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    Ex back in her life - thinking of ending it

    Been dating her for 5 months and exclusive for 2. Her husband left her to marry another woman 4 years ago and took the dog. He cut contact to respect his new wife. Now he's getting a divorce and his wife is apparently going bat **** crazy on him and made phony abuse complaints. So he and his mom...
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    Still haven't kissed. Make a move or move on?

    Really can't believe I'm asking this haha. Been talkin to this chick for a month. Been over to her house four times now and stayed up all night talking. Went out to dinner once and she insisted on paying. She's really interesting and we have so much in common. But something about her is...
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    Juggling multiple women without lying

    So I'm back in the game. I'm sleeping with two, working on a third (I really like this one so far), and there is another I just started talking to that has high interest. I haven't juggled this many at once since I was about 18-19. Things were different then. Morals werent at the top of my list...
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    When you feel like you're being lied to

    I have this tendency to call people out when I get a strong gut feeling that they're lying to me. Met this lady on okcupid. She contacted me first and her profile just resonated with me. Within a few days we started talking on the phone and had good convos. Problem is she lives 3 hrs away. So...
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    Anybody here go through this phase? How long?

    Haven't slept with anybody for three months. Every few weeks I get lonely and go out on a date then lose interest when I feel I have to keep it going beyond that night because I'll just be leading her on. They take the hint and it's done. Also don't want to have sex with cheap skanky women. I'm...
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    Is it reasonable to charge her rent

    Here's an overview of our history and relationship dynamics. We've known each other a long time but due to timing issues of various things we officially became involved and exclusive only three months ago. The pros are that she's goal oriented, cooks well, eats healthy, works out, educated, not...
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    thinking about making some big changes

    Been thinking about dropping my girlfriend and looking for a wife and having a kid or two. Normally I'm attracted to women my own age or older but now I find the younger ones atteactive. Any suggestions on what age would be ideal? I'm almost 35. And already decided single moms are off the radar.
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    Women using Fakebook to train men?

    Constantly seeing posts about what real men do and what it takes to keep a woman, how to kick a man down who doesn't worship your $hitty attitude, etc., never about how to make the man happy. And I haven't really seen men put this kinda stuff up on FB...
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    Not being insecure without being a pushover

    So I've been through six women now since my breakup months ago. Each time I met the newest one I actually felt less satisfied. One I've known about two years and dated, kissed but never banged her until this July. She asked to be exclusive last week. She's been my main plate for six weeks so...
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    Just discovered that I have a 5 year old daughter. wtf!

    I met an older woman at a business conference six years ago. She worked in a different state, and we hung out a few times that week. I talked about wanting to transfer to her state so it's funny we met and hit it off so well. We started a long distance relationship and eventually six months...
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    Trying to let this go but.......

    Ran into ex a week ago. After saying she thought we both did things wrong, she said she ended it because I accused her of abortion. This has been on my mind ever since. I don't think I accused her of this. If you all could give me some unbiased opinion.... Here was what was said the day before...
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    how would a true dj handle this $hit

    I was reading over some tips on this site about $hit tests and remembered a time when a gf was giving me a ride to work when my car was in the shop. we were waiting to pick up her car pool buddy and she was not in a good mood stressing about work. I...
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    do alphas feel like $hit after breakups too

    I consider myself more alpha than beta. I have standards that I keep and usually breakup first. This last one just has me all f'd up. I wasn't even happy anymore just couldn't get the time with her to build a good relationship because of her kids. We never...
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    am I over thinking this and being insecure

    my girl and I work together, same shift, she was 8 weeks pregnant. she seemed happy about it, we had plans to get a place together, everybody knew about the pregnancy, but she also seemed insecure about me losing attraction to her as she got bigger and...
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