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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    All, Been awhile since I've been on this site. Been really busy with my career and the endless amount of fun women that are on this earth. For those who don't know my story and are new here. In a nutshell 1. Got dumped (For dumb ass reasons) 2. Begged 3. Pleaded 4. Was in a dark place Believe...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    Chins up ladies and gents, I've been silent from the board for about a month because I've recently been inquired by a very important company in a job offer and I'm being flown for an interview tomorrow. I wouldn't have thought in my wildest dreams I'd be involved with them in terms of work...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    406 Days and going strong
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    Happened in this order. 1. Was driving, stopped at red light. They were both driving in a truck, saw her out of the corner of my eye, she instantly sat up and looked to present herself. The guy in the truck was studying me. I just sat there and waited with a smile on my face until the light...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    That feel when your ex sees you with her new +1 and you take it all like a boss and then proceeds to get your attention in underhanded ways. http://www.reactionimage.org/img/gallery/918476615.jpg
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    How long were you with her?
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    Now that you know this, delete her from your page and block her. Don't: 1. Wonder what she will think 2. Her friends will think (because they will side 100% with the ex, even if she's wrong. TRUST ME WHEN I SAY THIS :)) 3. Anything else If she was so easy to move on, not worth any of your time...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    Thoughts in bold. For the most part I agree with this, because you shouldn't change your being because of one person. HOWEVER the thing about asking an ex, you never know their mindset, and the thing is EVEN if you have gotten over it, they may haven't, maybe they hold a grudge because "How dare...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    My thoughts in bold It sounds to me that this guy is leading you on and he said the right things and hit the right boxes to make you feel this way. You need to stay away from this guy and I will tell you why. You WILL get burned. You feel you want to continue with this guy but he gave you every...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    Thank nothing of it. I remember when I was pretty damn beta and begged and pleaded, wanting things to work out etc and it's pretty rough. I just want to help other people who had these same events happen to them and make things a bit easier for them. There is an end to the suffering but usually...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    If you can let it go, just do that. If it's important or jewelry or whatever, nothing wrong with that, it's business. She might not treat it like that but you absolutely have to.
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    Merry Xmas all, Just to emphasize, stay strong. Don't get caught off guard with silly crap from your ex. Even is she/he texts you, calls you, puts pics up on wherever, anything facebook/Instagram/etc. Be strong, don't get caught up in the past, you live for the future. Don't let them make you...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    I'll say again, if you've been in a LTR with anyone, wither it be good or bad relationship for over a period of time, you WILL feel something for them. IT'S NORMAL, it's called being HUMAN. Even if you go cold turkey on them for 3 months, you'll still feel something. You loved them. If you...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    I'd be cautious if I were you, about a week ago you were opposite of this. Realistically, i don't believe you aren't affected, but burying those feelings. While a good tactic, it doesn't lead to full healing.
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    I kinda loled at that statement a little more than i should have
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    Because you still care about her. You need to get to the point where you don't care. For example, what would happen if you saw her in public with another guy?would you feel bad? Pine Over her? Or would you ignore it? You need to not care, because you KNOW what she is now. You should count...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    Because they: 1. Had someone in wait 2. Cheating on you with someone already 3. Enjoying the new found "attention" 4. Never really loved you There are the rare cases they want to be single, but that's just to ***** around.
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    I think the main issue is this for almost 80% of us here: We were all in a LTR with a woman, they got tired for whatever reason and dumped you and the reason why we were beta once is: 1. You have no women for a backup 2. She was your life 3. You were in love 4. You have no clear goals or...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    From experience, you are not ready. Go NC for you, to forget about her, and not even think about her. You need to find yourself and be numb to her advances if she does such, because then you then can handle it the way you need to.
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