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Day 31 Good days and bad days. Just when I'm doing good, thoughts of her consume my mind. It ****s up dates and me enjoying myself. Before her I took time after my previous relationship and became totally whole again and awesome with single life. I don't want to spend another 2 years...

Day 8 Struggling for the first time going snowboarding with friends where one of my best memories of my time with her was and the beginning of our intimate relationship started. **** this sucks!!!

I added social media to my NC. Take a break from it all together. The only reason you look at it is habit. Friends are still going to get a hold of you by texting or calling. Think about all of the bull**** that social media causes. I have not used in a week. Part of me wants to look, the...

You decreased your value by checking to see if she was alright. Now she knows you are still there for her. Not beating up on you and understand, I told mine to not contact me but gave a caveat that if her safety is at risk I will be there. Women blow **** out of proportion for attention. Day...

Thanks for the advice. Definitely don't want her back. She turned to an ex for advise instead of me during a life conflict, on top of knowing her previous history of cheating I just want to forget about her. Should be easy given that, but it's not. Although all I'm thinking about now is the...

I hear you on the dreams. It's just your mind f'n with you because you are over thinking about her. Try thinking about something you have influence on before falling asleep that way you dream about that instead. I have a demanding job with a lot of issues lately, dreams are still messed up...

The biggest help was actually telling her not to contact me. No longer waiting for the phone to ring or to get a text.

Day 1 After ****ing around with being a man for the last 2 weeks after being dumped, I finally laid it out to ex. Instead of just all the sudden breaking communications I told her what I was thankful for, my regrets and my view on how things are. I finished with with "I need time and not to...