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dude in your first post you say she dumped you twice. it's right there. And let me fill you in on no contact. If you are reading her emails and texts you are in contact. You may think you are detached. But you aren't. You did this before. You ignored her but kept reading her emails. Over and...

No the reason you want to send her this is because you still CRAVE contact with her. That's why you have still left the lines of communication Wide open. You can't close them because that would mean you would never hear from your little dove ever again. And that would be disastrous for you. You...

she dumped you Twice and you went back thus establishing her as the PRIZE and you as the Chump who can't live without this "prize" in your life. That frame is now dominant. She is the prize. you are the chump. And this is how she treats you. You got oneitis with a chick who was basically...

you were way too serious too soon. this woman liked you and wanted you. you did not escalate. you let her take the lead. you were passive. you had many opportunities to close her with sex and you did not take them. She was good to go. She may have been a gold digger; but so what. you weren't...

i was on another forum when this story was breaking. the forum actually had a sub forum dedicated to finding out who did the bombings. When FBI put their pictures out there they were posted on the forum. There was one girl who doubted this kid could do it because he was so good looking.

yeah there are women who love brainiacs. there is a category on Match.com for it. But this is really about them wanting to frame themselves as smart imo.

that's interesting. but it also says something about how accepting you are of drama in your life and perhaps even some chaos. and I suspect that you would not be doing this with every woman you next. But hopefully you know what you're doing. :)

obviously you haven't disengaged here. Interesting.

proof that women can't control their attraction. it's rather embarrassing. if there was a hot female terrorist men would still think she's hot. they just would not start a movement to free her.

you didn't dump her, as you stated, because she's a hor. you're down with that. this is the reason you dumped her. "If a guy (especially a younger guy) came to me and asked about this girl, I could give him a bullet list of warning signs, poor behaviors, and reasons why she is destined to do...

Dude, you haven't been NC with her. You've been in contact with her on a regular basis, and in March you had major contact where she messed with your world by not acknowledging the letter you wrote. So you haven't been using the magic of NC to heal. that diss when she didn't respond to your...

you don't have a full relationship with her and you still struggle to keep her in check just from seeing her on the weekends. And that tells me that you are dealing with two children. If you were dealing with a mature partner you wouldn't have to alpha up to keep her in line. When she acts out...

you got played by a real pro man. not your fault. you have to go NC. never look back. she's real trouble. Staying at her ex BF house who is an addict, who "tricked" her and "used" her? man that's a massive red flag right there. Why is she still in contact with X bf who used her? she's a liar...

expos why did you get divorced? your idea? her idea? what precipitated you filing? it sounds like you ended the marriage and usually that person comes out fairly strong? this is curious.

I am not so worried about her past. most girls these days have been sluts at one point in their history. I am concerned that she brings it up. that she talks about her history with other men. that she compares you. Are you engaging her and asking her or does it come out the blue? If you are in...

you got a baby momma, a baby, you're not married, you're breaking up, your baby mama wants to get rid of you. and it appears you drink too much. if you want to continue to have lots of bad stuff happen to you as you go through life, then by all means continue to drink a lot. if you want to start...

you need more no contact. bringing her back will guarantee that you have a 6 month setback. it's a terrible idea. You need at least 18mo of total no contact with her. And your last contact was only a month or so ago! So you really haven't been no contact with her. That's why it's so tough...

like, it was so annoying.

seems like you are too outcome dependent. you're somewhat needy for a relationship. you can say you're not. but an observer of what you have written here can see it. that means you're feeling lonely. and that comes across. I think you could benefit from the advice that says don't try so hard...

you just need to get higher and drunker. problem solved.