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Update - dumped her today. I felt bad over the holidays when I was visiting. So I suggested we go visit the dog. She declined multiple times. I asked why. She said because she doesn't want to confuse her dog. Yesterday she calls and says he sent her pics of the dog looking dirty and disheveled...

That's another issue - she just told me last night that she gave the dog to him after a year of separation because she realized the dog needed him more. Lol

I don't think she did anything "wrong", and I even told her the same. Im just tired of exes surfacing in my relationships. Like logical lefty said, it's always caused some sort of problem eventually.

Now she texted saying that she won't see him or talk to him even if it means not seeing her dog. I think I'm done. Too late. That I even had to deal with this at all is a major turn off to me. I shouldn't be put in a situation where I feel like I'm controlling somebody. Id rather be with someone...

She suggested I go with her. Like I said im not seeing this as a threat, more so as a nuisance I'm tired of dealing with. I just want a relationship that doesn't drag **** from the past into it.

Understandable. I went through this with my divorce and dog. I let her have the dog because she went back to her parents' house that had a big yard, and I was living in the city and working a lot. She's a farm type dog. I just don't want to deal with situations like these. I stay away from...

Nah, she's the needy one. I've been accused many times for being distant. She's too forgiving of people who have wronged her. Her best friend had an affair with her husband and she still calls her a best friend.

Been dating her for 5 months and exclusive for 2. Her husband left her to marry another woman 4 years ago and took the dog. He cut contact to respect his new wife. Now he's getting a divorce and his wife is apparently going bat **** crazy on him and made phony abuse complaints. So he and his mom...

Makes sense fatal jay. Im realizing Im just not attracted to her enough. I haven't had that urge to kiss her. I'll look at her and think I should just because I'm there but don't want to haha or don't want to start so something I'm not sure I want to follow through with. Something about her is...

I've heard this often - if she doesn't want you to pay then she's friend zoning you. It does make sense. But that hasn't been the case for me (until now maybe). Most of the women I've been with like to pay. I'm not sure why. But it's never stopped me from getting laid or progressing to a...

Let me rephrase the question here (I see this as a challenge and learning experience now). In anybody's experience here, do some women actually want you to just lean in at any seemingly awkward moment and just kiss them? Or do you need to just step up the kino to get the mood right so that...

I'd say the same thing if I read this. I actually feel like I'm the one friend zoning her though. She seems too sexually boring to me. If I dont get a kiss in halfway through the first encounter them I've always gotten one by the end of the second, always. I can tell within minutes if its not...

Really can't believe I'm asking this haha. Been talkin to this chick for a month. Been over to her house four times now and stayed up all night talking. Went out to dinner once and she insisted on paying. She's really interesting and we have so much in common. But something about her is...

So I'm back in the game. I'm sleeping with two, working on a third (I really like this one so far), and there is another I just started talking to that has high interest. I haven't juggled this many at once since I was about 18-19. Things were different then. Morals werent at the top of my list...

I have this tendency to call people out when I get a strong gut feeling that they're lying to me. Met this lady on okcupid. She contacted me first and her profile just resonated with me. Within a few days we started talking on the phone and had good convos. Problem is she lives 3 hrs away. So...

I didn't mean all this as in feeling sorry for myself. I'm quite happy in life. I just mean I'm feeling too old to deal with having kids lol. And it's not that I'm bitter towards women. I played a part in most breakups too. I just meant that unless I really get that strong feeling like she's...

Haven't slept with anybody for three months. Every few weeks I get lonely and go out on a date then lose interest when I feel I have to keep it going beyond that night because I'll just be leading her on. They take the hint and it's done. Also don't want to have sex with cheap skanky women. I'm...

I'm definitely pulling the plug on this one. To get a feel for how things would be, I let them stay over thursday through today. I've learned that her son is beyond the need of a positive male role model (his dad is actually involved a lot in his life). He needs professional help. The first...

Only an extremely immature woman would resort to petty insults. I haven't been the recipient of this since I was about 14 years old, and it wasn't from anybody I'd even kissed. If a woman is frustrated with me, she just cuts back on contact until we talk it over or just go our separate ways. To...

Damage has been done. You're never going to forget this. You're always going to wonder what really happened and if there's more to the story. You can't trust this woman, and it's her fault, not yours. Even if she didn't get physical with this guy, it shows she's the type that puts herself in...