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  1. M

    Kiss, kino but then I hear "no sparkle"

    Yeah that may be it. Strange cos I often meet them on online dating websites where of course in their profiles they say they are looking for a relationship and so on. But as the sexual tension is not coming from me it must be being created by them which means they must be horny and down to...
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    Kiss, kino but then I hear "no sparkle"

    I've noticed a bit of a trend when looking at my dating history. There is a particular type of date that I always screw up. Generally what happens is that as early as the first date I am getting a lot of IOIs and it is obvious there is a lot of sexual tension and both of us are a bit...
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    I finally got some answers and understand why I get rejected

    This sounds plausible Jariel. People judge personality by looks. It is the same way guys expect the girl with big boobs and nice curves to be a slut and get disappointed when she isn't. But you shouldn't conform your personality to meet peoples' expectations. Having said that ask...
  4. M

    How easy is it to combine cardio and TV?

    I'm very lazy about doing cardio. Love doing weights. But always finding an excuse to skip my morning jog and any longer than twenty minutes and im bored out of my mind even with the best music etc. I watch a lot of TV so it occurred to me that if I got a spin bike or something and parked it...
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    Do muscles really help you get girls?

    Who directed that documentary Jariel it sounds good! Does the face really change because of weightlifting aside from the effect of just stripping fat? I'm pretty sure that the bones fuse by 21 and it is only during puberty that testosterone masculinizes the face. I'll check out the thread...
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    Do muscles really help you get girls?

    I was reading a Pook post where he adds thirty pounds of muscle and goes from dating average looking girls to dating hotties. OK it is a nice story and Pook is prone to exaggeration and embellishment. But from what I gather he was good looking to begin with and it was being underweight that was...
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    A major flaw in my game - possibly the DJ mentality

    Jariel, have you considered it is not a problem with you? If their interest is sky high from the word go clearly that is a red flag. It is the sort of thing you'd expect from a teenage girl. But then again teenage girls fall in and out of love at the drop of a hat. Clearly these girls are...
  8. M

    Meal Preparation for a Bachelor

    I've been eating way too many ready meals, junk food, sandwiches and restaurant meals and it is hurting my health and my budget. But cooking is really not something I enjoy and I have to eat a lot of meals on the go. Also I am really not a morning person so breakfast is a particularly tough meal...
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    Girl goes on holiday and says she'll text me when she gets back....

    Well I suggested she booked tickets for the concert and was surprised when she readily agreed saying that no problem and then the next day said the tickets were booked and she was looking forward to it already. I didn't have high hopes as I suspected she just wanted someone to go to the...
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    Girl goes on holiday and says she'll text me when she gets back....

    Hmm. So much for that. For the chronology: She texted me Thursday evening about the Saturday drinks and the prom. I reply back a few hours later saying Saturday is fine and which concert did she want to see. She replied Friday around six pm saying she is swamped with work and could i...
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    Girl goes on holiday and says she'll text me when she gets back....

    Swapped a few unrelated texts, comments about the crazy weather and so on, and then invited her for a drink. She replied "Sure. Can you do this Saturday? and have you seen any BBC Proms (a classical music series of concerts) yet? I'd love to go one evening next week. Would you like to...
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    Girl goes on holiday and says she'll text me when she gets back....

    This is a scenario that has come up quite a few times as in London people are coming and going and the foreign girls are often visiting home. Anyway how the situation usually goes you are in the early stages of dating and it is not official and neither party is totally sure how they feel...
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    First date, how did I do?

    I think steering the conversation too much towards sex isn't always the best idea. It is better that you turn her on with your touch, your voice tone, your body language and so on. Flirting is fine and a few mild sexual innuendos but getting her to discuss the intimate details of her sex life...
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    How reliable is kino as an IOI?

    Well I stand by the theory that it is better if she touches you first to get a read on her interest. But I think where I am failing is that after she has given me the green light, as it were, I think the man has to do the escalation as the girl will be touchy feely if she is comfortable and...
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    How reliable is kino as an IOI?

    Yeah I think that makes a lot of sense the last two posters. This is two consecutive dates now that I had my hand around their waist for prolonged periods of time without the girl showing any signs of discomfort and from then on things started to go flat. Escalation is definitely my weak...
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    How reliable is kino as an IOI?

    Something I read from Doc Love a while ago is to give the girl the chance to break the physical touch barrier first because it is a good sign she is interested. Furthermore it does not have to be blatant, many times it will seem accidental, but because girls are very aware of their bodies, she...
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    Weird ending to a first date

    Hey Jariel. Yeah I've been in relationships so out of the game. Touched you remember me though. You still based in the midlands? I've had brush offs before. But usually they do it by avoiding the kiss. This one accepted the kiss on the lips without reciprocating. And then the nonsensical two...
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    Weird ending to a first date

    Went on a date with this girl. East European, tall and leggy, just my type. Took her to a Latin gig in a blues bar. She was quite passive but smiling and did not seem to mind when I put my hand round her waist or played with her hair. She also asked me if I wanted to dance and was all smiles...
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    Anyone ever considered a vasectomy?

    As we all know contraception is not 100% and increasingly girls seem to be put off pills and injections because of the links with breast cancer and other side effects (can't really say I blame them). Ive seen quite a few acquaintances who even using condoms accidentally knocked girls up and get...
  20. M

    Adapting to a new phase in life

    Buddha_Mind. That is some good advice. I think at my age chasing around trying to get my numbers up would be counterproductive to my other goals in life. I think you are right that I should focus on quality instead. With the amount of effort guys put into chasing women it makes much more...
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