectlly chilled out, however when you come here asking for an advice on picking up a chick while having a girlfriend, its like slinging mud at the DJ Bible. How is it? Dude, he can do what he wants. They are not married, and what is happening in their relationship is none of your...
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    porn(again)

    Look, ask her if she is willing to perform the acts depicted in those porn movies she found. Her answer would naturally be "No". Then you tell her you that until she is willing to perform such acts, you will just have to be satisfied with watching other girls do it.
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    making the first move

    DO NOT, I repeat DO NOT go ahead with your second option. It makes you look desperate, needy and creepy. Girls hate that stuff because it shows that you do not have the guts to ask them for their number in person.
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    which is harder? Clubs or street approach?

    Street approaches are not any harder than club approaches. Street approaches are just DIFFERENT than club approaches. Your club game is not going to work on the street without modifications. Your street game is not going to work in the club without modifications. Clubs are louder...
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