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    15 Traits

    Great list, this works almost better than reading a list of positive things. This thread reminded me of a book I didn't read: "mind in the making" by galinsky According to the author there are 7 essential life skills (and I agree): 1 Focus and Self Control 2 Perspective Taking 3...
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    many women do not like an alpha male

    Let's say it again: "Most women are low value. But men are so busy being white knights and putting them on pedestals that they never notice. :trouble:"
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    Stressed out and depressed after my girlfriend dumped me

    This was written for you: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=210846
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    65 things I learned from dating

    Oh yeah... Great post.
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    **To all the Newbies, Heart Brokens and Hardcase Believers - Trust the Users Wisdom**

    What I mean is: the DJ bible and the book of pook are too long for a first session. There should be a one-hour read that we could tell newbies to go read before asking anything.
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    **To all the Newbies, Heart Brokens and Hardcase Believers - Trust the Users Wisdom**

    This is the post linked above, that every fvcking bluepill should read. "Man affections vs boy affections a while back i finally figured out what makes a good relationship. most of the gamey talk is all focused on getting laid. getting laid is the easiest thing in the world, after you...
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    **To all the Newbies, Heart Brokens and Hardcase Believers - Trust the Users Wisdom**

    Repped. I would want to see a version of this post stickied. It might be a little too long however. On the other hand, I would add the following suggestion. Tell the newbie a list of concepts he should be aware of and mildly understand, say top10 keywords...
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    Women who try to repress the qualities they want in a man

    The title of this thread is basically one definition of sh1t test. This is why I also failed in my first serious LTR. It's so counter-intuitive at first, and so counter to the education we have: to always try to please, to always be polite. OP, if I had to guess, I'd say you're like...
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    Thinking like a woman (female redpills)

    Yes, I would also pretend I don't know much about it. Why? Read the 48 laws of power.
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    nO contact challenge ruined my propsect but

    OP, read this several times a day.
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    Thinking like a woman (female redpills)

    Thanks for the suggestions!
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    Thinking like a woman (female redpills)

    Ah yes, /r/RedPillWomen/, this is what I was looking for, this should be a very good place to start from. The sidebar has many links already. I do think we can learn much from listening to women, but on two different levels. In real life, be very careful with what they say, you can learn from...
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    Thinking like a woman (female redpills)

    Oftentimes when dealing with people, be it a discussion, negotiation or simple fun conversation, I try to put myself in other people's minds. After or before the interaction mostly. I find this is extremely helpful and insightful. I had tried doing this when it comes to relationships with...
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    Sum up your year in one word?

    Prize. I really am.
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    Banging Ex's Friends

    They can sense your utter indifference. They'll dump you if you they conquered you completely (AFC) or if you're completely wild. This is your choice. Do you really want them to keep a longer relationship? Are you aiming for MLTRs? You seem afraid to show even the slightest sign of rendition...
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    Why are we so weak?

    Pride. This is the main reason. http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=209687 And as PHM says on that thread, not realizing you have not lost anything of value. Or easily replaceable. If usable in practice, I recommend Limited Contact, in which you show her you're not butthurt (NC...
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    Help. Weird situation.

    Great. Move on. So many other women. So many. In some months you'll be laughing at this whole story. Stop crying. Draw a line on a piece of paper. On one end it's your birth, on the other it's your death. Mark where you are now, look at all the women or all the quality of women you can have...
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    Help. Weird situation.

    You should have been more hot and cold. Alternating more. You don't need to be clingy and needy, and write her poems, and have long conversations about how much you're soulmates, just do stuff once in a while that shows her she's special. 5 months is a lot, you should have given her something...
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    How much I've improved/ question about former oneitis

    Great! This is actually what usually happens. When going from AFC to DJ after months or years, you don't even care enough about the girl, she's "beneath" you already, or you measure the costs and benefits and realize it's not worth it, unless she's really interested. (On the other hand I think...
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