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    Look for disinterest, not interest!!

    Not if you use it for good instead of evil. I believe what Matt's talking about are signs that a girl's wasting your time or is with you for an illegitimate reason (money, attention-whoring, nothing better to do). Note that choice of language; she's "with you". This isn't for determining...
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    Knock her off her pedestal with 3 words.

    I'm talking a substantially longer timeframe than that, mate. I assume the original poster was too. In response to another of your grievances, this tip isn't tailored to a highschool scenario. That's why it's in the grown ups' forum. When I have 566 posts in a little over six months, I'll...
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    Knock her off her pedestal with 3 words.

    A few of you have misinterpreted this one - which is a pity; it's a good post. You're not telling her she looks different to other girls. You're saying "it's been a while since I last saw you; you don't have the same effect on me you used to ... you know, back when I used to worship the...
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    An alternative to a handshake

    Agreed. I've pulled this one off while MUI (macking under the influence). The girl was intoxicated, too, and it fit the circumstances nicely. Sober, though, you'd definitely want to spin it as a joke. I am The Main Event.
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    Some logic on DETATCHMENT...

    Guys, write that one down. At the root of desperation you will almost invariably find one of two attitudes: 1. "I'll never meet anyone else quite like her. She may or may not be perfect, but she's damn sure extraordinary!" 2. "She's the most attractive, intelligent, personable girl...
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    Quick Tip - Don't hold back in conversation!

    A useful one, and it hasn't been mentioned before, either. Worth remembering.
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    There's no green light!!

    Nice metaphor. If you can still edit your first post, you really should paste this near the top somewhere. It's the single best comment in this thread. I am The Main Event.
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    regrets

    Um, I believe that was his exact point. He just didn't express it very clearly. He's saying its better to have made mistakes than missed opportunities. You might come to regret them but, hey, you're not left wondering. I am The Main Event.
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    The ULTIMATE Guide to Beating/Avoiding Oneitis! Revised Edition

    Had to smile when I saw this one; it's exactly the strategy I used to pick myself up last time I fell into the oneitis trap. You're dead right about it giving you perspective. One caveat though. That's intellectual perspective, which can't completely cure an emotional disease. But it sure...
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    The misuse/overuse of C&P

    Oh so true. This problem stems from the fact that there are many people in the dating game looking for a quick fix. Actually, more than that ... they're looking for a quick and *simple* fix. To these people, "****y and funny" is the Holy Grail. Let's step back for a moment and work out...
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    Treat women like cars.

    Priceless. I am The Main Event.
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    Book : Get Anyone to do anything and never feel powerless again

    Couldn't have said it better. When all is said and done, you need something to back up your magic tricks. If a girl's not into you, she doesn't feel an iota of attraction. And without attraction, she's not going to be enthusiastic about spending any time with you. One more thing. If you...
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    The Fear Impetus: Numbing the Pain, Cutting the Fear.

    Finally a decent--original--theory post. This is marvellous stuff, made even better by a logical train of thought and a powerful writing style. Ziro, my man, if you've got any more material of this calibre, out with it! Thanks for a five-star contribution to this board. I am The Main...
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    COMBAT techniques to INCREASE LOST Interest Level.

    Good blueprint--moreso for getting your life back on track than for turning things around with a particular girl. Number 3 is particularly important; you'll never move on if you continue to leave major aspects of your life on "pause". I am The Main Event.
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    Fear of making mistakes.

    Love it. This is one of the most original tips I've seen on the forum in as long as I can remember. And it's one of very few original tips I've seen anytime recently. It's going to help a lot of people--and not just the shy ones. Quite apart from its obvious value as a confidence booster...
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    DFC - Dateless Frustrated Chump

    I believe the original point was that an important distinction exists between guys with the intestinal fortitude to approach girls but not the skills to have real success, on the one hand, and guys who have neither the will to approach nor (as a necessary consequence of their inexperience) the...
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    A few female tips

    That's true, and it's not just girls who are guilty of that behaviour. In my experience, though, it doesn't take too much work to get them to loosen up. They're cool and non-receptive to start with, but it only takes a few questions and a couple of minutes of your time to bring the shield...
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    DFC - Dateless Frustrated Chump

    Excellent post. Hits the nail right on the head, and hard. Before somebody shoots it off to the Discussion Forum, I want to point out that it highlights a chronic set of behaviours that we too often fail to consider when we talk broadly about "AFCs". We're very good at beating supplication...
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    My Conversation Tip: 'Nouning'

    I don't think anybody's seriously suggesting you should talk like a robot. Really. I am The Main Event.
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    Don't pay for any of her stuff

    So. You're against paying for a girl's coffee on several grounds. One of those is that it's too much like buying her affection. Another is that it costs you money. I agree with you. They're good reasons. But then in the next breath you say that you're going to give money to street...
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